This is how bad the situation is. I have a friend who is a quiet and decent guy but has been incel for years and years. He is average looking and a fair bit overweight most of the time, clearly not handsome and clearly not hideous, you just wouldn't pick him out in a crowd. He was a virgin until he was 29 and then settled for a 3 but they eventually went their separate ways.
A girl from his own friend circle who he has known since school is a 3 but literally sleeps with tonnes of guys just to validate herself. They ended up getting close after decades of knowing each other. He broke down crying one night at a party because he found out that his ex had slept with someone not long after they had broke up and when this new girl seen that rather than supporting him she got offended thinking he was still interested in his ex and said to him "ok I'm going to go and fuck your friend" and approached one of his best friends who is also clearly an average guy and started full on trying to fuck him. The guy knew what she was up to and rejected her. She has since been texting a few different guys from the friend circle just to get attention whenever he can't go to an event with her because he has other plans or they have a disagreement. None of them chads because she knows they don't want her but still it just shows how fucking ridiculous it is. These guys are HIS FRIENDS.
This is the problem in society now though. Even if you were to get lucky or settle for something low down the league there is such an imbalance these days that the relationship would hardly be fucking worth it and would destroy you even more than being a fucking incel would I think. This guy is a wreck now but was just pissed off and lonely before. Besides having a tongue to suck and a hole to stick your dick in now and again the rest of it would be a nightmare. If you get too emotionally invested in her you are gonna get hurt when she does likely cheat and if you don't she will find some other guy who will. This sort of thing shouldn't be happening to guys who are 2 points above girls like this.
A girl from his own friend circle who he has known since school is a 3 but literally sleeps with tonnes of guys just to validate herself. They ended up getting close after decades of knowing each other. He broke down crying one night at a party because he found out that his ex had slept with someone not long after they had broke up and when this new girl seen that rather than supporting him she got offended thinking he was still interested in his ex and said to him "ok I'm going to go and fuck your friend" and approached one of his best friends who is also clearly an average guy and started full on trying to fuck him. The guy knew what she was up to and rejected her. She has since been texting a few different guys from the friend circle just to get attention whenever he can't go to an event with her because he has other plans or they have a disagreement. None of them chads because she knows they don't want her but still it just shows how fucking ridiculous it is. These guys are HIS FRIENDS.
This is the problem in society now though. Even if you were to get lucky or settle for something low down the league there is such an imbalance these days that the relationship would hardly be fucking worth it and would destroy you even more than being a fucking incel would I think. This guy is a wreck now but was just pissed off and lonely before. Besides having a tongue to suck and a hole to stick your dick in now and again the rest of it would be a nightmare. If you get too emotionally invested in her you are gonna get hurt when she does likely cheat and if you don't she will find some other guy who will. This sort of thing shouldn't be happening to guys who are 2 points above girls like this.
