I read all these RESPECT ME DAMMIT journal entries written by women on fetlife. The gist of these screeds is that women feel like they should never have to suffer a man sending them a rude private message.
These are women who like being choked by collars, pissed on, whipped, etc. They are women who post slutty, nude, and hardcore pictures of themselves on their profile for anyone to see. And -surprise surprise - men send them sexually explicit messages. Oh no, now you've done it - you've offended this delicate little slut's sensibilities! Have these bitches ever heard of mixed signals?
Would these whores prefer men send messages threatening to cut their pussies up? Oh wait, that's a threat reserved for women: "I WILL CUT YOUR BALLS OFF AND HAND THEM TO YOU WITH A SMILE ON MY PUDGY FACE! " (quote from this whore's rant)
Below is the journal entry that triggered me, but this is only one of many - I tell you there a lot of these.
These are women who like being choked by collars, pissed on, whipped, etc. They are women who post slutty, nude, and hardcore pictures of themselves on their profile for anyone to see. And -surprise surprise - men send them sexually explicit messages. Oh no, now you've done it - you've offended this delicate little slut's sensibilities! Have these bitches ever heard of mixed signals?
Would these whores prefer men send messages threatening to cut their pussies up? Oh wait, that's a threat reserved for women: "I WILL CUT YOUR BALLS OFF AND HAND THEM TO YOU WITH A SMILE ON MY PUDGY FACE! " (quote from this whore's rant)
Below is the journal entry that triggered me, but this is only one of many - I tell you there a lot of these.
As a Woman on this Site, I Deserve NO Respect....
Journal Entry | 22 Comments · 25 Love It | 1 day ago
Warning: There will be caps just to make sure my message is read, loud and clear. And, this is ONLY FOR THE SHITTY MEN, NOT ALL MEN! Good men do exist and Thank God for them!
....and that's EXACTLY how fucktards on this site make it seem like. How you men message women sometimes, you fucking suck at human decency. You have none! The way you talk to women is a direct way of you showing how much respect you have for yourself and for any woman in your life, past and/or present.
So, you think if you send us something derogatory, replusive, revolting, highly sexualized connected to terms of endearment, we're supposed to adhere to your words and be charmed?!
AND, let's not forget that our profiles perfectly state our hard limits, guidelines and rules. But, you continue to message us your replusive shit that smells like the turd you are.
You do realize you look like a shit throwing monkey to us, right?! Not. Attractive. At. All!
And, Good heavens, if a woman sticks up for herself, you turn the tables on us as if we're the problem; you belittle us, antagonize us, cuss us out and make us out to be fucking cunts.
ARE YOU FUCKING SERIOUS?! God, thin headed people are not short in capacity at all in this world.
Listen up you dense, dick hanging, shitheads....US WOMEN DON'T OWE YOU A GOD DAMN THING! YOU COME TO US TALKING LIKE WE'RE SHIT UNDER YOUR FEET, WE WILL CONTINUE TO TALK TO YOU THE SAMEWAY! I WILL CUT YOUR BALLS OFF AND HAND THEM TO YOU WITH A SMILE ON MY PUDGY FACE! I'M NOT YOUR BITCH! I'M YOUR EQUAL!
WE ARE SOMEONE'S MOTHER, AUNT, SISTER, BEST FRIEND, WIFE, GIRLFRIEND....WE ARE IMPERIAL IN SOMEONE'S EYES. WE ARE LOVED AND CHERISHED. WE ARE NOT JUST EYE CANDY SHOWN ON THIS SITE. THERE ARE LIVES WE DO INDEED LEAD. THIS SITE IS NOT THE CENTER OF OUR LIVES, ITS JUST AN EXTENSION TO OURSELVES.
YOU CONTINUE TO DISRESPECT US, THE WISHES OF OUR PROFILE AND OUR RELATIONSHIPS, WE WILL CONTINUE TO HUMBLE YOU! I DON'T GIVE A SHIT WHAT YOU SAY ABOUT ME TO ANYONE ON THIS PAGE! THE ONLY CARE I HAVE OF ANY THOUGHT ABOUT MYSELF IS MINE.
YOU COME FOR ME, I'LL DAMN SURE COME FOR YOU! I'm not what's between my legs. As a matter of fact, my balls are more sweeter, plumpy and wayyyyyy bigger than yours ever will be. So, gag on that, partner.
Can we take a moment to pay our respects to the block button?! Thank heavens for that sweet little nugget. Why waste our energy on these incompetent asshats, when we can just rid them. As Martha Stewert would say.... "It's a good thing."
I wrote this because I've heard way too many times of women being disrespected on this site. So much so that they either leave or consider it. That's absolutely horrible. If any of you women need support or someone to talk to, friend me! Message me! It'd be nice if we could all support each other here.
In closing, I'll share this: This site was made to bring the BDSM community together. To educate, ensure safetyness, make like-minded friends, have a voice and not feel ostracized, to feel we do belong, that we're not alone, and to share in our journey and lives with one another. This site was not made for people to get laid. This site has lost it's integrity and purpose to why it exists in the first place for the past few years. It's sad! But, we can thank the oh so many horny toads for that whom hide behind a title that they truly have no idea the true emphasis of.
Be a better man! Talk to women with diginity and respect! It'll take you further in life than you can imagine.
Love to you all!
P.S: This is a note I wrote to my boyfriend after I was disrespected from a guy on here. My boyfriend sent it to the guy where he apologized for his actions. I hope he meant it and I hope he changes, for the best.
