Blackpill Foids aren't the only ones who have lost their ability to pair-bond

[mericks]

Everybody likes to talk about how the CC has ruined women's ability to pair-bond and develop a meaningful long-term relationship with a man. This is the obvious result of spending their youth fucking and discarding dozens or hundreds of men to the point that nobody will ever seem special to them.

The darker side of hypergamy, which hardly ever gets mentioned, is that most incels are incapable of pair-bonding as well. If you somehow managed to ascend, would you ever really be able to integrate this person into your life the way you're supposed to? After spending 10+ years learning to cope and live alone, how are you supposed to consider her an important part of your life when you already have the experience of living without her or anybody else?

Past a certain age, Foids no longer feel attached to their husbands or boyfriends because they know that they'll move on to another man when he's gone. We have the same problem, but from a different cause: even if you did have a girlfriend, you wouldn't ever feel truly attached to her because you already have the experience of spending your entire life alone.

 

[Deleted member 20811]

@OverBeforeItBegan made a great point about how ascension isn't possible after 25 and it makes sense why.

 

[FinnCel]

How can you pair bond with someone who has had more dicks in her than she can count? You are less than 1% to her.

 

[Joelossus]

@OverBeforeItBegan made a great point about how ascension isn't possible after 25 and it makes sense why.

Can you link the thread you're talking about?

 

[Deleted member 20811]

Can you link the thread you're talking about?

Forgot what it was tbh. I do remember that he said ascension doesn't exist after 25 (not his exact words but something like this)

 

[Haywire]

would you ever really be able to integrate this person into your life the way you're supposed to?

right. no

How can you pair bond with someone who has had more dicks in her than she can count? You are less than 1% to her.

right

 

[Speedloader]

How can you pair bond with someone who has had more dicks in her than she can count? You are less than 1% to her.

Based.

 

[Deleted member 24081]

How can you pair bond with someone who has had more dicks in her than she can count? You are less than 1% to her.

Pretty much this. You can’t pair bond with already heavily used goods.

 

[Personalityinkwell]

This is brutal, we've lost our ability to pair bond and we haven't even had sex. We lose in both departments

 

[Invalidusername]

idk, is there any proof that pair bonding can wear down in a man solely through time and lack of experience?

i feel any cel who gets into a relationship would instantly feel an attachment, however they wouldn't know how to respond bc of lack of experience

i mean, u have volcels who wait until the "right age" and they seem to do fine with their marriage

 

[Deleted member 24048]

Fuck, your probably right.

 

[Kiko12]

Well that your and other incels mistake .

You think a "serious" relationship supposed to be ..hard , and time consuming , and like a chore , like if she is your captian and you need to salute to her,

Well no .



For me a relationship with a woman is , i go to work , she go to work , i come home do my things , and she does her things , we fuck sometimes , we drink coffe sometimes , and relax with her .

Dont let her dictate what you guys are gonna do , if you dont wanna do it , then dont do it , tell her " i dont want to do it " and she will tell you " your boring " . Good , fuck the bitch , try to find other ... you already know how to be alone , its shouldnt scared you .

 

[Teutonic Knight]

Great point. This is why I consider myself a volcel at this point. After you're past a certain age and you lived alone all your life, getting into relationship with women is something that you can't even really imagine happening and you ask yourself if you even want this. I don't think I would be able to handle the daily life of a modern relationship.

There's a reason why marriages were better in the past when men and women were young when they married. Marriage is something you need to start when young and naive and get used to such life as early as possible. You share all the nice relationship memories with your partner and as you get older your kids are already semi-independent. Starting a marriage after living alone for 30 years and having no experience with women? JFL.

It's pretty much over if you didn't have a relationship yet once you're like 22 or 23. You missed all the important relationship experiences with women, you will never be able to properly function in a relationship.

 

[metabuxx]

Foids can't pair bond because they've had 1000's of dicks in them. They will find a new man to fuck the moment she leaves her previous partner. They get so much attention from every man that it is impossible for them to pair bond.

But I can pair bond. If I find a foid who remains loyal to me, I'll stay with her till my last breath.

Why do you think incels can't pair bond. We hardly get any attention from foids so if we get some attention why would give it up. Do you realize how hard it would be to find another woman??

 

[BodyFat10orRope]

The other part of it is can you even trust hair enough to pair bond with her? Imagine you're blackpilled and your woman has fucked dozens of men before you. You'll feel like she sees you as a betacuck to settle with and nothing more.

i feel any cel who gets into a relationship would instantly feel an attachment

I think that's me, assuming the woman is a 4.5+. However I imagine that in 5 more years that could change. The woman available would be older (more promiscuous) and I would be even more used to living alone.