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finally got the courage to text a girl after 6 months of debating every single day

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She hasn't responded yet and it's been 17 hours.
 
Might be a fakecel if you are text messaging women.
 
When was the last time you text messaged a girl?
Like a a year ago but only because I needed to get their contact info for an assignment in college. Probably one of the only times I texted one.
 
Like a a year ago but only because I needed to get their contact info for an assignment in college. Probably one of the only times I texted one.

That don't count. Might aswell be text messaging your mom.

When was the last time you were text messaging a girl for other reasons? Me? Never.
 
Well, same just happened to me. I was just lurking around, preparing to text one girl. Judging by posts on her socials, she just broke with her bf, so it was good chance for me. I told myself, if i fail one more time, i go register here, because it would be over.

May 18th i did it and went to sleep, assuming that when i wake up, and turn on my pc, i will have that "+1 new message" from her. When i woke up i was even nervous a little bit. I checked, aaand nothing. She just ignored me.
So i registered here, finally. It's never been so over, like that day.
 
Good on you for working up the courage.
 
You've got guts, but if it's 17 hours I don't think you'll be getting a response unfortunately
 
There's no hope if it's been 17 hours. She would respond to Chad in less than a minute.
 
its over dude. girls look at their phone every millisecond you think she hasn't seen it? yeah right. maybe she's taking her time to write a well thought out response. LOL
 
How can you debate something like that for 6 months? Are you trolling seriously bro wtf??
 
its over dude. girls look at their phone every millisecond you think she hasn't seen it? yeah right. maybe she's taking her time to write a well thought out response. LOL
 
its over dude. girls look at their phone every millisecond you think she hasn't seen it? yeah right. maybe she's taking her time to write a well thought out response. LOL
Shes telling Chad now to come over and fuck her in her ass without condom...and after they will laugh about OP texting her kek
 
That don't count. Might aswell be text messaging your mom.

When was the last time you were text messaging a girl for other reasons? Me? Never.

You have to at least try you know.
I got rejected a lot before consider myself a incel.
 
What do you mean by debating? Do you know her IRL?
It may sounds weird but talking to her IRL it's always better since there is the intimidating factor so she can't ignore you. And you will get the rejection way more faster.
 
Apart from trying my luck on tinder, I haven't messaged a girl in ages unless it was for school or something.
 
How can you debate something like that for 6 months? Are you trolling seriously bro wtf??

A life of rejection or inexperience leads to something as simple as texting a girl to take monumental effort. Now imagine you are essentially requesting that person to judge you for validation, a final pass at yay or nay. The entire prospect is terrifying and I sympathize completely with OP.
 
it took u 6 months to text a girl?

99% chance your too late.
 
What do you mean by debating? Do you know her IRL?
It may sounds weird but talking to her IRL it's always better since there is the intimidating factor so she can't ignore you. And you will get the rejection way more faster.
debating to myself whether i should text her or not
 
I've gotten pretty good at approaching women online. All that's going to happen is they're going to ignore me or say no. Those are the only two responses.
 
You took a chance well done fuck it you have more balls than most of us that are not trying be proud of that and don’t stop trying
 
She never responded despite sending out multiple snaps so I know she was on her phone. I got ghosted. Fucking raped. I can't stop crying now.
sad thing is I got a text today from my cell phone carrier and thought it was her. I was so excited and relieve I shouted for joy. Then I saw the actual text. This has been an emotional roller coaster. I can't handle it.
 
Have you talked to this girl often prior to texting?
 
You have 25 thousand tinder passes?
 
fucking kek wtf did you think was gonna happen when you have a girls number and never text her for 6 months.
Have you talked to this girl often prior to texting?
JFL he probably hasn't yet is surprised she ghosted him kek
 
Time to update the "passed" number to 25,213. :feelsrope:
She never responded despite sending out multiple snaps so I know she was on her phone. I got ghosted. Fucking raped. I can't stop crying now.
sad thing is I got a text today from my cell phone carrier and thought it was her. I was so excited and relieve I shouted for joy. Then I saw the actual text. This has been an emotional roller coaster. I can't handle it.

Getting a text/call and getting excited thinking it was someone who gives a fuck about you, only to see it's a telemarketer or your cell phone company...I've been there many times. Lethal SuicideFuel. :feelscry:
 
brutal
one of the worst sensations tbh
 

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