Women can't be funny because a prerequisite of comedy is a sense of camaraderie, but the modern woman exists in an increasingly absolutely disjoint world from men when it comes to sexual capital and its use. Things that seem like jokes in the context of that world (and which may get a cackle out of other toxic women) fall flat on the ears of men. It's like Bill Gates joking about the street price of a banana — it's punching down from the top of a mile-high skyscraper. Not funny.
In the case of this specific meme, the only thing men see is that the woman unerringly chose a 0.01% violent man over 99.99% of non-violent men and is now complaining about it, while simultaneously punching down on the latter men's frustration. Not funny.