Cope Escortcellers, has the hobby actually improved your satisfaction in life or is it like drugs?

[Incel_Because_Short]

My first time escortcelling was awesome and I felt great, however the more I think about it the more I realize that nothing materially changed for me.

It was fun in the moment and even for a couple days afterwards. For the time that I paid her, she had to pretend that I was the most attractive and interesting man in the World, and that she was so attracted to me that she couldn't help but get naked and have me jump her bones. Materially this is the equivalent of snorting a line of cocaine while injecting a needle of heroine. Just thinking about how Chad is basically bathing in feel-good chemicals from getting genuine love and sex is ragefuel.

As fake as it was, I'm craving the feeling again, and I'm worried that this is something that may become more addictive than alcohol, but it's worse because unlike alcohol, hiring an escort is expensive.

Escortcellers, have you found that visiting escorts regularly improved your overall satisfaction in life? Has that satisfaction ever went down? What's your story?

 

[PPEcel]

Drugs.

I told you on your last thread that you have got to set up a monthly and annual budget for all whoring-related expenses, and that you need the discipline to stick to it. You also need to emotionally distance yourself from the escorts you visit; if you think you have fallen in love with someone, you need to go cold turkey with her and visit another escort. Take my advice and don't ruin your life.

I'm sure that I'm better off having visited escorts than not, but it is not a panacea for inceldom. It does not magically change your life for the better. It does not improve any of the academic or professional issues that I face. It does not mitigate my social anxiety, and certainly not my subhuman genetics.

I still don't regret seeing escorts, because my ability to pay for sex with a Stacy, and my knowledge of what that sex feels like, is what makes me feel less desperate and more rational. But you need a certain level of self control in any case.

 

[hindustan_zindabad]

tbh I regret all the times I escortcelled and wished I didnt bother with it at all, it sounds stupid at first because its better than nothing but I rather would have died a true KHHV if it was gonna be like this

for any youngcel reading this you’ll probably enjoy drugs (safer ones like LSD/mushrooms/weed) more than an escort

Depending on your location the picture isnt who you’ll get and it can be a mixed bag sometimes you get a bad bitch but sometimes its no good

 

[Incel_Because_Short]

tbh I regret all the times I escortcelled and wished I didnt bother with it at all, it sounds stupid at first because its better than nothing but I rather would have died a true KHHV if it was gonna be like this

I don't really regret it, more I feel resentful that I don't get to experience this for free.

 

[hindustan_zindabad]

I don't really regret it, more I feel resentful that I don't get to experience this for free.

I just regret it now because I’ll never be able to be a true wizard

 

[your personality]

tbh I regret all the times I escortcelled and wished I didnt bother with it at all, it sounds stupid at first because its better than nothing but I rather would have died a true KHHV if it was gonna be like this

for any youngcel reading this you’ll probably enjoy drugs (safer ones like LSD/mushrooms/weed) more than an escort

I'm not an escortcel but I've wondered why there aren't more people that have the same view on this that you do.

reddit tier advice is that if you are a virgin male, to just visit a prostitute and get laid if it's bugging you so much. I think that advice isn't applicable to everyone, even virgin males who live in countries where prostitution is legal.

 

[Incel_Because_Short]

reddit tier advice is that if you are a virgin male, to just visit a prostitute and get laid if it's bugging you so much. I think that advice isn't applicable to everyone, even virgin males who live in countries where prostitution is legal.

That's because Redditors legitimately think that it's a person's perception about their virginity that affects their ability to get laid. They don't realize that usually if a man is a virgin by a certain age it's because of a trait outside of their control.

 

[hindustan_zindabad]

I'm not an escortcel but I've wondered why there aren't more people that have the same view on this that you do.

reddit tier advice is that if you are a virgin male, to just visit a prostitute and get laid if it's bugging you so much. I think that advice isn't applicable to everyone, even virgin males who live in countries where prostitution is legal.

