Whenever I observe a story about a wo**n in a relationship with an abusive boyfriend or husband, I simply laugh and move on about my day. Not because I'm happy that she's getting abused, I actually wish this weren't the case, believe it or not...but because she's the one who put herself in that position in the first place.
As you all know, foids have endless options when it comes to dating, and along the way to finding that abusive boyfriend or husband, they overlook guys like us, but then have the nerve to turn around expect guys like us to help them out of the hole they dug themselves in the first place.
Giving w***en sympathy for their relationship problems is a waste of time on so many levels. On the one hand, it's a waste of time because any advice you offer them falls on deaf ears. I've had foid friends in the past, and all they did was complain about their boyfriends, when you offered practical advice...it was as if I didn't say anything at all. Foids enjoy complaining just to complain and get their fill of drama. Further, giving them sympathy is a waste of time because they put themselves in that relationship to begin with.
Naturally, they expect everyone around them to solve their problems (when they're actually looking for solutions and not complaining just to be dramatic), and that's where their hapless beta orbiters (male friends) come into play.
This is one of the many traps clueless beta orbiters try to take advantage of when they attempt to swoop in and save the day, only to end up confused and bewildered when said foid ends up back with their abusive boyfriend anyway.
Foids create their own problems and don't deserve sympathy.
As you all know, foids have endless options when it comes to dating, and along the way to finding that abusive boyfriend or husband, they overlook guys like us, but then have the nerve to turn around expect guys like us to help them out of the hole they dug themselves in the first place.
Giving w***en sympathy for their relationship problems is a waste of time on so many levels. On the one hand, it's a waste of time because any advice you offer them falls on deaf ears. I've had foid friends in the past, and all they did was complain about their boyfriends, when you offered practical advice...it was as if I didn't say anything at all. Foids enjoy complaining just to complain and get their fill of drama. Further, giving them sympathy is a waste of time because they put themselves in that relationship to begin with.
Naturally, they expect everyone around them to solve their problems (when they're actually looking for solutions and not complaining just to be dramatic), and that's where their hapless beta orbiters (male friends) come into play.
This is one of the many traps clueless beta orbiters try to take advantage of when they attempt to swoop in and save the day, only to end up confused and bewildered when said foid ends up back with their abusive boyfriend anyway.
Foids create their own problems and don't deserve sympathy.
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