For most of human history, men were neither loved nor truly respected by their wives, and they were rarely loyal in return. The relationships you see today are just propaganda.
How can you claim to be blackpilled yet still believe a girl will be head over heels for you if you can’t offer what she truly wants, especially when she can easily find a better man than you?
Some girls date normies simply because, as women, they crave relationships, and not all of them can get Chad. They might hang out with you, say they love you, fake orgasms, and even try to treat you well, but if a better option comes along, they wouldn’t hesitate to replace you.