[UWSL]I recently saw a video by a man who analyses human relationships and one striking thing he told his audience after a 30 year old single man asked "Where are all the high quality women?" And his response was "There are no single high quality women over 30, there is a reason why all their past relationships kept failing and why they haven't met "the one" yet and why these women aren't receiving commitment ". He then talked about how low-quality women constantly either get stuck with polyamorous or cheating boyfriends or low-quality men to commit with them because likewise all the good men and women by age 30 tend to already be married. [/UWSL]
[UWSL]Or more specifically, the good men still single when they're in their 30's and 40's prefer to look for women in their 20's and ignore women in their 30's and 40's altogether. [/UWSL]
[UWSL]He then asked if you meet a single woman older than 30 always ask why she's still single and that while there are a few women with legitimate reasons, these are very rare. Likewise women see good men and want their commitment and if they have one they likely stay married. Most people who divorce tend to be serial divorcers / divorcees and good marriages with good partners rarely end. [/UWSL]
[UWSL]If you're looking for women in their late 20's or 30's it's over with trying to find a good woman and you basically get "the leftovers good men wanted to sleep with but never commit to". [/UWSL]
[UWSL]Then I started thinking about all the stories a female friend of mine was talking about, how she knew a lot of good men when she was in her early 20's, but now that she's almost 30 she no longer has any good choices left. She's highly educated, owns her own house, has a driver's license, Etc. yet "her best choice" is an Autistic man who plays video games all day and barely wants to spend time with her, recently forgetting to video call her because he was playing video games with his friends. [/UWSL]
And she keeps talking about wanting to dump him and be alone and how that is better, I try to discourage her from doing this but Foids never listen to logic...
Now, why do women like being single over being with a man?
[UWSL]Historically in tribal societies 60~80% of all men died in warfare alone, that is ignoring things like infectious diseases (which generally kill men more, though women die more from influenza and autoimmune diseases), accidents, poison, Etc. This means that women have often evolved to be widows who were dependent on other groups of women for survival and child-reering rather than their male mates. This also explains women's strong in-group biases and why they prefer to hang out with other females, as males tended to die and a male friend is more committed to his female partner than to his friends (male or female).[/UWSL]
[UWSL]This is why men are often depressed when they're alone (because not enough men survived to be widowers and while many women died during childbirth the few men who reproduced tended to have multiple wives to take care of those or his own mother or parents would have), while women who would have been depressed while alone are evolutionarily selected for against as these wouldn't be able to sufficiently raise their children after her partner died. [/UWSL]
[UWSL]So this hypothesis covers both the origin of female in-group bias, as females needed each other to survive and if a woman gets shunned by other women she wouldn't be able to depend on her man as he would be very likely to die. [/UWSL]
[UWSL]This is why inceldom is hell for us but for women being single just neutral or even positive for them.
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[UWSL]Or more specifically, the good men still single when they're in their 30's and 40's prefer to look for women in their 20's and ignore women in their 30's and 40's altogether. [/UWSL]
[UWSL]He then asked if you meet a single woman older than 30 always ask why she's still single and that while there are a few women with legitimate reasons, these are very rare. Likewise women see good men and want their commitment and if they have one they likely stay married. Most people who divorce tend to be serial divorcers / divorcees and good marriages with good partners rarely end. [/UWSL]
[UWSL]If you're looking for women in their late 20's or 30's it's over with trying to find a good woman and you basically get "the leftovers good men wanted to sleep with but never commit to". [/UWSL]
[UWSL]Then I started thinking about all the stories a female friend of mine was talking about, how she knew a lot of good men when she was in her early 20's, but now that she's almost 30 she no longer has any good choices left. She's highly educated, owns her own house, has a driver's license, Etc. yet "her best choice" is an Autistic man who plays video games all day and barely wants to spend time with her, recently forgetting to video call her because he was playing video games with his friends. [/UWSL]
And she keeps talking about wanting to dump him and be alone and how that is better, I try to discourage her from doing this but Foids never listen to logic...
Now, why do women like being single over being with a man?
[UWSL]Historically in tribal societies 60~80% of all men died in warfare alone, that is ignoring things like infectious diseases (which generally kill men more, though women die more from influenza and autoimmune diseases), accidents, poison, Etc. This means that women have often evolved to be widows who were dependent on other groups of women for survival and child-reering rather than their male mates. This also explains women's strong in-group biases and why they prefer to hang out with other females, as males tended to die and a male friend is more committed to his female partner than to his friends (male or female).[/UWSL]
[UWSL]This is why men are often depressed when they're alone (because not enough men survived to be widowers and while many women died during childbirth the few men who reproduced tended to have multiple wives to take care of those or his own mother or parents would have), while women who would have been depressed while alone are evolutionarily selected for against as these wouldn't be able to sufficiently raise their children after her partner died. [/UWSL]
[UWSL]So this hypothesis covers both the origin of female in-group bias, as females needed each other to survive and if a woman gets shunned by other women she wouldn't be able to depend on her man as he would be very likely to die. [/UWSL]
[UWSL]This is why inceldom is hell for us but for women being single just neutral or even positive for them.
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