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Going to school is probably one of the most depressing experiences as an Incel. Every day is painful & you can't escape...
Education :
I personally can't learn in classes or groups effectively. All of it makes the whole process a lot slower. Everyone is wasting precious time by talking about personal stuff or making jokes which is a bad idea if you have demanding teachers who have high expectations for every single student. Lots of teachers are also infuenced by their personal sympathy towards other students
They don't care about the knowledge itself, but rather about finishing the curriculum which reasonable because they are just a part of a broken education system. I only have a few teachers that are actually great.
Social life :
Going to school requires an enormous amount of social interactions on a daily basis. The vast majority of guys already formed their social circles & ignore most people who are not in them. They also constantly talk about parties they are invited to & who is celebrating their birthday. Nobody there would even consider me as a friend and I would never get something in return even if they decide to include me . Regardless how much time I would be willing to spend with them. They would replace me in an instant. I only know a few nice acquaintances but they are of course also not my friends
Inceldom
Most Normies,Infiltrators and Fakecels probably don't understand the importance of a functioning love life. Being deprived of this essential part of life has a huge impact on the psyche of men. Reproduction is the ultimate goal in a species and not getting any love shows the true inadequacy of your genes. It makes you naturally feel bad
The exposure to girls through school makes this feeling of inadequacy ineviatble, especially if girls can wear revealing clothes at your school. Seeing girls that I find attractive in these clothes is a constant reminder that I am not good enough Random lurker : "You only want a 9/11 GiGA stacy"" My standards are far from high and I would definitely go for my looksmatch or below that. The problem is that even that is not happening . And I also just pay more attention to some girls than others, but again my standards are not high. I am mostly blaming our current dating market and the gamble of life.
"Reddit faggots : Just stop feeling this way. You are not entitled to anything."
Actual desires can't be changed and we have no control over them. The desire to have a relationship with the other gender is wired into our brains just like eating food. The dopamine levels from sex are actually greater than the dopamine levels of food. We have a very limited control over our will or we don't have a free will at all.
Parents
Parente have demands in varying degrees. They only leave you alone if they don't care .Some of them put a greater focus on your academic career and others want you to focus on your romantic / social life. The latter thing is especially horrible since it is pretty much out of your control. Most of them don't do anything that is drastic but just repeatedly asking can be enough to ruin your mood.
tl;dr : The world is cruel and you only have a very limited amount of control over important things.
Education :
I personally can't learn in classes or groups effectively. All of it makes the whole process a lot slower. Everyone is wasting precious time by talking about personal stuff or making jokes which is a bad idea if you have demanding teachers who have high expectations for every single student. Lots of teachers are also infuenced by their personal sympathy towards other students
They don't care about the knowledge itself, but rather about finishing the curriculum which reasonable because they are just a part of a broken education system. I only have a few teachers that are actually great.
Social life :
Going to school requires an enormous amount of social interactions on a daily basis. The vast majority of guys already formed their social circles & ignore most people who are not in them. They also constantly talk about parties they are invited to & who is celebrating their birthday. Nobody there would even consider me as a friend and I would never get something in return even if they decide to include me . Regardless how much time I would be willing to spend with them. They would replace me in an instant. I only know a few nice acquaintances but they are of course also not my friends
Inceldom
Most Normies,Infiltrators and Fakecels probably don't understand the importance of a functioning love life. Being deprived of this essential part of life has a huge impact on the psyche of men. Reproduction is the ultimate goal in a species and not getting any love shows the true inadequacy of your genes. It makes you naturally feel bad
The exposure to girls through school makes this feeling of inadequacy ineviatble, especially if girls can wear revealing clothes at your school. Seeing girls that I find attractive in these clothes is a constant reminder that I am not good enough Random lurker : "You only want a 9/11 GiGA stacy"" My standards are far from high and I would definitely go for my looksmatch or below that. The problem is that even that is not happening . And I also just pay more attention to some girls than others, but again my standards are not high. I am mostly blaming our current dating market and the gamble of life.
"Reddit faggots : Just stop feeling this way. You are not entitled to anything."
Actual desires can't be changed and we have no control over them. The desire to have a relationship with the other gender is wired into our brains just like eating food. The dopamine levels from sex are actually greater than the dopamine levels of food. We have a very limited control over our will or we don't have a free will at all.
Parents
Parente have demands in varying degrees. They only leave you alone if they don't care .Some of them put a greater focus on your academic career and others want you to focus on your romantic / social life. The latter thing is especially horrible since it is pretty much out of your control. Most of them don't do anything that is drastic but just repeatedly asking can be enough to ruin your mood.
tl;dr : The world is cruel and you only have a very limited amount of control over important things.