JFL Foid scarred after being pumped-and-dumped by Chad. Now she constantly brings this up to her oofy-doofy bf

[PhineasSpear]

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Added nsfw tag because i have to go in detail.

So for context, before my girlfriend and i got together we were friends for a while. Now during this time she’d keep bringing up this one guy from her past to whom she was supposed to lose her virginity to but didn’t. The only thing i had known till now is that this was a casual hookup but nothing had happened since she couldn’t “put it in”.

I genuinely didn’t mind because i have also had sexual encounters before. Fast forward a few months and now we’re dating. And for some reason during one of our calls (currently LDR) the topic shifts to him and she talks about that night again. But for some reason she tells me something she never mentioned before and something id rather never have heard.

She mentioned how towards the end of the night he had “finished on her tits”. Completely unprompted. Since hearing this i have not been able to see her the same anymore. I understand that everybody has their own past but i genuinely wish i never heard this.

Also something that bothers me is how she said she hated that guy and was very uncomfortable but then goes on to let him do that to her?

I dont know how to feel and i would really love to hear some advice.

Later on he makes an update thread around four days later:

View: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1su6pwc/my23m_girlfriend_23f_told_me_things_id_rather_not/

This is an update to my previous post on this same subreddit.

Thanks to everybody who commented. I had a conversation with my girlfriend about the things that bothered me and I’m left even more troubled. So i thought id post an update here.

Before i begin, i wanted to clear up a confusion that a lot of people had. Im not upset that she had partners before me. Im not upset that the guy “finished on her tits”. This is not retroactive jealousy. One thing i hate in a relationship is when i feel like I’m being lied to. With this whole incident i hate that she tells me one thing but then gives me reason to believe otherwise. As somebody with clear boundaries she would never let anybody do anything to her that she didn’t like.

My only issue with this whole thing is that she said she hated the experience and him. But has given me reason to believe that maybe thats not true. I’ll explain further as i describe the conversation i had with her.

When i brought this up i gave her multiple points which left me confused.

1. The fact that she only ever spoke about him unprompted multiple times when we were friends and a few more times when we got together.
2. How she had called him “out of her league” and that he was the hottest guy in college. Once even told me how hot his current girlfriend is. All things that speak highly of him, which i personally wouldn’t do if i hated someone.
3. During this conversation for some reason she read out her journal entry from that day. She had told me before (completely unprompted) that they had done nothing the entire night. In the journal she had written that she hated the night and that she “never came once”
4. How she hung out with him after this night with a common friend group and still followed him on Instagram (to this day). Im only adding this here because some of the comments told me she could have been traumatised. Which i dont think is the case because of this.

Her only answers to all this was that when she said out of her league she meant that he has way more experience than her, which genuinely doesn’t make sense to me. And when asked about the journal entry she said that she wrote never finished but she meant that she didn’t have a good time. I told her that doesn’t make sense and that if they did actually do something she can tell me but she refused.

The entire reason the “finishing on her tits” thing is bothering me is because it adds on to the list of contradictions. If she liked him, she liked him. End of story. If she had sex with him or at least did some finger stuff, fine. It really doesn’t bother me.

What i hate is how i was continuously told she hated him and that nothing happened but she keeps giving me reasons to believe otherwise. The conversation with her did not help at all because she kept repeating the same things she had already told me.

How do i make her understand what’s bothering me? I really love her and i hate that she thinks I’m bothered by her past. I just want to feel like I’m not being lied to

Edit: people from the comments of this post and the previous one seem to think this guy was an ex. He was not.
He was a mutual friend of hers with whom she decided to hook up with. But according to her she hated it and didn’t sleep with him again.

Just Be First is undefeated. Also this dude's a massive idiot and a cuck for thinking her past doesn't matter.

Here are some interesting comments I found from both threads.

View: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1sqscyf/comment/oh9xmj7/

The comment above is OP's reply to one of the comments


View: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1su6pwc/comment/ohz9oq6/


View: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1sqscyf/comment/ohdtk75/

 

[andrej]

Don't date a non virgin and you won't have this problem. If I ever ascend and marry I will look for a pure foid

 

[PhineasSpear]

Don't date a non virgin and you won't have this problem. If I ever ascend and marry I will look for a pure foid

Agree.

 

[St3v3Cel]

All women are whores, exhibit #199494904400303827171818928273738838939390101616167181984740099958

 

[GeckoBus]

View: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1sqscyf/my_23m_girlfriend_23f_told_me_things_that_id/


Later on he makes an update thread around four days later:

View: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1su6pwc/my23m_girlfriend_23f_told_me_things_id_rather_not/







Just Be First is undefeated. Also this dude's a massive idiot and a cuck for thinking her past doesn't matter.

Here are some interesting comments I found from both threads.

View: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1sqscyf/comment/oh9xmj7/

The comment above is OP's reply to one of the comments


View: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1su6pwc/comment/ohz9oq6/


View: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1sqscyf/comment/ohdtk75/

mfw I realize the horror can not touch me for I am not a simp

"I will not fear what flesh can do unto me"
Psalm 56:4

 

[jo_yugislayer08]

View: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1sqscyf/my_23m_girlfriend_23f_told_me_things_that_id/


Later on he makes an update thread around four days later:

View: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1su6pwc/my23m_girlfriend_23f_told_me_things_id_rather_not/







Just Be First is undefeated. Also this dude's a massive idiot and a cuck for thinking her past doesn't matter.

Here are some interesting comments I found from both threads.

