Lv99_BixNood
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View: https://old.reddit.com/r/IncelTears/comments/1g6qw2b/the_manosphere_is_really_a_little_comfort_bubble/
Now taking the source from a well known incel forum, same one as the screenshot of the therapy thread
"What does incel mean? Incel means involuntary celibate, a person who wants to be in a loving relationship but is unable to find a partner despite his best effort.”
Now, their own definition mentions “best effort”. What I am interested in is have these people really put in their “best effort?” It would make their position weaker somewhat if they did not even meet their own definition. Sure, the dating/marriage statistics etc remain, but it is still a blow. After all, if they are not putting in their “best effort”, that takes out the “involuntary” part of incel.
Now to evaluate this I didn’t look at the most unhinged posters. I didn’t go for the crazy ones, the weirdos, the extremes. That is always a cheap way to try and discredit someone. No, I went to the “must read content” section of the forum. Where you go to, as they put it, to “Discover the most noteworthy and thought-provoking threads made by our members here.”
You might think self-improvement would mean going to the gym or mewing, but no it's all about paying some slut who just finished her soyciology degree to listen to your problems and give you meaningful advice such as "be confident" and "put yourself out there"