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Blackpill Father Figure is a myth & Parenting has no effect on children

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The big question we incels often ask ourselfs ; Did our parents influenced us and exaccelerated or even created our inceldom? Well according steven pinker , parenting has minimal effect and will not influence personality (inhibition & social skills).

Here are two links to steven pinker explanations.

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2)

Well now you might ask if parenting or a father figure has no influence. Why do children turn out worse with single parents than with two parents with a healty upbringing. Well it seems that it has nothing to do with the environment , but rather with the genes. Children were the father left them will turn out like their father because of genetic inheritance. If your father was a bad boy with no care for the family you will likely turn out to be like him because of genetic inheritance. Thus the environment has minimal effect.

Conclussion: even if we had alpha father figure we would have turned out incels , because the genetic influence is much more bigger and determined than the parenting influence.

Cope or Rope
 
it doesnt affect who you are but what you know. you cant say that someone that has been guided by nt parents and is fairly bluepilled parents and a disenfranchised dude with a resigned dad at home will be the same
 
it doesnt affect who you are but what you know. you cant say that someone that has been guided by nt parents and is fairly bluepilled parents and a disenfranchised dude with a resigned dad at home will be the same
You dont seem to understand my point. It doesnt matter what you know since it has no influence on what you are. We know the blackpill but the blackpill doesnt help us to get out of inceldom , because it genetics. An alpha father cant change a natural beta child. He can give him knowledge but that knowledge wont change who his and thus has no influence on his personality.
 
That isn't true; parenting does have an effect on kids. However, it's only 50%. The other 50% is their social circle.
 
Personality is a myth in the first place. It doesn't exist. Only a perception of who you are and what your personality is, which is based on looks.
 
That isn't true; parenting does have an effect on kids. However, it's only 50%. The other 50% is their social circle.
If you saw the videos you might have agreed with me. Have you seen the video or did you react out of fear and emotions?
 
low iq with no science behind it.
 
My father is awful and I turned out to be an incel. I still think I would be a Chad if I were good looking despite how my parents act.
 
Explain how parent figures delay puberty in females.
 
Pinker is a fraud, trust me bro, he was my professor at Harvard and I ended up confronting him about his homosexuality. He said "no no bro, you got it all wrong, I just said that the smell of your ass is a result of nature not nurture", then I asked him, "Pinker, if that's the case, then how come your ass smelt different today than when I smelt it in the shower yesterday?". He was shocked and didn't know what to say. He actually had to rewrite a few books because of the epiphany that I made him realize.
 
If you saw the videos you might have agreed with me. Have you seen the video or did you react out of fear and emotions?

We are talking about two seperate things. I am talking about if a kid will turn into a degenerate or not. I'm not talking about inceldom.
 
lol @ your pseudo science theories
 
Having good parents always helps.
 
blackcel cope
 
We are talking about two seperate things. I am talking about if a kid will turn into a degenerate or not. I'm not talking about inceldom.


It’s 80% genetic and 20% social
 
Low IQ. Everyone I know who has divorced parents works service jobs.
 
Well now you might ask if parenting or a father figure has no influence. Why do children turn out worse with single parents than with two parents with a healty upbringing. Well it seems that it has nothing to do with the environment , but rather with the genes. Children were the father left them will turn out like their father because of genetic inheritance. If your father was a bad boy with no care for the family you will likely turn out to be like him because of genetic inheritance. Thus the environment has minimal effect.

Conclussion: even if we had alpha father figure we would have turned out incels , because the genetic influence is much more bigger and determined than the parenting influence.

Cope or Rope
You dont seem to understand my point. It doesnt matter what you know since it has no influence on what you are. We know the blackpill but the blackpill doesnt help us to get out of inceldom , because it genetics. An alpha father cant change a natural beta child. He can give him knowledge but that knowledge wont change who his and thus has no influence on his personality.
 
i think that having a strong male model can imprint you early on how to be dominate and confident with foids..if your dad is a sniveling cuck then you are not going to get that learning experience on how to act properly. I also believe genes play a huge role in who you are but its not the only factor.
 
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The big question we incels often ask ourselfs ; Did our parents influenced us and exaccelerated or even created our inceldom? Well according steven pinker , parenting has minimal effect and will not influence personality (inhibition & social skills).