It has put me into a weird state of limbo and made me more confused, I’ve seen about 7-8 escorts now and on several of those encounters they seemed to be pleased with my performance and were really happy with me after no awkwardness but I don’t know if their reaction is genuine or they’re just expecting a tip or because I pay for a whole hour because 30 minutes is too short now. If their reaction was genuine it makes me feel like I’m in a grey area as an incel but I’ll never really know. One of the most recent escorts I saw told me “I definitely know you’re not a virgin” I still don’t know how to take that

 

[your personality]

That's because Redditors legitimately think that it's a person's perception about their virginity that affects their ability to get laid. They don't realize that usually if a man is a virgin by a certain age it's because of a trait outside of their control.

Yeah it's easy to think prostitution is an easy solution for people that don't understand incels.

Plus escortcelling seems to be a like a thing more suited for NT guys because you have to interact with the prostitute normally and in a way that does not show vulnerability, or you could be finessed by the prostitute.

If their reaction was genuine it makes me feel like I’m in a grey area as an incel but I’ll never really know.

Exactly what I was trying to get at. It's a really weird spot to be in and I'd rather be a virgin than an escortcel for that reason. Same thing but to a lesser extent with having sex once but never having sex again after a woman breaks up with you (unless this happens around an older age like 50s to 60s).

 

[PPEcel]

reddit tier advice is that if you are a virgin male, to just visit a prostitute and get laid if it's bugging you so much. I think that advice isn't applicable to everyone, even virgin males who live in countries where prostitution is legal.

I've found that the biggest issue with virginity isn't the physical lack of sex, but the social stigma and lack of emotional validation. If I wanted to coom, I'd just buy a fleshlight or something. For me personally, the emotional aspects of hiring an escort are often better than the sex itself -- feeling her weight on top of you, her breath on your face, her warmth, her verbal responses. There isn't really a substitute for this. Sex is the cherry on top.

But virgin or not, you will still be treated like shit if you are ugly, it's that simple.

 

[Deleted member 23981]

I want to escortcel but it's better to put ur money towards surgery

 

[hindustan_zindabad]

For me personally, the emotional aspects of hiring an escort are often better than the sex itself -- feeling her weight on top of you, her breath on your face, her warmth, her verbal responses. There isn't really a substitute for this.

That’s one thing that caught me off guard when I lost my virginity to an esc for sure was the feeling their weight and boobs on you, that shit hits so different if you’ve never really cuddled with a girl in your life

 

[Incel_Because_Short]

It has put me into a weird state of limbo and made me more confused, I’ve seen about 7-8 escorts now and on several of those encounters they seemed to be pleased with my performance and were really happy with me after no awkwardness but I don’t know if their reaction is genuine or they’re just expecting a tip or because I pay for a whole hour because 30 minutes is too short now. If their reaction was genuine it makes me feel like I’m in a grey area as an incel but I’ll never really know.

It's honestly kind of a mindfuck, because the girl treats you nice for the time you pay her, but once you get back to real life, you're back to where girls don't even acknowledge your existence or are partially disgusted at your presence.

A bigger mindfuck is how these girls are able to kiss and fuck and see it as nothing personal. It actually amazes me how depraved these girls are that they can totally separate sex from love.

Yeah it's easy to think prostitution is an easy solution for people that don't understand incels.

Plus escortcelling seems to be a like a thing more suited for NT guys because you have to interact with the client normally and in a way that does not show vulnerability, or you could be finessed by the prostitute.

Transactional sex is definitely not a cure.

I've found that the biggest issue with virginity isn't the physical lack of sex, but the social stigma and lack of emotional validation. If I wanted to coom, I'd just buy a fleshlight or something. For me personally, the emotional aspects of hiring an escort are often better than the sex itself -- feeling her weight on top of you, her breath on your face, her warmth, her verbal responses. There isn't really a substitute for this. Sex is the cherry on top.

I haven't heard truer words. I didn't even like the sex all that much tbh, you could get a better sensation with a fleshlight. What I enjoyed was having her legs around my waist, and the way she smelled, the way she touched me, her breathing, her warmth.

 

[Emba]

It's honestly kind of a mindfuck, because the girl treats you nice for the time you pay her, but once you get back to real life, you're back to where girls don't even acknowledge your existence or are partially disgusted at your presence.

