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spasticbuddy

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“Incel” is an oxymoron because celibacy is defined by abstention from sexual intercourse, and abstention is defined as deliberately self-refraining from action or practice, often with effort and or sacrifice, which means there’s opportunity, want and possibility but deliberate choice not to act upon. Thus, if one’s celibate, one could be getting sex and wants to, but one’s deliberately refraining from it for whatever reason.

So, what are “incels” exactly refraining from? My understanding is that the crowd that refers to themselves as “incels” are men who for one reason or another fail to present themselves as desirable sexual partners for women they find desirable. They wish they were sexually desirable to them and yet, this doesn’t come. And sure, and understandably, they don’t want to engage in sexual intercourse with women they don’t find desirable. But here’s the deal - they simply are lacking the possibility of having desirable sex. You cannot abstain from an option you don’t have.

So, I repeat my question, what, exactly are they deliberately refraining from? Hiring prostitutes? Let’s star with the simplest and most relatable to me - I would never hire a prostitute because I don’t want to have sex with someone because I paid. Sex, for me, is a vehicle for affection, bonding, shared intimacy and mutual knowledge, not a commodity or a vehicle for power or domination. “Incels” that think like me in these regards, don’t find this kind of intercourse desirable. So, as much as a straight man is not homosexually celibate, a man who doesn’t want to have sex with prostitutes and refrains from it is not practicing celibacy. They are avoiding unwanted sexual interactions and they, again, find themselves without the option of desirable sexual interactions.
So what’s with those that would want sex with prostitutes but can’t? Well, here we have again the “lack of option” conundrum.


Let’s go further what are they refraining from? From rape? If so, frankly speaking, I think they need some mental care treatment and should be executed as soon as they stop refraining. Plain and simple. I have 0 tolerance for rapists. Whoa, that escalated quickly, right?
So, let’s not speak about potential rapists that are doing a “great effort” not to go on rape sprees and let’s speak about men actually deserving of sympathy, men that are not “incels” but just unfortunately unable to engage in mutually satisfying intimate relations with women*.
Here comes a great deal of learning, both about self and our surroundings. And here’s where Marxism kicks in. If you start seeing things from a Marxist lens you may understand angles of your lack of sexual appeal that you were unable to see or understand before. You may also better understand the socio-economic and cultural dynamics that shape your sexual expectations and those of the women that you find desirable. And you may see opportunities you didn’t see before. You may even start getting engaged in Marxist organizations where you might end up finding new kinds of desirable women that may find you desirable. Your own general desirability might even change. But this all depends on the factors that made you undesirable in the first place and this is something that you can only partially explore with the help of Marxism.

Very often, “incels” tend to be very socially alienated. If life has taught me something is that, most women, even stereotypically attractive ones, will get past physical attraction pretty quickly in light of other aspects of the person, like their knowledge, sociability, sense of humor, skills, capacity for empathy and communication, projected health and self-confidence. This may seem like a trope, but that’s what experience tells me. And after my first break-up (with a woman I was going to get married to) I spent years being rebuffed time and again by women I found attractive, largely because I hadn’t understood this. For years, I was what many would call an “incel”, but neither then nor today could I identify with that tag because I was not refraining from anything - I simply did not have the chance of having a mutually satisfying intimate connection with any woman that interested me and no version of rape ever crossed my mind as an option, so I was surely not refraining from this either. I even got into the hobby of making an Excel spreadsheet to over-analyze te factors that were holding me back and calculate my chances of ever finding a partner again (I then learned that Drake’s equation could have worked well) and I had gotten to the sad number of 0.00058%.
Two years after I finished my calculations and were suicidally spiriling downwards in depression, I met a woman who wanted me to teach her Russian (my skills) and that woman became my current wife.
In retrospect, I had sheltered myself in a shell of self-doubt and social breakdown because of depression and that’s what made me unappealing to women. Funny enough, now that I am married, I command the attention of lots of women, just as when I was engaged.
So to answer the question: it doesn’t matter if you live in a Marxist or Fascist state. If you don’t have the option of sex with desirable women because you are not appealing to them, you’ll have to work on improving yourself till you are.
And just a note on a fascist state: fascist states are remarkably tolerant to rape and domination of women. For fascists women are little more than cattle. So if you’re one of those self-restraining potential rapists, fascism is a pretty cool thing. And I hope your brain gets liquefied by bullet, like that of all your comrades :)
*I’m sure there’s a few cases of bisexual and gay men who are as unsuccessful in this regard as their straight homologues, but, let’s be honest, they are too statistically non-representative for me to dedicate time to their case.
 
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dnd rd + normfag opinion = foid opinion
 
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FAT LITTLE FAGGOT

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seriously why do normfags gotta write essays for everything?

more words doesnt make you more smart, you can get the point accross in a few sentences is
 
Cletus Longthing

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Too long dnr
 
Pajeetsingh

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This is a rather normie/bluepilled take .
 
CantEscapeYourFate

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Sex, for me, is a vehicle for affection, bonding, shared intimacy and mutual knowledge, not a commodity or a vehicle for power or domination. “Incels” that think like me in these regards, don’t find this kind of intercourse desirable.
What a bluepilled beta male simp cuckold soyboy. If he was redpilled or blackpilled, he wouldn't be craving female validation this hard. Every male mammal views sex as a fun, power and domination commodity. It's only these femboys that have such a sissy beta male view on sex.
 
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Very often, “incels” tend to be very socially alienated.
That's a bit cliché. A lot also just try to "fit in" because being NEET forever is a luxury a large majority of us can't afford. I'm pretty sure there are a lot of incels here and there in everyone's everyday life. Not all of them are conscious of their situation and still try to pull up the simp card from time to time.
 
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If life has taught me something is that, most women, even stereotypically attractive ones, will get past physical attraction pretty quickly in light of other aspects of the person, like their knowledge, sociability, sense of humor, skills, capacity for empathy and communication, projected health and self-confidence.
Capacity for empathy.

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read every word (in a dream)
anyway, why would anyone trust the opinion of normfags about incels. all the shit they're going to say is just cheap leftist stereotypes.
incels are unhygienic, unemployed, stupid, misogynistic, have very high standards. pretty much this is everything they're gonna say
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