Here are two links to steven pinker explanations.

1)

2)

Well now you might ask if parenting or a father figure has no influence. Why do children turn out worse with single parents than with two parents with a healty upbringing. Well it seems that it has nothing to do with the environment , but rather with the genes. Children were the father left them will turn out like their father because of genetic inheritance. If your father was a bad boy with no care for the family you will likely turn out to be like him because of genetic inheritance. Thus the environment has minimal effect.

Conclussion: even if we had alpha father figure we would have turned out incels , because the genetic influence is much more bigger and determined than the parenting influence.

Cope or Rope

lol of course it matters how a child is raised. The problem is that these days you have almost no good girls/wifes that know how to properly raise children. They either want to have fun continue riding the cock carousel or they want to pursue a demanding job/career that leaves them no time...
 
I think the misconception arises from the fact that people seem to think that having a Father equals an automatic masculine role model. Look at some of the beta faggot cucks raising kids today and tell me that he's a positive male influence.
 
Pinker is a fraud, trust me bro, he was my professor at Harvard and I ended up confronting him about his homosexuality. He said "no no bro, you got it all wrong, I just said that the smell of your ass is a result of nature not nurture", then I asked him, "Pinker, if that's the case, then how come your ass smelt different today than when I smelt it in the shower yesterday?". He was shocked and didn't know what to say. He actually had to rewrite a few books because of the epiphany that I made him realize.

prolly the only post worth reading here
 
If you saw the videos you might have agreed with me. Have you seen the video or did you react out of fear and emotions?

JFL are you serious, the thread makes no sense logically, parenting obviously makes a difference because you are shaping someones mindset, also having successful parents means you will be sent to good schools and be able to wealthmax, being born in a single mother household means you'll likely get a shitty education or drop out and crimemax.

Common sense alone makes your thread BS
 
lol of course it matters how a child is raised. The problem is that these days you have almost no good girls/wifes that know how to properly raise children. They either want to have fun continue riding the cock carousel or they want to pursue a demanding job/career that leaves them no time...
No it has minimal effect. Its mostly genetic. D
lol of course it matters how a child is raised. The problem is that these days you have almost no good girls/wifes that know how to properly raise children. They either want to have fun continue riding the cock carousel or they want to pursue a demanding job/career that leaves them no time...
You cannot enchance or nurture your childs personality. You can however cut the road to forms his personality by abuse ofcourse. Basicaly you can only make a child worse not better. You cannot change a natural beta child or incel child to an alpha child. You can only make an incel -> antisocial by abusing him. But if you dont abuse him he will still become an incel.
 
My mother has like 80 IQ and is a bluepilled toastie who has lived life on easy mode even though she's unattractive. My dad is dead but I doubt I'd be different if he were alive.
 
JFL are you serious, the thread makes no sense logically, parenting obviously makes a difference because you are shaping someones mindset, also having successful parents means you will be sent to good schools and be able to wealthmax, being born in a single mother household means you'll likely get a shitty education or drop out and crimemax.

Common sense alone makes your thread BS
You describe INDIRECT parents influence. Im describing PARENTING not other enviromental influence such as high education or wealtht environment. We are talking here about parenting that has no influence for your personality , because its the culture of society and genetics that influence the personality. If people watched the videi before commenting they would understand the point.
WATCH THE DAMN VIDEOS BEFORE COMMENTING. ITS PERFECTLY EXPLAINED. Y'all REACT OUT OF FEAR BECAUSE IT DEBUNKS YOUR BLUEPILLED KNOWLEDGE THAT IS GIVING YOU THE ILLUSION THAT YOUR LOSER STATUS IS SOMETHING THAT HAS BEEN PARTLY OR MAJORLY CREATED BECAUSE OF YOUR PARENTS. ITS EASY TO BLAME YOUR PARENTS , BUT ITS YOUR OWN FAULT ITS YOUR GENES. COPE OR ROPE.
 
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We are talking here about parenting that has no influence for your personality , because its the culture of society and genetics that influence the personality.

Idiot, a household is a "micro-culture", are you so fucking retarded you don't see the contradiction in saying that the culture (norms and values) of society influences personality but the culture (norms and values) of a household don't.
 