A bigger mindfuck is how these girls are able to kiss and fuck and see it as nothing personal. It actually amazes me how depraved these girls are that they can totally separate sex from love.



Transactional sex is definitely not a cure.


I haven't heard truer words. I didn't even like the sex all that much tbh, you could get a better sensation with a fleshlight. What I enjoyed was having her legs around my waist, and the way she smelled, the way she touched me, her breathing, her warmth.

Brutal realitypill bro.

 

[PPEcel]

That’s one thing that caught me off guard when I lost my virginity to an esc for sure was the feeling their weight and boobs on you, that shit hits so different if you’ve never really cuddled with a girl in your life

I haven't heard truer words. I didn't even like the sex all that much tbh, you could get a better sensation with a fleshlight. What I enjoyed was having her legs around my waist, and the way she smelled, the way she touched me, her breathing, her warmth.

Yeah, it definitely feels like something else. Another thing you'll realize after going through at least half a dozen escorts is that because of this, their attitude is just as important as their attractiveness. The youngest escort I've visited (I was 18 and she was 19) offered probably the 2nd- or 3rd-worst sex of my life, I just stared at the ceiling half the time, she didn't really make an effort to engage, and the creaky bed was getting on my nerves.

I find it mildly difficult to orgasm from vaginal sex, to be honest. I have to really try; sometimes it doesn't feel natural. Perhaps a decade of masturbation and pornography has psychologically wired my brain for the worse.

 

[Incel_Because_Short]

Yeah, it definitely feels like something else. Another thing you'll realize after going through at least half a dozen escorts is that because of this, their attitude is just as important as their attractiveness. The youngest escort I've visited (I was 18 and she was 19) offered probably the 2nd- or 3rd-worst sex of my life, I just stared at the ceiling half the time, she didn't really make an effort to engage, and the creaky bed was getting on my nerves.

I find it mildly difficult to orgasm from vaginal sex, to be honest. I have to really try; sometimes it doesn't feel natural. Perhaps a decade of masturbation and pornography has psychologically wired my brain for the worse.

Yeah I'm a bit iffy on the younger girls. The one I hired advertised as 25, so she has probably been in the game for longer and understand what is needed to get a repeat customer.

 

[Deleted member 27159]

I haven’t done it but I believe that it would feel like drugs. Still a decent cope if you can afford it but it wouldn’t solve the problem at all

 

[Incel_Because_Short]

I haven’t done it but I believe that it would feel like drugs. Still a decent cope if you can afford it but it wouldn’t solve the problem at all

Honestly the only way I was able to enjoy it was by drinking. She offered wine, if she didn't then I likely wouldn't have coomed because I would have been too self-conscious.

 

[PPEcel]

Yeah I'm a bit iffy on the younger girls. The one I hired advertised as 25, so she has probably been in the game for longer and understand what is needed to get a repeat customer.

As someone who'll turn 20 in a few months, I've found the sweet spot are foids around 24-27. Not too old to show signs of ageing, but confident/experienced enough to take the lead, so to speak.

 

[Deleted member 27159]

Honestly the only way I was able to enjoy it was by drinking. She offered wine, if she didn't then I likely wouldn't have coomed because I would have been too self-conscious.

It was really that bad? Might as well just watch porn

 

[riceronicel]

My first time escortcelling was awesome and I felt great, however the more I think about it the more I realize that nothing materially changed for me.

It was fun in the moment and even for a couple days afterwards. For the time that I paid her, she had to pretend that I was the most attractive and interesting man in the World, and that she was so attracted to me that she couldn't help but get naked and have me jump her bones. Materially this is the equivalent of snorting a line of cocaine while injecting a needle of heroine. Just thinking about how Chad is basically bathing in feel-good chemicals from getting genuine love and sex is ragefuel.

As fake as it was, I'm craving the feeling again, and I'm worried that this is something that may become more addictive than alcohol, but it's worse because unlike alcohol, hiring an escort is expensive.

