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The narrations could be unreliable though. ![CryFeels :cryfeels: :cryfeels:](data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7)
REASONS FOR NOT MARRYING
The Prophet said: After two hundred years. A man who will have no wife and children will be better. A time will come over men when he will be destroyed by his wife, parents and children. They will give him such trouble which will be out of his capacity. As a result, he will adopt such measures for which his religion will be ruined and he will be destroyed. The Prophet said: One of the two reasons of wantlessness is a less number of family members. One of the two reasons of poverty is having too many persons. Abu Sulaiman Darani was once asked about marriage and he replied : Patience of not having a wife is better than having patience of duty towards her; and the patience of duties towards her is better than patience at Hell-fire. He also said: He who searches for three things becomes attached to the world searching for livelihood, marrying a woman and writing stories. Hazrat Hasan said : When God wishes good of a man. He does not keep him engaged in family and property.
You can read the 4 volumes of the book here if you want to, but it feels incomplete the translation is not on point. For example,
At one instance, " أن تكون بكرا" is translated as "Bride should be virtuous" when it says "bride should be virgin".
You can read it in full in Arabic here too.
REASONS FOR NOT MARRYING
The Prophet said: After two hundred years. A man who will have no wife and children will be better. A time will come over men when he will be destroyed by his wife, parents and children. They will give him such trouble which will be out of his capacity. As a result, he will adopt such measures for which his religion will be ruined and he will be destroyed. The Prophet said: One of the two reasons of wantlessness is a less number of family members. One of the two reasons of poverty is having too many persons. Abu Sulaiman Darani was once asked about marriage and he replied : Patience of not having a wife is better than having patience of duty towards her; and the patience of duties towards her is better than patience at Hell-fire. He also said: He who searches for three things becomes attached to the world searching for livelihood, marrying a woman and writing stories. Hazrat Hasan said : When God wishes good of a man. He does not keep him engaged in family and property.
You can read the 4 volumes of the book here if you want to, but it feels incomplete the translation is not on point. For example,
At one instance, " أن تكون بكرا" is translated as "Bride should be virtuous" when it says "bride should be virgin".
You can read it in full in Arabic here too.