Idiot, a household is a "micro-culture", are you so fucking retarded you don't see the contradiction in saying that the culture (norms and values) of society influences personality but the culture (norms and values) of a household don't.
Thats exactly what im saying parenting is powerless since society cultural influence and other environmental influence completely overwhelm parental influence. Also even though society cultural influence overwhelms parental influence its mostly the genetics of the child that has the biggest influence. Parental influence is very minimal almost non-existent.
 
Parental influence is very minimal almost non-existent.
Parenting has no effect on children

Pick one, your post is all over the place:

parenting has minimal effect and will not influence personality (inhibition & social skills).
Well now you might ask if parenting or a father figure has no influence.

You keep swapping from saying it has NO INFLUENCE to it has MINIMAL INFLUENCE

At the end of the day, the entire post is pointless because at its core it makes no logical sense:

Children were the father left them will turn out like their father because of genetic inheritance. If your father was a bad boy with no care for the family you will likely turn out to be like him because of genetic inheritance.

This is basically saying that people are born criminals then.

I always think posters like you are larps making fake posts you know are BS to see how many "bite" so you can later make some post on incel tears talking about how stupid we are, because this is pure retardation, anyone who even has a few friends knows this is BS, I know guys from single mother households (dad was the "bad boy" type) that are "nerds".

If you aren't a larp then I can only deduce you are some kind of stormfront faggot, and your next threads are going to be about race, because the implications of this post seems like you'll be heading in that direction, and that was your intention to begin with, take your race obsessed faggotry somewhere else.

(I like how idiots like yourself will understand that genetic recombination can make a child with a chad tier father be born with bad genetics, but for some reason genetic recombination doesn't affect inhibition and personality)
 
No it has minimal effect. Its mostly genetic. D

You cannot enchance or nurture your childs personality. You can however cut the road to forms his personality by abuse ofcourse. Basicaly you can only make a child worse not better. You cannot change a natural beta child or incel child to an alpha child. You can only make an incel -> antisocial by abusing him. But if you dont abuse him he will still become an incel.
You can. Two scenarios. Number one parents don't care about their child and let videogames babysit it. Scenario two parents care about their child and make sure he takes hobbies like sports and care about his education.

Now who is more likely to be successful? It's obvious...
 
tl;dr but i disagree. Placing your children infront of iPads and Tvs 90% of their free time since they're 2 will affect their eyes and they will get raised by youtube and degeneracy instead which is a bad thing.
 
I agree. It's like when kids do bad shit and the parents always get blamed. Some kids are just pieces of shit and continue to be trash later on in life. Parenting is maybe 20% of it at best.
>little Billy dindu nuffin he's just a good boy in a bad family

Incels are born. Your parents didn't give you autism, schizoid pd, severe depression, sub5 looks on purpose. You were born with trash genes.
 
Pick one, your post is all over the place:




You keep swapping from saying it has NO INFLUENCE to it has MINIMAL INFLUENCE

At the end of the day, the entire post is pointless because at its core it makes no logical sense:



This is basically saying that people are born criminals then.

I always think posters like you are larps making fake posts you know are BS to see how many "bite" so you can later make some post on incel tears talking about how stupid we are, because this is pure retardation, anyone who even has a few friends knows this is BS, I know guys from single mother households (dad was the "bad boy" type) that are "nerds".

If you aren't a larp then I can only deduce you are some kind of stormfront faggot, and your next threads are going to be about race, because the implications of this post seems like you'll be heading in that direction, and that was your intention to begin with, take your race obsessed faggotry somewhere else.

(I like how idiots like yourself will understand that genetic recombination can make a child with a chad tier father be born with bad genetics, but for some reason genetic recombination doesn't affect inhibition and personality)

The reason i switch from minimal to no effect is that it simply depends on the person genes. One thing is sure: it cannot change a childs persinality or how he will turn out as a person. Second of all im talking here about personality not how a person will react to an environment. Thats a big difference. Let me give you an example. Person A has an dominant agressive personality. His personality cannot change but that doesnt mean he will become a criminal it just means that a person has an higher probability to turn out to be a criminal. What steven pinker says is that a parent cannot change the childs personality or iq. They can only give them the right directions. So an beta child is simply born but the parents can only direct him to his limited potentials. If a parent will read everyday a book for his child. His child will not change or become smarter. If a parent goes out with his child everyday the child will not become more outgoing or more social. Personality is unchangeable so if you are a natural pussy you cannot blame your parents since they have no influence on that. Here are some studies to READ since you have probably some shit in your ears to listen the video. If you had listen to the video your bluepilled thoughts about this matter would have disappeared.