Escortcellers, have you found that visiting escorts regularly improved your overall satisfaction in life? Has that satisfaction ever went down? What's your story?

definitely think it would be like drugs. Never escortmaxxed the shit out of my finances to know what it’s like but I can’t help it wouls improve you unless you’re a good looking person or have a positive trait to begin with

 

[Incel_Because_Short]

It was really that bad? Might as well just watch porn

Nah it was good but if your mind is working then you can't really enjoy it. You can't really get into it if you're thinking about how pathetic you are that you're paying for something that others get for free.

You really need to turn your mind off to enjoy it, but it's definitely better than porn.

 

[Deleted member 27159]

Nah it was good but if your mind is working then you can't really enjoy it. You can't really get into it if you're thinking about how pathetic you are that you're paying for something that others get for free.

You really need to turn your mind off to enjoy it, but it's definitely better than porn.

Alright. If I ever get a hooker I will just drink first. Looks like that would solve the mental problem.

 

[TuffWarlock]

It's a drug.

I started off being completely happy seeing $80 backpage whores who didn't allow kissing and wanted you rubbered up at all times.

After that wasn't enough so it was $300/hr GFE that for a short time actually felt like the real thing.

Then it was two girls at a time, three at a time, pornstars, and now I currently keep a sugar baby around for when I get the itch.

But eventually you realize it's never the real thing. Foids are stupid and terrible liars so it's impossible to trick yourself into believing they're not disgusted by you. I'm at a point where that's actually what I want, to do sick gross disgusting things to foids who have to pretend they love it while I can see them dying inside.

 

[npcel]

It actually made me feel much worse. Before I was able to cope and didnt knew what I missed. Now I feel so empty most of the time even though the experiences were mostly good. Still planning on going maybe every second weekend and search for good ones who at least fake interest in you. Overall life is just shit so it doesnt matter

 

[PPEcel]

It's honestly kind of a mindfuck, because the girl treats you nice for the time you pay her, but once you get back to real life, you're back to where girls don't even acknowledge your existence or are partially disgusted at your presence.

It really is. I try to numb my mind with alcohol afterwards, I almost always drink before and/or after a meet.

 

[deathsh+rt]

I don't know never visit one but I was thinking about it.

 

[AutisticMonstrosity]

As someone who'll turn 20 in a few months, I've found the sweet spot are foids around 24-27. Not too old to show signs of ageing, but confident/experienced enough to take the lead, so to speak.

I took about 2 hours of breathing and thinking before I can write this. How can you be 19? You are so mature, wise, intelligent, experienced, high income, rich (?), good education and job, moved from another continent (?).

I've been dreaming about sex with women more years than you have been alive! Actually I have had enough money saved to pay for sex longer than you have lived, but I have still not done it.

Absolutely brutal suicide fuel.

 

[grondilu]

Of course it's going to be addictive.

You will have to manage your desire and not succumb to it, otherwise you'll be broke in no time.

 

[AutisticMonstrosity]

It actually made me feel much worse. Before I was able to cope and didnt knew what I missed. Now I feel so empty most of the time even though the experiences were mostly good. Still planning on going maybe every second weekend and search for good ones who at least fake interest in you. Overall life is just shit so it doesnt matter

Thank you for your experience. Should I never go pay for sex? Do you now regret that you did it?

 

[IncelKing]

ive fucked whores only 10 times in my life. It has improved my life as much as weed has, so its like a drug you can say. Although i can't afford both of these addictions that often, after paying living costs. I need to moneymaxx so i can increase the frequency in purchase of these outlets of entertainment.

 

[Napoléoncel]

I fuck prostitutes every week 1-2 and sometimes 3 times when I have money. Tbh, if you find a good whore that knows how to actually please/seduce you and do not give you the impression that she hates you, it’s amazing. It improves my life quality a lot and I can’t live without it. I know, it’s pathetic but once you taste how sex is, you can’t stop. Maybe it depends on the person too, but for me it’s essential.

 

[Deleted member 19116]

It's definitely like drugs. I'm trying to find a better cope, thinking about converting to Christianity because it promotes celibacy and it doesn't hold up sex as the highest pursuit purpose of life.

 

[npcel]

Thank you for your experience. Should I never go pay for sex? Do you now regret that you did it?

