imagine a foid on a subreddit for lonely (males) asking for orbiters whilst making it explicitly clear that she has a boyfriend
Foids are biologically hard-wired to do two things:
1. acquire Chad's sperm
2. acquire resources from non-Chads.
It completely usual for foids to be often spotted playing this game of making themselves visible for non-Chads in order to acquire resources (such as money, favors, free stuff, psychological validation, support, upvotes, "likes", updoots, karma, cookie points etc.) from these thirsty non-Chad males.
how is she lonely, i will never understand...
Understand this: in womanese, the word "lonely" means: "in the past few minutes, I have neither been supplied with Chad's sperm nor with non-Chads' resources beyond the level I consider usual for me".
Despite having the same letter arrangement, the semantics of the word "lonely" as used by foids (womanese) has absolutely nothing to do with the semantics of the word "lonely" as used by non-Chad males. Womanese is a parasitic language that is written as, and sounds like, any other language, but have certain notable semantic differences that are useful specifically for foids.
Another way to put it: foids, when using language, build entire new semantics on top of the words commonly accepted. They do that in order to facilitate their schemes of extracting resources from non-Chads and acquiring and enjoying social status.