Study 1)https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.ps...ule-why-parenting-has-virtually-no-effect?amp

Study 2)https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/education/2002/sep/25/science.highereducation1

Study 3)http://geraldguild.com/blog/#article/1490
tl;dr but i disagree. Placing your children infront of iPads and Tvs 90% of their free time since they're 2 will affect their eyes and they will get raised by youtube and degeneracy instead which is a bad thing.
If you place them on the ipad or will place them outside wont change their PERSONALITY. It will affect other things but not their PERSONALITY.
 
bullshit, studies have proven you need a father figure and a mother figure. Also what if the father dies when the child is born and the kid still ends up being a criminal? it's not genes its upbringing
 
The reason i switch from minimal to no effect is that it simply depends on the person genes. One thing is sure: it cannot change a childs persinality or how he will turn out as a person. Second of all im talking here about personality not how a person will react to an environment. Thats a big difference. Let me give you an example. Person A has an dominant agressive personality. His personality cannot change but that doesnt mean he will become a criminal it just means that a person has an higher probability to turn out to be a criminal. What steven pinker says is that a parent cannot change the childs personality or iq. They can only give them the right directions. So an beta child is simply born but the parents can only direct him to his limited potentials. If a parent will read everyday a book for his child. His child will not change or become smarter. If a parent goes out with his child everyday the child will not become more outgoing or more social. Personality is unchangeable so if you are a natural pussy you cannot blame your parents since they have no influence on that. Here are some studies to READ since you have probably some shit in your ears to listen the video. If you had listen to the video your bluepilled thoughts about this matter would have disappeared.

Study 1)https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/the-scientific-fundamentalist/200809/the-50-0-50-rule-why-parenting-has-virtually-no-effect?amp

Study 2)https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/education/2002/sep/25/science.highereducation1

Study 3)http://geraldguild.com/blog/#article/1490

If you place them on the ipad or will place them outside wont change their PERSONALITY. It will affect other things but not their PERSONALITY.


separated at birth twin studies show personality is completely genetic and have been since the 1950s or whenever they started this shit
Thank you. A lot of incels here are still bluepilled.

this blackpill isn't even close to new. this is a WW2 era black pill.

in fact before the PC leftist shit came along, people actually used to believe most things were based on genetics. IQ, behavior, etc.
 
bullshit, studies have proven you need a father figure and a mother figure
Studies have debunked this theory. The twin studies are the greatest evidence that personality is heavily genetics the other part is society cultural influence and other environmental influence rather than parents influence.
The reason i switch from minimal to no effect is that it simply depends on the person genes. One thing is sure: it cannot change a childs persinality or how he will turn out as a person. Second of all im talking here about personality not how a person will react to an environment. Thats a big difference. Let me give you an example. Person A has an dominant agressive personality. His personality cannot change but that doesnt mean he will become a criminal it just means that a person has an higher probability to turn out to be a criminal. What steven pinker says is that a parent cannot change the childs personality or iq. They can only give them the right directions. So an beta child is simply born but the parents can only direct him to his limited potentials. If a parent will read everyday a book for his child. His child will not change or become smarter. If a parent goes out with his child everyday the child will not become more outgoing or more social. Personality is unchangeable so if you are a natural pussy you cannot blame your parents since they have no influence on that. Here are some studies to READ since you have probably some shit in your ears to listen the video. If you had listen to the video your bluepilled thoughts about this matter would have disappeared.

Study 1)https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/the-scientific-fundamentalist/200809/the-50-0-50-rule-why-parenting-has-virtually-no-effect?amp

Study 2)https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/education/2002/sep/25/science.highereducation1

Study 3)http://geraldguild.com/blog/#article/1490

If you place them on the ipad or will place them outside wont change their PERSONALITY. It will affect other things but not their PERSONALITY.

@BlkPillPres dont run away. Debunk my studies and arguments if you can. Lets get a clear conclusion about this matter.
 
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