So some update about my situation with the 'FAW' who not only rejected me today morning after talking for multiple months, but also announced this evening that she wouldn't even talk to me about anything, not even as friends, any more.
She claims to have had no success dating for multiple years, then she makes a post on Reddit announcing what she wants. She multiple times states that she wants a virgin to have her first time with, in contrast to all the other women who want someone experienced. So obviously I try my luck because I want to prove "femcels" that it's really easy to have a relationship with someone who might be boring, but should be fine in many regards. We talk for a couple of months about various stuff, exchanging updates about our lives, stuff we eat etc. However, I have not seen her face and she blocked whenever I was talking about a meetup (she lived on a different continent tbf), so even though I was talking for multiple months I couldn't make a connection to her.
Anyway, now today morning she tells me that she found a better guy she is in an LDR now and this would make our friendship complicated. He is less interested in her life, but he is not an incel (but blackpilled). So essentially he has the same opinion as incels here, but better genes.
For some time today I thought that if I had told her I was a blackpilled incel earlier that I would have had a chance. But that was a mirage. What was much more important to her was "studying" incels, i.e. discussing how the blackpill affects incels and dating with someone who has experience dating. Even though she was intrigued by his blackpill ideology, she explicitly requested that I should "stay off .is".
In detail, for some time during the day she seemed pretty compassionate, for example telling me, after she came across some post of mine where I had some suicide ideation, that she also had them sometimes and that I could always talk to her about it. Well, just a few hours later she broke up all contact and gave me a couple of suggestions as parting message (obviously without intending me to give a chance to argue about them).
Among them were
What I have to give her: She is one of the few at least half-selfaware FAWs. She admitted to me in her last message, where I argued about her "suggestions" and told her how much she hurt me, that it is hypocritical for her to claim to want a virgin and then love a blackpilled non-incel. She also admitted that she should not have said the cope about "happy 40 year old virgins". But she also suggested that she should have just blocked me and moved on to hurt me less ... which is again typical foid-like behaviour. Instead of acknowledging how much you hurt someone, you just block them so you don't need to read it.
It did not come to her mind that instead of blocking or giving random suggestions she could have just said "Hey, as I am in a relationship now, I feel like I should not talk to other men any more. Thus, we should stop talking". If she would have wanted to be _really_ nice she could also have said "Thus, even though I think you are a sweet guy and I liked you, we have to stop talking to be fair to my partner". That's something every man understands. She is not a slut, she has one relationship and does not talk to other men in a friendly way when in one, that's completely normal.
PS: I should have written it directly when I felt hurt. Now it reads ... sanitised. I hope the content still shows how egregious her behaviour was
TL;DR: Typical femcel easily finds multiple suitable partners as soon as she looks and gives the partner she rejects hurtful "advice"
She claims to have had no success dating for multiple years, then she makes a post on Reddit announcing what she wants. She multiple times states that she wants a virgin to have her first time with, in contrast to all the other women who want someone experienced. So obviously I try my luck because I want to prove "femcels" that it's really easy to have a relationship with someone who might be boring, but should be fine in many regards. We talk for a couple of months about various stuff, exchanging updates about our lives, stuff we eat etc. However, I have not seen her face and she blocked whenever I was talking about a meetup (she lived on a different continent tbf), so even though I was talking for multiple months I couldn't make a connection to her.
Anyway, now today morning she tells me that she found a better guy she is in an LDR now and this would make our friendship complicated. He is less interested in her life, but he is not an incel (but blackpilled). So essentially he has the same opinion as incels here, but better genes.
For some time today I thought that if I had told her I was a blackpilled incel earlier that I would have had a chance. But that was a mirage. What was much more important to her was "studying" incels, i.e. discussing how the blackpill affects incels and dating with someone who has experience dating. Even though she was intrigued by his blackpill ideology, she explicitly requested that I should "stay off .is".
In detail, for some time during the day she seemed pretty compassionate, for example telling me, after she came across some post of mine where I had some suicide ideation, that she also had them sometimes and that I could always talk to her about it. Well, just a few hours later she broke up all contact and gave me a couple of suggestions as parting message (obviously without intending me to give a chance to argue about them).
Among them were
- get off .is: Of course, she is intrigued when an non-incel talks about the blackpill and how some persons (like me) will never be able to have sex. But when an actual Incel comes and wants to share his experience, then she wants to have nothing to do with it. It's the foid-like mentality of treating us like a zoo, maybe enjoying our misery
- get a sexrobot or just be a happy 40 year old virgin. Yes, that was actually something she, a FAW who claims to want a virgin, says to someone who fulfills her stated requirements better because "romance is irrational". In her message where she tells me we need to stop talking.
What I have to give her: She is one of the few at least half-selfaware FAWs. She admitted to me in her last message, where I argued about her "suggestions" and told her how much she hurt me, that it is hypocritical for her to claim to want a virgin and then love a blackpilled non-incel. She also admitted that she should not have said the cope about "happy 40 year old virgins". But she also suggested that she should have just blocked me and moved on to hurt me less ... which is again typical foid-like behaviour. Instead of acknowledging how much you hurt someone, you just block them so you don't need to read it.
It did not come to her mind that instead of blocking or giving random suggestions she could have just said "Hey, as I am in a relationship now, I feel like I should not talk to other men any more. Thus, we should stop talking". If she would have wanted to be _really_ nice she could also have said "Thus, even though I think you are a sweet guy and I liked you, we have to stop talking to be fair to my partner". That's something every man understands. She is not a slut, she has one relationship and does not talk to other men in a friendly way when in one, that's completely normal.
PS: I should have written it directly when I felt hurt. Now it reads ... sanitised. I hope the content still shows how egregious her behaviour was
TL;DR: Typical femcel easily finds multiple suitable partners as soon as she looks and gives the partner she rejects hurtful "advice"
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