i try to not involve looks or genetically determined traits when interacting with anyone. it's such a common topic among normies to casually talk about height, weight, attraction. they're subconsciously blackpilled without knowing.
guys compare their height all the time, girls are hyper aware about their sexual market value as they immediately start questioning why is it that other girls get more attention, validation, and better treatment, etc. they soon realise that it's because of their looks, not pretty enough, or thin enough.
asking people about their immutable characteristics without any particular reason only serves one purpose, it is for peer social comparison to boost one's ego & know where they stand relative to everyone else. it's a way to gauge your position in society, so you can act accordingly to how you perceive yourself and how others perceive you to be. your identity is inextricably linked to your immutable characteristics, and everyone is blind to their own bias when it comes to treating people fairly without discrimination, which includes even me.
i don't want to be unfairly treated because i am aware of my subhuman genetics, something outside of my control. so i try my best to do the same with other people, to treat them based on things outside their control.
this begs the question, how much control do we have, and what can we even control?
i believe we can only change things within our genetic limit, and most of the time, we are completely & utterly unaware of what our genetic limit entails. here's an excerpt from the article below, it's about the idea of "the nature OF nurture"
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https://www.theguardian.com/science...-all-genetics-robert-plomin-polygenic-testing
i'm in the middle of reading robert plomin's blueprint, and boyos, it's brutal as ever. it was over before the universe was even created
i searched up keywords for "robert plomin" and "blueprint" on here, but could not find a single thread discussing anything about his ideas or book. so i plan to make a thread in the future about it, if i find anything i think is worth mentioning to share