"He needs to learn to engage with a woman with common decency, regard and respect. The way he talks to women, he'll never find someone of substance. A common denominator among men on that site is that it's made to help people get an easy lay. That's absolute false, quite the contrary! It was made to educate about BDSM, to ensure safe acts, help the community to grow and build a foundation, to gain a voice, a safe place we all can come to unite and to meet like-minded individuals. It's not cute or funny how he talks to women, he looks like a fucking jackass that us women do not take seriously, at all. To us, he's just another desperate man who types with his dick and does not use his intellect to engage in a articulate conversation. If he could do that, I would've given him a chance for dialogue, to get to know one another as friends. But, you disrespect a woman not once, but twice, she doesn't give you a third time. Dismissed."
Journal Entry | 22 Comments · 25 Love It | 1 day ago
Warning: There will be caps just to make sure my message is read, loud and clear. And, this is ONLY FOR THE SHITTY MEN, NOT ALL MEN! Good men do exist and Thank God for them!
....and that's EXACTLY how fucktards on this site make it seem like. How you men message women sometimes, you fucking suck at human decency. You have none! The way you talk to women is a direct way of you showing how much respect you have for yourself and for any woman in your life, past and/or present.
So, you think if you send us something derogatory, replusive, revolting, highly sexualized connected to terms of endearment, we're supposed to adhere to your words and be charmed?!
AND, let's not forget that our profiles perfectly state our hard limits, guidelines and rules. But, you continue to message us your replusive shit that smells like the turd you are.
You do realize you look like a shit throwing monkey to us, right?! Not. Attractive. At. All!
And, Good heavens, if a woman sticks up for herself, you turn the tables on us as if we're the problem; you belittle us, antagonize us, cuss us out and make us out to be fucking cunts.
ARE YOU FUCKING SERIOUS?! God, thin headed people are not short in capacity at all in this world.
Listen up you dense, dick hanging, shitheads....US WOMEN DON'T OWE YOU A GOD DAMN THING! YOU COME TO US TALKING LIKE WE'RE SHIT UNDER YOUR FEET, WE WILL CONTINUE TO TALK TO YOU THE SAMEWAY! I WILL CUT YOUR BALLS OFF AND HAND THEM TO YOU WITH A SMILE ON MY PUDGY FACE! I'M NOT YOUR BITCH! I'M YOUR EQUAL!
WE ARE SOMEONE'S MOTHER, AUNT, SISTER, BEST FRIEND, WIFE, GIRLFRIEND....WE ARE IMPERIAL IN SOMEONE'S EYES. WE ARE LOVED AND CHERISHED. WE ARE NOT JUST EYE CANDY SHOWN ON THIS SITE. THERE ARE LIVES WE DO INDEED LEAD. THIS SITE IS NOT THE CENTER OF OUR LIVES, ITS JUST AN EXTENSION TO OURSELVES.
YOU CONTINUE TO DISRESPECT US, THE WISHES OF OUR PROFILE AND OUR RELATIONSHIPS, WE WILL CONTINUE TO HUMBLE YOU! I DON'T GIVE A SHIT WHAT YOU SAY ABOUT ME TO ANYONE ON THIS PAGE! THE ONLY CARE I HAVE OF ANY THOUGHT ABOUT MYSELF IS MINE.
YOU COME FOR ME, I'LL DAMN SURE COME FOR YOU! I'm not what's between my legs. As a matter of fact, my balls are more sweeter, plumpy and wayyyyyy bigger than yours ever will be. So, gag on that, partner.
Can we take a moment to pay our respects to the block button?! Thank heavens for that sweet little nugget. Why waste our energy on these incompetent asshats, when we can just rid them. As Martha Stewert would say.... "It's a good thing."
I wrote this because I've heard way too many times of women being disrespected on this site. So much so that they either leave or consider it. That's absolutely horrible. If any of you women need support or someone to talk to, friend me! Message me! It'd be nice if we could all support each other here.
In closing, I'll share this: This site was made to bring the BDSM community together. To educate, ensure safetyness, make like-minded friends, have a voice and not feel ostracized, to feel we do belong, that we're not alone, and to share in our journey and lives with one another. This site was not made for people to get laid. This site has lost it's integrity and purpose to why it exists in the first place for the past few years. It's sad! But, we can thank the oh so many horny toads for that whom hide behind a title that they truly have no idea the true emphasis of.
Be a better man! Talk to women with diginity and respect! It'll take you further in life than you can imagine.
Love to you all!
P.S: This is a note I wrote to my boyfriend after I was disrespected from a guy on here. My boyfriend sent it to the guy where he apologized for his actions. I hope he meant it and I hope he changes, for the best.
"He needs to learn to engage with a woman with common decency, regard and respect. The way he talks to women, he'll never find someone of substance. A common denominator among men on that site is that it's made to help people get an easy lay. That's absolute false, quite the contrary! It was made to educate about BDSM, to ensure safe acts, help the community to grow and build a foundation, to gain a voice, a safe place we all can come to unite and to meet like-minded individuals. It's not cute or funny how he talks to women, he looks like a fucking jackass that us women do not take seriously, at all. To us, he's just another desperate man who types with his dick and does not use his intellect to engage in a articulate conversation. If he could do that, I would've given him a chance for dialogue, to get to know one another as friends. But, you disrespect a woman not once, but twice, she doesn't give you a third time. Dismissed."
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