View: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1sqscyf/comment/oh9xmj7/

The comment above is OP's reply to one of the comments


View: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1su6pwc/comment/ohz9oq6/


View: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1sqscyf/comment/ohdtk75/

what the actual fuck was that , a retarded normalfag and a whore who spoke of chad in front of him how didn't he smash her head and split her body to halves ,this's the kind of normie who shits on incels for having a gf when this is the situation he's in jfl

 

[Robocell]

All women are whores, exhibit #199494904400303827171818928273738838939390101616167181984740099958

 

[PlummetedSoulofInk]

So basically the woman is clearly bitter that her chad BF left her and is now dating a woman on his looks level. It's why she refers to him as "out of her league". She reminds her current bf so he treasures her she's good enough.

 

[FoidsEnshittifyAll]

Don't date a non virgin and you won't have this problem. If I ever ascend and marry I will look for a pure foid

no pure foid. if kissed or even gamed/groomed by Chad, you still get the same result.

 

[andrej]

no pure foid. if kissed or even gamed/groomed by Chad, you still get the same result.

Yeah she has to be completely untouched physically and never had any perverse conversations with anyone so you get 100% purity. If she even says that she masturbated on some guy you're already getting cucked

 

[Initium]

Theres a reason like 99% of our ancestors valued virgin foids.

Only recently have whores being valued become a thing.

 

[fokusin]

Theres a reason like 99% of our ancestors valued virgin foids.

Only recently have whores being valued become a thing.

whores should have zero respect

 

[Initium]

whores should have zero respect

Should be less than zero. They should be punished. Shamed. Outcast.


But ya know, instead they are worshipped lmfao

 

[FoidsEnshittifyAll]

Yeah she has to be completely untouched physically and never had any perverse conversations with anyone so you get 100% purity. If she even says that she masturbated on some guy you're already getting cucked

facts. you arent a perfectionist, just stating the basics of purity.cause ive known on paper christian foids, who have taken entire trains from their behind door, yet the hymen was intact! quel wife material!!!!

 

[Teffedout]

facts. you arent a perfectionist, just stating the basics of purity.cause ive known on paper christian foids, who have taken entire trains from their behind door, yet the hymen was intact! quel wife material!!!!

Many such cases

 

[Blackpill Monk]

Normie relationship in nutshell

 

[Blackpill Monk]

It's better to be an single isolated incel than a degenerate simp cuck with no self respect

 

[Lo3e]

this cuck is sending me

 

[The Death Devil]

Guys who date or marry their female friends are always Oofy Doofy cucks. I've never once actually seen a guy like that who wasn't utterly pathetic and let his 'best friend' step all over him. If you aren't instantly getting a girl wet and have her smiling just by seeing your face for the first time, then that girl is a lost cause and you will never make a relationship out of her.

 

[Sir Silentium]

mfw I realize the horror can not touch me for I am not a simp

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That kid's going places, that's the valedictorian

"I will not fear what flesh can do unto me"
Psalm 56:4

Amen

 

[GeckoBus]

That kid's going places, that's the valedictorian

 

[GloomyGhoul]

Don't date a non virgin and you won't have this problem. If I ever ascend and marry I will look for a pure foid

Unfortunately that’s like 1% of foids these days

 

[andrej]

Unfortunately that’s like 1% of foids these days

Depends on the age. At 15 that's maybe 40% of foids and at 30 that number drops to a solid 0.000 and so on .1%

 

[chihiro]

foids are truly despicable little whore devils

 

[kekmaleaks]

Don't date a non virgin and you won't have this problem. If I ever ascend and marry I will look for a pure foid

 

[Leon98]

Average female on Reddit

 

[whoresaretoilets]

"his dick was too big and really hurt"

 

[niggerrapist5'6]

I thought you need to have some kind of intelligence to get a foid but this just proved that all you need is to be a normal looking cuck

 

[End Hypergamy]

It's always these "mentally scarred" foids that use the excuse to not give ugly guys a chance.

 

[mysoginymaxxer]

Reading this enrages me so much, Her pretending not to have enjoyed it when it turns her on just by thinking about it + the guy staying with that stupid whore

 

[esdeathlover]

Don't date a non virgin and you won't have this problem. If I ever ascend and marry I will look for a pure foid

no khhv only

 

[VersoffenerAssi]

Don't date a non virgin and you won't have this problem. If I ever ascend and marry I will look for a pure foid

Good luck in the age of gigawhores...

 

[esdeathlover]

View: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1sqscyf/my_23m_girlfriend_23f_told_me_things_that_id/


Later on he makes an update thread around four days later:

View: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1su6pwc/my23m_girlfriend_23f_told_me_things_id_rather_not/







Just Be First is undefeated. Also this dude's a massive idiot and a cuck for thinking her past doesn't matter.

Here are some interesting comments I found from both threads.

View: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1sqscyf/comment/oh9xmj7/

The comment above is OP's reply to one of the comments


View: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1su6pwc/comment/ohz9oq6/


View: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1sqscyf/comment/ohdtk75/

I feel mind raped reading this

 

[VersoffenerAssi]

what the actual fuck was that , a retarded normalfag and a whore who spoke of chad in front of him how didn't he smash her head and split her body to halves ,this's the kind of normie who shits on incels for having a gf when this is the situation he's in jfl

That's the reality for pretty much all normie men who aren't Chad. They eventually get Chad's cum bucket, who just can't forget Chad's thundercock.

 

[andrej]

no khhv only

Good avi Esdeath is peak

 

[esdeathlover]

Good avi Esdeath is peak

esdeath was khhv for tatsumi

 

[Mailercel]

Don't date a non virgin and you won't have this problem. If I ever ascend and marry I will look for a pure foid

Unless you are Chad.

 

[THERAP1st]

Don't date a non virgin and you won't have this problem. If I ever ascend and marry I will look for a pure foid