Just stay out of r/SluttyConfessions or r/StupidSlutsClub or any of the like. Yes, there are real people there who probably aren't LARPing. But this paints an unrealistic picture of the real world. I'm not saying the real world isn't a place where men have to beg and women don't have to beg as much, it's clear that it's just easier for a woman to get laid than a man. It's clear that the same market for hot men doesn't exist like it does for hot women. But there's plenty of women who don't post on r/SluttyConfessions. And I'm not saying that means they're "based" either. Just not the same brand of stupid slut. These are extreme cases. You should focus on more realistic cases, if you're gonna focus on anything.