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LifeFuel Finally tried something new: tried out for a local beer league hockey team to make friends

Diddlium

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I've been a shut-in for so long. But one dream I always had was to play hockey. My parents were too poor to have me learn as a kid so I missed the opportunity but I always wanted to. Taught myself to skate and figured why not try for a men's hobby team. Issue is, I'm socially retarded and was scared around being a bunch of jocks

Decided to muster up the courage to send an email to the local rec team. They replied, offered I come by, which I did. Issue was, I didn't know what to expect and I expected the worst. I figured I had nothing to lose except stay indoors all the time after work, but driving there was nerve wracking. Nearly vomited in my car before stepping out and walking to the rink

Long story short, I suck at hockey (no shocker) but the guys were really supportive. Most were older guys in their late 30s to early 50s. Guys who work day jobs and just play for fun. Totally different than the jocks I expected.

Honestly bros, it felt nice. It felt really nice actually trying something new, being around grown men who enjoyed a hobby and them accepting me in. We even had a few beers afterwards, since they always bring a crate after practice. I don't know if I'll go back next week and the season ends soon. But for 2 hours, it really felt amazing to not feel like shit for once in my life

10/10 would recommend
 
Hope it goes well for you
Honestly I was so worn out afterwards I thought I was going to die while out there. But I set as a goal this year to at least do 1 single thing to try and make actual friends. Been rough so far and I kept dragging it out because I just have really crippling social anxiety and I'm generally super awkward around people
 
Honestly I was so worn out afterwards I thought I was going to die while out there. But I set as a goal this year to at least do 1 single thing to try and make actual friends. Been rough so far and I kept dragging it out because I just have really crippling social anxiety and I'm generally super awkward around people
Same. I get burnt out really fast and needs a lot of time to myself afterwards.
 
good for you man, sounds fun
 

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