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My relationship is on the verge of collapse and I am a former redpill…
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My relationship is on the verge of collapse and I am a former redpiller, but I am also able to look at all my failures from the red point of view
u/SrRocoso911h
I am a 28 years old male. I am southern European, and I am engaged to a girl from the north of Europe. We have been together for around 5 years, and she is now 24 years old.
When I met her I was completely redpill. I was spinning plates with 3-4 girls at the same time, and one day in a club I saw her...she felt in love with me fairly quicky and soon we started dating each other. She was tall, blonde, kind, sensitive...soon I stopped spinning plates and started a long term relation with her alone since she was perfect for me. I was also tall, tanned, really fit, been training for 10 years, I was I think also a top guy. Furthermore I had a good job, a nice cabrio car, a ducati motorcycle...
I know that according to redpill my first mistake was stopping spinning plates, since she was now my best and only option.
We started seeing each other every week, and started travelling together. Soon we visited most of Spain, and also travelled to the UK, Italy, Germany, Netherlands, Portugal, Morocco...
During the last 4 years we shared everything and did everything together. She loved me deeply, and I know that because she was always sending me letters, and proving me that she was still in love.We then got engaged...I always knew that she loved Italy and I decided to organise a trip where we got engaged in Verona, the city of Romeo and Juliet. Everything was perfect, we had each other and loved it all together.
However, after finished her studies she got a job offer in her home country. Since I was working home office, I had the chance to move there too, and decided to give it a go. Moving there was not easy for me, a new language, environment, leaving all my family and friend behind...we I loved her, she loved me and we were going to marry and stay forever together, or so I though.
According to my old redpill me, this was my second mistake. I was putting myself in a position of weakness, a position where I was going to lose frame. By this time its been a long time since the last time i spinned plates, and I was now out of my environment, in a strange country were I didn't know anyone and I didn't speak the language, relying on her for a lot of basic things. I know according to redpill is a huge redlight too. I went from a top guy to a guy that couldn't even do the shopping by himself. Tha also depressed me and my actitude and frame started to got weaker.
Soon after moving there, she started behaving colder. And now, recently, she has been telling me that she doesn't feel the same way anymore...she is not happy with me and doesn't see me with the same ayes as before. My old redpill mind tells me that I completely let my guard down. I went to a place where I was weak, without power, without frame and where I was not so happy neither, and I felt out of position. She probably went from seeing me as her rock, as the man who knows how to have fun and how to do everything to a boy...
At this point my relation is probably not fixable, but I would still love to heard some advises. I feel that redpill is still true, but on the other hand what hurts me the most is not only loosing her, but knowing that if redpill is true I will never be able to have an honest relation. Its impossible to live long time with someone and not to lose frame ever, its impossible to spinn plates for ever...its impossible to be always a rock, to be always able to walks away...I am human and I cant pretend to be what I am not for such a long time, neither do I want to.
The hard truth is that I still love her, I feel sad about all our memories, knowing that after all the things we did at the end it didn't matter and we must part completely different ways. As a redpiller I was successful with girls, and I could go back to that again...but the idea of going back to those fake relationships its not appealing neither. What chance is thee for guys like me who want to have a real and honest relation...just like the ones my father and grandfather had...
My relationship is on the verge of collapse and I am a former redpiller, but I am also able to look at all my failures from the red point of view
u/SrRocoso911h
I am a 28 years old male. I am southern European, and I am engaged to a girl from the north of Europe. We have been together for around 5 years, and she is now 24 years old.
When I met her I was completely redpill. I was spinning plates with 3-4 girls at the same time, and one day in a club I saw her...she felt in love with me fairly quicky and soon we started dating each other. She was tall, blonde, kind, sensitive...soon I stopped spinning plates and started a long term relation with her alone since she was perfect for me. I was also tall, tanned, really fit, been training for 10 years, I was I think also a top guy. Furthermore I had a good job, a nice cabrio car, a ducati motorcycle...
I know that according to redpill my first mistake was stopping spinning plates, since she was now my best and only option.
We started seeing each other every week, and started travelling together. Soon we visited most of Spain, and also travelled to the UK, Italy, Germany, Netherlands, Portugal, Morocco...
During the last 4 years we shared everything and did everything together. She loved me deeply, and I know that because she was always sending me letters, and proving me that she was still in love.We then got engaged...I always knew that she loved Italy and I decided to organise a trip where we got engaged in Verona, the city of Romeo and Juliet. Everything was perfect, we had each other and loved it all together.
However, after finished her studies she got a job offer in her home country. Since I was working home office, I had the chance to move there too, and decided to give it a go. Moving there was not easy for me, a new language, environment, leaving all my family and friend behind...we I loved her, she loved me and we were going to marry and stay forever together, or so I though.
