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Ramiel
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This post should be obvious for many people who are truly blackpilled, but there are still some morons here who cope with "muh if you're under 20 you still can ascend".
I am telling you this IS NOT the case. Even if you manage to make something of yourself after high school socially, you will ALWAYS be socially stunted compared to the normal people who had social milestones in high school
I have a friend from hs (I use the word "friend" loosely, true inkwells don't really have any friends. He's more someone who gives me the time of day during college lectures and we speak a little. We both went to the same HS and majored in the same thing at the same college) who was a KHHV till 19. He finally lost it after countless cold approaches at the bar and club.
And this guy thinks he did something. Sure, compared to the 31 year old virgins here who haven't talked to a girl in YEARS, sure he "did something", but compared to all those functioning normies, he WILL always be behind. You have to realize that sexual connection with a girl in your teen years (as an actual teen- if you date some 18 year old girl at 20, you are STILL mentally FUCKED) is such a fleeting window.
This is no different from childhood trauma from abuse or bullying. Missing out on social development as a kid will FUCK you so hard that you won't recover. And the insidious thing is that normies don't even talk about this. As a society we realize child abuse and bullying is wrong but we always tell our children it's okay that they are 19 year old virgins. Bro, it IS NOT.
Even if I lose my vcard at 21 or something to a girl who actually willingly hooks up with me (hypothetically, cuz that probably won't happen) I will ALWAYS, ALWAYS be playing catch up. Most girls in college have already had a relationship at this point.
The last time i had a chance was 4 years ago when i was in high school. It really is too late now. I'm still in college so i guess i'll try to make the most of it, but it will never EVER make up for being a virgin in high school.
I'm very tired of people here thinking that ascending in college is as good as ascending in high school. It is NOT, and never will be.
@SlayerSlayer says it better than me
I am telling you this IS NOT the case. Even if you manage to make something of yourself after high school socially, you will ALWAYS be socially stunted compared to the normal people who had social milestones in high school
I have a friend from hs (I use the word "friend" loosely, true inkwells don't really have any friends. He's more someone who gives me the time of day during college lectures and we speak a little. We both went to the same HS and majored in the same thing at the same college) who was a KHHV till 19. He finally lost it after countless cold approaches at the bar and club.
And this guy thinks he did something. Sure, compared to the 31 year old virgins here who haven't talked to a girl in YEARS, sure he "did something", but compared to all those functioning normies, he WILL always be behind. You have to realize that sexual connection with a girl in your teen years (as an actual teen- if you date some 18 year old girl at 20, you are STILL mentally FUCKED) is such a fleeting window.
This is no different from childhood trauma from abuse or bullying. Missing out on social development as a kid will FUCK you so hard that you won't recover. And the insidious thing is that normies don't even talk about this. As a society we realize child abuse and bullying is wrong but we always tell our children it's okay that they are 19 year old virgins. Bro, it IS NOT.
Even if I lose my vcard at 21 or something to a girl who actually willingly hooks up with me (hypothetically, cuz that probably won't happen) I will ALWAYS, ALWAYS be playing catch up. Most girls in college have already had a relationship at this point.
The last time i had a chance was 4 years ago when i was in high school. It really is too late now. I'm still in college so i guess i'll try to make the most of it, but it will never EVER make up for being a virgin in high school.
I'm very tired of people here thinking that ascending in college is as good as ascending in high school. It is NOT, and never will be.
@SlayerSlayer says it better than me
There are degrees to this. Ascending in early adulthood is better than being a 30 year old virgin, but it will NEVER come CLOSE to being a non-virgin in hsThe four years you experience in high school is without a doubt, the four most important years of your life. NOTHING ELSE MATTERS. Subsequently, the four years you have in college afterwards are the second most important. But really. If you can't fucking get high school right, it WILL traumatize you for the rest of your fucking life. You fucking kids don't understand is that the teen faces and flippant attitudes in high school-- it will STICK WITH YOU FOR THE REST OF YOUR FUCKING LIFE. Nothing else feels right. Nothing is more RAW. Nothing is more REAL.
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