Discussion Foids with “BPD”

[UnluckyPrimate]

So I’m browsing SS and I see a post of someone complaining that their “fp” blocked them. Oh and btw “fp” is soyboy/foid terminology for favorite person and is usually an attachment issue related to bpd. As soon as I saw “fp” I automatically knew OP was a foid and stopped reading. But that post had me thinking about the astounding amount of people on that site and women in general that have bpd or claim to have it as an excuse for their treacherous behavior. Why do these vipers use it as an excuse or form of justification for their shitty behavior and unstable relationships. Is it really something with their brains? At this rate I believe most if not all women have bpd or some of the symptoms of it due to encounters I’ve had with women who claimed they have it. The patterns are there, I think a good amount of what they contrive as “bpd” is just female behavior derived from their nature. What do you think?

 

[Todd’s Pay Pig]

It stands for Borderline Personality Disorder (many mistake it for bipolar disorder ie the abbreviation but thats not what BPD stands for).

Anyway its a severe mental illness on the level of schizophrenia.

In other words they aren't faking it for attention nor do they just have a little psychological boo boo that can be easily cured with one or two therapy sessions and or treated with meds.

They need weekly intense DBT therapy sessions for like 7-10 years to get well and thats for the lucky ones that even can get well.

Men can have the disorder as well so its not strictly a female thing but culturally its most closely stereotypically associated with women.

Probably because they can in general do far more damage with it due to the imbalance of the dating market ie a male BPD for example simply will never have it as good as a female BPD being able to have any woman he wants easily moving on to the next victim unless they're a celebrity like the ass ugly Pete Davison (status maxxer) or extremely good looking rich Chad type with the 12 inch Coke can dong.

Anyway they use guys like us for free therapy (though the jokes on them too because all our listening and help doesn’t cure them) and they get used as blow up dolls by Chads that don’t give a fuck about them and who will never commit because Chad recognizes they’re insane/psychotic and only useful for getting that nut with not raising or producing his children much less being suitable wifey material (grand majority of them are fucking other dudes even behind Chads back if you can believe that).

Lastly, yeah probably the majority of women out there do follow the general BPD behavioral template at least in modernity but like Stone Cold Steve Austin once said about his gimmick/character it’s the real him just dialed up to 11.

It’s likely the same with BPD’s ie they just take regular female behaviors to the extreme which is why if you read Chads relationship stories with one you’ll typically hear them saying how intense the experience was compared to other relationships with normal women.

 

[UnluckyPrimate]

It stands for Borderline Personality Disorder (many mistake it for bipolar disorder ie the abbreviation but thats not what BPD stands for).

Anyway its a severe mental illness on the level of schizophrenia.

In other words they aren't faking it for attention nor do they just have a little psychological boo boo that can be easily cured with one or two therapy sessions and or treated with meds.

They need weekly intense DBT therapy sessions for like 7-10 years to get well and thats for the lucky ones that even can get well.

Men can have the disorder as well so its not strictly a female thing but culturally its most closely stereotypically associated with women.

Probably because they can in general do far more damage with it due to the imbalance of the dating market ie a male BPD for example simply will never have it as good as a female BPD being able to have any woman he wants easily moving on to the next victim unless they're a celebrity like the ass ugly Pete Davison (status maxxer) or extremely good looking rich Chad type with the 12 inch Coke can dong.

Anyway they use guys like us for free therapy (though the jokes on them too because all our listening and help doesn’t cure them) and they get used as blow up dolls by Chads that don’t give a fuck about them and who will never commit because Chad recognizes they’re insane/psychotic and only useful for getting that nut with not raising or producing his children much less being suitable wifey material (grand majority of them are fucking other dudes even behind Chads back if you can believe that).

Lastly, yeah probably the majority of women out there do follow the general BPD behavioral template at least in modernity but like Stone Cold Steve Austin once said about his gimmick/character it’s the real him just dialed up to 11.

It’s likely the same with BPD’s ie they just take regular female behaviors to the extreme which is why if you read Chads relationship stories with one you’ll typically hear them saying how intense the experience was compared to other relationships with normal women.

I wonder if their attachment issues is what causes this phenomenon of a “favorite person”. I heard that childhood neglect and abuse can contribute to this diagnosis. I’m also aware that men can have it too but I read that around 75% of diagnoses are women. I’m not sure on the prevalence of BPD but it seems decently high especially if the severity truly is near schizophrenia level like you said.

 

[Todd’s Pay Pig]

I wonder if their attachment issues is what causes this phenomenon of a “favorite person”. I heard that childhood neglect and abuse can contribute to this diagnosis. I’m also aware that men can have it too but I read that around 75% of diagnoses are women. I’m not sure on the prevalence of BPD but it seems decently high especially if the severity truly is near schizophrenia level like you said.

There’s at least two different theories that I know of ie one is it’s simply genetic meaning the girl will develop it regardless of how her parents raised her but the most popular and prevalent theory is it has to do with severe neglect usually from their mother as an infant.

Thus with every relationship they have the guy or FP is merely a hollow cardboard cut out stand in for mommy but neither he nor she is consciously aware of that.

The BPD never sees you (who you are) and doesn’t love you (they lack the ability since they never formed a true self and true identity in childhood due to the parental neglect so they exist only through facades of mirroring other’s personalities ie what the other person wants to see reflected back at them).

Which is why most people falsely come to believe that the BPD is their soulmate or their best friend ever etc but they find out that’s not true soon enough because the BPD never being able to bond and attach to them eventually discards them for a new FP savior figure to begin the failed from the start process all over again to attempt a do over with their mother through the new partner to finally get her mother to love her.

Which never ever works because the new partner just like you are not her mother and she’s a grown adult now and that ship has sailed.

Most of them even when made aware of this and what’s going on with their relationships will just put their fingers in their ears and stay sick since it’s easier.

Those that do the work to heal with a professional can obtain real stability and stop hurting themselves and others after about two years of hard work but they still shouldn’t date or attempt close friendships until their therapist says they are ready.

And some find out that the best thing for their continued mental health is to never date again.

The damage that happens to some of them from the disconnect with their mom as an infant I believe can permanently wreck their ability to ever be able to tolerate intimacy safely.

Intimacy is what they absolutely cannot handle without treatment and it’s intimacy that ultimately causes them to psychologically split on people and devalue and discard them.