According to my old redpill me, this was my second mistake. I was putting myself in a position of weakness, a position where I was going to lose frame. By this time its been a long time since the last time i spinned plates, and I was now out of my environment, in a strange country were I didn't know anyone and I didn't speak the language, relying on her for a lot of basic things. I know according to redpill is a huge redlight too. I went from a top guy to a guy that couldn't even do the shopping by himself. Tha also depressed me and my actitude and frame started to got weaker.
Soon after moving there, she started behaving colder. And now, recently, she has been telling me that she doesn't feel the same way anymore...she is not happy with me and doesn't see me with the same ayes as before. My old redpill mind tells me that I completely let my guard down. I went to a place where I was weak, without power, without frame and where I was not so happy neither, and I felt out of position. She probably went from seeing me as her rock, as the man who knows how to have fun and how to do everything to a boy...
At this point my relation is probably not fixable, but I would still love to heard some advises. I feel that redpill is still true, but on the other hand what hurts me the most is not only loosing her, but knowing that if redpill is true I will never be able to have an honest relation. Its impossible to live long time with someone and not to lose frame ever, its impossible to spinn plates for ever...its impossible to be always a rock, to be always able to walks away...I am human and I cant pretend to be what I am not for such a long time, neither do I want to.
The hard truth is that I still love her, I feel sad about all our memories, knowing that after all the things we did at the end it didn't matter and we must part completely different ways. As a redpiller I was successful with girls, and I could go back to that again...but the idea of going back to those fake relationships its not appealing neither. What chance is thee for guys like me who want to have a real and honest relation...just like the ones my father and grandfather had...
i dont read reddit
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I stopped reading when he says 'spinning plate' JFL I doubt Chad would ever use cringy words like this tbh
most of those redpillers saying theyre spinning plates are incels in denial, and can only get foid through betabuxx
just lol
most of those redpillers saying theyre spinning plates are incels in denial, and can only get foid through betabuxx
just lol
It is over
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Just shows the redpill is ultimately weak and cucked, even if you are a tall, tanned, buff Italian Chad. He points out that you can not 'hold frame' 100% of your life, and it is not a nice life to live a fake person the whole time.
The only way to turn a woman into a good loyal wife is through sheer power, giving the woman no other option in life. Realize women while they resist power at first, are quite happy to accept and submit to power once it is shown they have no other choice.
The only way to turn a woman into a good loyal wife is through sheer power, giving the woman no other option in life. Realize women while they resist power at first, are quite happy to accept and submit to power once it is shown they have no other choice.
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Women must be obselete
= This has been said many times already.
GIGACHAD ONLY in 2020
The redpill behavioral shit is somewhat true IF there is already some attraction.
Redpillers will say, look he lost his gf because he "lost his frame"/behaved badly, so you're an incel because you don't behave the right way.
But they'll ignore the fact that he had a gf and we can never even get lightyears close to that.
Redpillers will say, look he lost his gf because he "lost his frame"/behaved badly, so you're an incel because you don't behave the right way.
But they'll ignore the fact that he had a gf and we can never even get lightyears close to that.
Probably wasn’t a Chad. But yeah , Chad needs to show zero weaknesses to the girl
The secret of happy life? Never trust a woman. Never love a woman. Never worship holes.
That's pretty much it.
If it's too hard for you, take some anti estrogen pills.
That's pretty much it.
If it's too hard for you, take some anti estrogen pills.
Women have so many options that any imperfection will make her reconsider
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When are you guys gonna realise NO MAN - chad or not - is safe in a relationship in the west 2019? Women have so freaking many options, u think being some CHAD will cut it? NO, she has 40000 CHADS that wants her ALLL THE TIME.
ITS OVER for ALL MEN when it comes to LTRs, EVERYONE.
ITS OVER for ALL MEN when it comes to LTRs, EVERYONE.
she got tired of the "tanned med experience", now she is sucking british cocks.
Every man gets cucked at some point, chad never gets cucked though because he never latched on to any female. They are all just used by him for sex.
brutal, even for chads.
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They are using him for sex, too, and nothing else. Chad is just a piece of meat for them, they have zero emotions for him.
Holy shit, since when did that sub get quarantined? As much as I hate them, it's still pretty surprising since they also believe in cHiVaLrY
If he was truly a chad he wouldn't give a shit, knowing that he can easily get another woman.
Beta chad still slays.
Shy chad still slays.
Does an "alpha" 5'5 indian slay?
Beta chad still slays.
Shy chad still slays.
Does an "alpha" 5'5 indian slay?
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" I am engaged to a girl from the north of Europe" well there's your mistake buddy. Huge mistake, now you're paying the price.
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