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But compared to past relationships, as disastrous as they were, this one feels almost ... boring in comparison. I don't crave to be with him, I don't get wild fireworks when he kisses me, I don't feel my heart flutter when I get a text from him. And for the first time ever, I almost prefer just hanging out in his kitchen and making dinner together to being intimate (which is totally opposite to past relationships that were mostly built around sex).
I know it's early days, but he's already expressed a strong interest in me and I feel like my feelings aren't quite matched to his. Should I be feeling more intensely about him? Or is this just what being in a healthy relationship feels like?
TL;DR: Always had toxic, very intense relationships with 'bad boys'. Started dating a friend who's kind and genuinely likes me. However, I don't feel intensely about him (compared to past relationships), although I do like him a lot and it makes me happy to be around him. Is this because he's not right for me, or is this just what a healthy relationship feels like?
JFL! Foids would rather get abused, raped, and degraded by thug Chads instead of settling for a normie. She even admits that she would rather hang out than have sex with him. Sex is for Chads only, after all.