I think most Asian American men are completely clueless as to what feminist women think about Asian men.
Most Asian American men seem to have this notion that feminists are social justice warriors, are pro-LGBTQ, pro-black, and pro POC in general. They don't know that those feminists draw a line.
Asian men and Indian men often become the focal point in their feminist studies in colleges. The videos and subjects the feminist professors often display to their students tend to focus on patriarchal Asian societies in countries like Kyrgyzstan, Afghanistan, India, China, SK, Japan, etc...
You see, they may see us East Asian men as incredibly ugly and disgusting but despite that, they know that we have very high standards for our foids. That must drive them incredibly nuts to think about that.
We east Asian men do not want our foids fat with nose piercings, tattoos, dyed hair, tattered clothing, nasty degenerate slobby attitudes, etc... We want them feminine and soft looking, both in appearance and attitude.