How is a handshake something to be desired? A few months ago, a female coworker that I'd known for a couple of years was leaving the company. I was hoping she'd give me a goodbye hug, but all I got was a handshake. The chads and normies got hugs from her.
I've never held hands with a girl in a romantic manner. That's very different from a business handshake or being required to hold hands as part of some classroom game.