I don't like this phrase-- not like I give a fuck, but have foids ever realized that it's actually a horrible thing for men to be emotionally available, because that would mean the venom would come out, and the whores would be put in their place.
When men are NOT emotionally available, they are showing restraint and discipline they could never FATHOM to appreciate. The problem with most men that are chronically single, is that they are TOO emotionally available, TOO emotionally honest. It's a quality that DISGUSTS women, because it shows that you lack the ability to emotionally manipulate others. It's a giveaway that you lack the dark triad traits necessary to bag hotties that only fuck bad boys.
I heavily agree on this. Showing emotions and being honest about them is seen as weakness, because you show your vulnerability, suddenly you kinda make it others problems, you share your weight, even if you dont expect any help from others. As a man its expected to keep quiet about things that bother you, theyre automatically assigned as negative traits like cowardice, insecurity, being possessive, entitled, etc.
I can't manipulate & lie to someone, even to foids - because i'm disgusted by evil.
After 20 years of survival in psychopath lunatic sphere, you simply want to vomit every time when you think about deceiving or lying to someone, if you're not trolling.
Same, after being manipulated by my mother and lied, deceived and manipulated by my father my whole life, i simply cannot act that way, i would hate myself, as i cant forgive them, even after their death.
The reason why you cant lie or deceive others isn't out of some deep moral belief, but more total cowardice of falling prey to the consequences of your own actions.
Maybe isnt deep moral belief, but it grounds on treating others as you want to be treated. Guys like us have a fear of being lied to, manipulated, so we do it expecting the same treatment back.
I don't think that's the real argument here. If final action against my "prey" would be - for example ending in relationship with me - the consequence of this would be probably happy end.
I don't know if it's true argument or not - but i think somewhat smart people. who has survived mental hellscape with their parents/school and released themselves by living on their own - felt a relief, when nobody rapes them intellectually/emotionally every day. And after fleeing them & realisation about you true colors (by living on your own you have a lots of uninterrupted time to think) you'd probably despise & treat psychopathic traits with disgust, and avoid this treatment to others because you don't want to repeat the infernal circle again and again.
However, main issue with this is - people raised in relatively healthy houses (or with specific mental traits [not autism]) maybe don't care about the truth. They see emotional mind games & deception as a fun, so when foid gets seduced by simply pretending, she doesn't crash out - instead they get horny because of this.
@Mecoja @AtrociousCitizen i'd like to learn about your opinion for my statement.
Yeah, pretty much. I know that playing mind games is much more useful, much more effective, you can literally fool people into thinking youre much more worth, you can addict people to you. You can shape your personality to what attracts the specific person. Being emotionally unavailable is a desired trait, is seen as stoic, adult, strong. Youre being "mysterious" as you dont reveal all of your card, so you leave space for them to fill with what they desire, I consciously know all that, but simply its not who i am. And yeah, people with healthy childhood are not traumatized lol by so many patterns.
