Brutal Foid wants to marry bf after she confessed to cheating on him right after they got engaged

[PhineasSpear]

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I (M27) have been together with my fiance(F26) or the last 6 years… I have known her for 13+ since middle school, since I was a kid and ever since High school we were best friends.

This is what makes it even more bad. The fact they known each other since middle school.

We did not start dating until right before Covid as we went to different colleges. But before then we always stayed in contact.

Our relationship was full of love laughter and fun.

Or so he thought...

Anyways fast forward to 2 years ago, July 2024 I purchase a home for us to live in. We build this home together and everything is amazing.

August 2025 hits and she starts to say she is ready to get married and engaged and I agree. I finally propose in Jan 2026 and she tells me a week afterwards that she previously cheated on me last year.

This destroyed me.

I asked a ton of questions because I was so confused but this is what I know… She was in an affair with one of the bosses as her work. It started around Nov 2024 and ended around March 2025, but was very on and off. He came for a work event and things got physical in July 2025, he came for another one in August 2025 and she said she wanted to marry me so nothing happened. She said she never loved him but thought she did at one point. She claimed they only had sex 3 times but I believe more

During this period of time she was going out to work events weeekly getting super drunk and coming home late. I told her multiple times I was not okay with it but she insisted that it was normal when in fact, it was not anyways I just let it slide and push my boundaries even further. Turns out she was in an affair with the dude that she told me not to worry about. We have had prior conversations about this guy because she used to tell me how he would always flirt with her.

Anyways, I just don’t really know what to do because she claims that she does not feel like she is the same person as she was partially because she has been four months sober and feels like she knows what she wants but during that time it definitely was not the healthiest time in both of our relationships

She tells me that she knows that she wants to marry me and she wants to be with me forever, and although I had all these hopes and dreams of this happening, the fact that she did not tell me until a year later breaks my heart . I know many people here are probably gonna tell me to break up with her, but can someone please tell me a way that this can work out?

If this man was smart enough, he would break up with her. But of course, he's a cuck.

I know I was disrespected. I felt disrespected. I know my worth I know who I am but this girl feels different to me and I just really wanted a life with her.

I feel angry. I feel sad. I feel betrayed and she continues to tell me that this will never happen again and that was an older version of herself. Please help me.

TL;DR my long time best friend cheated on my with boss, but now wants to get married and start a family.

 

[Baasskap]

She will cheat again.

 

[PhineasSpear]

She will cheat again.

Once a cheater; always a cheater.

 

[Baasskap]

Once a cheater; always a cheater.

Why do people cheat I don't understand.

 

[WastedPotential]

 

[tired as fuck]

Brutal blackpill but he's a cuck dipshit. He needs to confine her in a basement and torture her on Roblox.

 

[Warm milk]

"He only have her body you have her soul" just marry her

 

[worst man alive]

average oofy doofy betabuxxer

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

normies are so funny, they already accepted that women can whore around like crazy before marriage, but if it's 2 weeks after she agreed to be his girlfriend, then suddenly it's the end of the world that she whored around

maybe the issue is THAT YOU NEVER ACTUALLY ACCEPTED THAT IT'S OKAY FOR WOMEN TO WHORE AROUND? MAYBE YOU ONLY ACCEPTED IT SO LONG AS IT'S INVISIBLE TO YOU AND YOU CAN'T SEE IT? AND AS SOON AS YOU BECOME AWARE OF IT YOU COLLAPSE INTO ANGER AND DEPRESSION? MAYBE YOU COULD HAVE JUST SHOWN MORE SPINE IN THE FIRST PLACE AND NOT ALLOWED WHORING TO BECOME MAINSTREAM? RETARDED FAGGOT NORMIES?​

 

[Qech__]

Fuck man, imagine pouring your heart and soul into somebody for so long and thinking you would grow old together just for this shit to end up happening. They knew each other since middle school ffs! He's gonna be absolutely fucked in the head getting back on the dating scene.

 

[deleted dude]

Fuck man, imagine pouring your heart and soul into somebody for so long and thinking you would grow old together just for this shit to end up happening. They knew each other since middle school ffs! He's gonna be absolutely fucked in the head getting back on the dating scene.

even chad gets cheated on in LTR's. Pump and dump is the only option for any man if the opportunity arises

 

[tranny destroyer]

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“Dating since foids had the right to choose”

 

[TooSomething]

"I know many people here are probably gonna tell me to break up with her, but can someone please tell me a way that this can work out?"

 

[Karlicel]

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This is what makes it even more bad. The fact they known each other since middle school.

Or so he thought...





If this man was smart enough, he would break up with her. But of course, he's a cuck.

stoneing

 

[undertaker77]

Foids love being cheated on by chads.

 

[goeypants]

he probably cant let her go, so best option would be to keep the whore as a sex slave concubine while you get another virgin wife

 

[CursedMutantSoul]

Why do people cheat I don't understand.

They get horny

 

[fokusin]

average oofy doofy betabuxxer

 

[Saint Nigger]

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This is what makes it even more bad. The fact they known each other since middle school.

Or so he thought...





If this man was smart enough, he would break up with her. But of course, he's a cuck.

Cucks shouldnt be in our society.

 

[romanstock]

Being a girl's boss at work will always be more of a marriage than an actual marriage.

 

[rudy_lyon]

This world is beyond fucked.

 

[Sir Silentium]

Actual suifuel

stoneing

Not long ago she would have been stoned by the entire town

Now not only does she face no punishment, but it is actually normalised by the left and feminists.

 

[esdeathlover]

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This is what makes it even more bad. The fact they known each other since middle school.

Or so he thought...





If this man was smart enough, he would break up with her. But of course, he's a cuck.

cant even be just be first anymore but this is why if a women works then your a cuckold he screams at her while you have negotiate feelings esdeath would never