Do it man. But try to pick the best you can find. I only regret it for waiting too long (31yo) .. Maybe it would helped me much more with 18-20y.o.

 

[PPEcel]

I took about 2 hours of breathing and thinking before I can write this. How can you be 19? You are so mature, wise, intelligent, experienced, high income, rich (?), good education and job, moved from another continent (?).
Absolutely brutal suicide fuel.

I don't have a good job yet, I get bux from my parents.

 

[Dregster]

My first time escortcelling was awesome and I felt great, however the more I think about it the more I realize that nothing materially changed for me.

It was fun in the moment and even for a couple days afterwards. For the time that I paid her, she had to pretend that I was the most attractive and interesting man in the World, and that she was so attracted to me that she couldn't help but get naked and have me jump her bones. Materially this is the equivalent of snorting a line of cocaine while injecting a needle of heroine. Just thinking about how Chad is basically bathing in feel-good chemicals from getting genuine love and sex is ragefuel.

As fake as it was, I'm craving the feeling again, and I'm worried that this is something that may become more addictive than alcohol, but it's worse because unlike alcohol, hiring an escort is expensive.

Escortcellers, have you found that visiting escorts regularly improved your overall satisfaction in life? Has that satisfaction ever went down? What's your story?

Definitely saw an improvement

Having that release was lifefuel tbh

Do it man. But try to pick the best you can find. I only regret it for waiting too long (31yo) .. Maybe it would helped me much more with 18-20y.o.

This

I started at 24 and i don't regret it one bit. I might of roped before cracking 30 tbh

 

[AutisticMonstrosity]

I don't have a good job yet, I get bux from my parents.

Your parents finance your luxury life buying sex, drugs...! Do they know? Where are you from?

My parents have never given me money and did not even support my education at all and kicked me out at a young age. I have no (higher) education because I could not afford it and I was not ready to take massive amount of loans because I wasn't confident of having a job after graduation (I had good grades, always the best boy in class in every school I went). It's not like in the UK where you only have to pay student debt back if you have income above the threshold.

 

[grondilu]

I fuck prostitutes every week 1-2 and sometimes 3 times when I have money. Tbh, if you find a good whore that knows how to actually please/seduce you and do not give you the impression that she hates you, it’s amazing. It improves my life quality a lot and I can’t live without it. I know, it’s pathetic but once you taste how sex is, you can’t stop. Maybe it depends on the person too, but for me it’s essential.

I envy you, man. I assume you don't live in a cucked country where prostitution is illegal, is that it ?

 

[SuperMario64DS]

It's honestly kind of a mindfuck, because the girl treats you nice for the time you pay her, but once you get back to real life, you're back to where girls don't even acknowledge your existence or are partially disgusted at your presence.

This is honestly one of my biggest fears with escortcelling - I don't have the money for it whatsoever right now, but in a few years...maybe.

I feel like these escorts have enough experience that they can pinpoint exactly where you feel vulnerable, where you need emotional support, what exactly you like and desire; they can read into your mind based on who you are.

At that point I feel like it becomes incredibly fucked because you wouldn't know what is reality and what is falsehood; is she genuinely happy to be with you or is she doing an act?

And then to get completely unearned validation, knowing full well that you aren't validated as a human being, I feel fucks you up even more and fucks with your perception of reality.

 

[grondilu]

At that point I feel like it becomes incredibly fucked because you wouldn't know what is reality and what is falsehood; is she genuinely happy to be with you or is she doing an act?

There's a simple reality check for that : just ask for a free pass. Or even just for a credit. See how that flies.

 

[Napoléoncel]

I envy you, man. I assume you don't live in a cucked country where prostitution is illegal, is that it ?

it was legal but they made it illegal a couple of years ago. i dont really care tbh, i found gems and ill visit them even if its illegal or not. once you taste good sex its hard to get away from it

 

[Incel_Because_Short]

At that point I feel like it becomes incredibly fucked because you wouldn't know what is reality and what is falsehood; is she genuinely happy to be with you or is she doing an act?

Nah that will never happen. You will always know that it's fake.

There are a lot of delusional guys out there though that get fooled, but remember as long as you're paying to see her she's fake.