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I'd like to share with you all something I've noticed since being in Thailand. Even the average girl completely mogs me when it comes to social life and the number of invitations to various events she gets, number of people wanting to hang out with her etc. And if you followed my massive thread about Thailand, you'd know that I fit the definition of a Chad here, having an average slaycount of 3 girls per week.
Yet, despite being Chad over here, even just your average PSL 4 roastie has WAY MORE social opportunity. You see these average girls with 100+ messages on their LINE accounts (mostly unread), notifications popping up on their phone literally every two minutes. Hundreds of likes on every instagram photo etc etc, you guys all know what I'm talking about.
Whereas for me...while I never 'struggle' in terms of social life, it's not like I could just sit there and wait for it to appear before me. I had to be proactive by swiping on tinder, messaging girls, using various other apps. And here's the thing: it was ME having to fit in around THEIR schedules cos they were massively busy. Maybe hanging with friends, maybe work/study, maybe riding another cock etc but the point is that girls ALWAYS have options, whereas guys, no matter if they're Chad or not, still have to work for it. And a good percentage of these girls shagged me first date, so it's not really sustainable that I wasn't attractive to them.
Like I'm not claiming it's that difficult if you're Chad, but the level of options even an average roastie has in 2018 completely dwarf that of any male alive except maybe if you're Lachowski tier of attractiveness. The difference is: if you're a guy you have to put SOME effort in, even if you're attractive to females. If you're a female you can LITERALLY JUST SIT THERE and the social life will come to you.
Females truly live life on tutorial mode.
Yet, despite being Chad over here, even just your average PSL 4 roastie has WAY MORE social opportunity. You see these average girls with 100+ messages on their LINE accounts (mostly unread), notifications popping up on their phone literally every two minutes. Hundreds of likes on every instagram photo etc etc, you guys all know what I'm talking about.
Whereas for me...while I never 'struggle' in terms of social life, it's not like I could just sit there and wait for it to appear before me. I had to be proactive by swiping on tinder, messaging girls, using various other apps. And here's the thing: it was ME having to fit in around THEIR schedules cos they were massively busy. Maybe hanging with friends, maybe work/study, maybe riding another cock etc but the point is that girls ALWAYS have options, whereas guys, no matter if they're Chad or not, still have to work for it. And a good percentage of these girls shagged me first date, so it's not really sustainable that I wasn't attractive to them.
Like I'm not claiming it's that difficult if you're Chad, but the level of options even an average roastie has in 2018 completely dwarf that of any male alive except maybe if you're Lachowski tier of attractiveness. The difference is: if you're a guy you have to put SOME effort in, even if you're attractive to females. If you're a female you can LITERALLY JUST SIT THERE and the social life will come to you.
Females truly live life on tutorial mode.