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Blackpill Everything seems pointless when you don't get validation from women (First post)

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You get good grades in school, your teacher praises you, says you're a "good student." You respect and treat your parents well, and they congratulate you and say you're a "good son," and okay, that makes you feel good.

But time goes by, you grow up, and like any young man, you have desires and emotional needs that CANNOT be satisfied by your parents, but only by women.

But that doesn't happen. Why? It could be for several reasons: You're extremely ugly (under 5), you're a manlet, you're neurodivergent or have some level of autism, which makes you perceived as "weird." You're fat, ethnic, broke, framelet, your eyes are droopy, your nose is too big, any of that crap or a mix of it.

And this consumes you, a bitter feeling of injustice grows in your chest. You're doing what society supposedly wants, you're doing what your parents want, but your intrinsic needs aren't being met. You feel like you're being taken for a fool.

The teacher who said you were a good student would let the 6'2" semi-illiterate chad fuck her cunt, and your parents would respect you more if you were the guy who brings a girl home and introduces her to them than just a sucker with his head buried in books and following rules.

That's why most incels are "lazy." There's no incentive to be active and productive as an incel in this society because the underlying incentive for most men is sex, or at least, foids validation.

And ultimately, that's the validation that really matters to society. To your parents, to the normies, to the foids themselves, to your boss, to your coworkers, to your church pastor (if you're religious), and finally to yourself.
 
You get good grades in school, your teacher praises you, says you're a "good student." You respect and treat your parents well, and they congratulate you and say you're a "good son," and okay, that makes you feel good.
This never happened to me.
 
I know all these feels :fuk:
 
To be honored by a woman is to be deemed worthy of the (ersatz) immortality that procreation provides.

It just is a sort of petty theosis, to be replicated in miniature and to be allowed past the gates into full adult/humanhood.

To be fuckable is to be human. To be unfuckable is to be a bug.
 
Good post! Reading it reminded me of how whenever I tried to explain my inceldom to normgroids, I'd always hear something along the lines of: "Well, what about your parents? Don't you care about your heckin mother? How can you hate all women when you have a mother?!!11!" And they would always ended up being astonished when I told them that I hated my mother as well for being a foid—but what really confused them (and I'm not sure why) was me responding and saying 'She would have ultimately desired a son that wasn't me.'

I'm not certain what about this sentence rattles the brain of normturds—I feel like it's pretty simple and easy to understand. My mother had to provide for me because she had no choice. She might show flickers of love or affection, but she would have ultimately desired a son who wasn't insanely short, ugly, and dull. She would have loved nothing more than to have a tall son that girls fawned over, and she would have been proud of him and bragged about him to everyone. If my mother was given a choice on whether she could have birthed me or some other son, she would have chosen the other one without a doubt.

Well, too bad for her, I suppose. She got me in the end and she'll never get to have a Chad son that she can cherish.
 
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This is why I left society and became NEET.
But time goes by, you grow up, and like any young man, you have desires and emotional needs that CANNOT be satisfied by your parents, but only by women.

And this consumes you, a bitter feeling of injustice grows in your chest. You're doing what society supposedly wants, you're doing what your parents want, but your intrinsic needs aren't being met. You feel like you're being taken for a fool.

That's why most incels are "lazy." There's no incentive to be active and productive as an incel in this society because the underlying incentive for most men is sex, or at least, foids validation.
Chud truth nuke tel aviv
 
Good post! Reading it reminded me of how whenever I tried to explain my inceldom to normgroids, I'd always hear something along the lines of: "Well, what about your parents? Don't you care about your heckin mother? How can you hate all women when you have a mother?!!11!" And they would always end up being astonished when I told them that I hated my mother as well for being a foid—but what really confused them (and I'm not sure why) was me responding and saying 'She would have ultimately desired a son that wasn't me.'
Accepting that your mother and all the females in your family are the same as other females is the final step of the blackpill. Freeing truth but also so devastating.
 
THANK YOU FOR MAKING THIS POST, OP.

No matter how many interests and passions I might have, nothing can fill the enormous hole of not having any validation and attention from women.
 
" There's no incentive to be active and productive as an incel in this society because the underlying incentive for most men is sex, or at least, foids validation.
 
I just wanted my parking voucher validated...
 
Life is extremely depressing and sad if you are subhuman.
 
I js do the bare minimum to not flunk my classes now, why should i go out of my way if ik at the end of the day, its pretty much pointless, ill still be inkwell, ill still graduate, itll be a mostly connections game to even wagieslave lol
 
No matter how many interests and passions I might have, nothing can fill the enormous hole of not having any validation and attention from women.
Same, think abt it, would you or me, have ts many copes if u received foid love and validation early? I would not be into deathcore, anime, I wouldnt be a huge car coper, I wouldnt pull off some light yagami tier excuse on my dad 4 a gaming laptop, if i wasnt rotting from my teens onwards, I would js be another happy, carefree normie seckshaver who only watches and is interested in the current popular thing
 

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