- Nov 19, 2017
I realize this is a controversial post. I am not trying to stir up anything here. Rather, I am seeking answers but I know that in the politically correct world we live in, it's hard to confront uncomfortable topics.
For every Asian man/white female couple you see, there are three Asian female/White male couples. Why the discrepancy?
I believe it has to do with East Asian generics. By East Asian, I mean Chinese/Japanese/Korean/Vietnamese.
Asian males are on average shorter and have less facial hair. These traits work towards disadvantage of the Asian male but advantage towards the Asian female.
Asian females on average are thinner, less hair and shorter. The shorter aspect doesn't matter much for females because girls can always date taller guys.
But for Asian males, we are at a disadvantage in the Anglo-Saxon world. We are shorter, less facial hair, and scrawnier. Add on top of that the culture of being studious and bookworms only makes it worse.
This has always been a problem and American mass media has been trying to correct it by introducing couples such as in the Walking dead with Glenn and Maggie. But the truth is, the Korean guy who plays Glenn. He would do really well in both East Asia as well as in the Americas. He doesn't look like the typical East Asian guy. For one thing, he's pretty tall for an east Asian guy. He's got some facial hair. He's pretty good looking. In South Korea, he'd be regarded as a hearthrob. And in the US, he's even regarded by white girls as "cute" and definitely dateable. Unfortunately, we don't all look like him.
I'm not trying to blame anyone. I owe a lot of my success to my adoptive country. It's white caucasian men who decided to give me a chance to succeed when I graduated college and had no experience. It's the same white men who date Asian girls who at the same time who extended career opportunities to me.
I like white girls and I'm open to dating them but I find they are not open to dating me. Mainly because I'm shorter and thinner than what they are used to.
I am a westernized Asian. If we ever went to war, I would die for my adoptive country. That's how loyal I am. I am well-educated and since the day I graduated college, I've had a good job and have been a good taxpayer contributing to society. I feel like I've paid my dues.
But I don't feel like I'm being treated fairly in the dating field. White women won't date me. Asian girls won't date me because they can find better more masculine White men. I'm at a loss here.
They say the main victim of multiculturalism are the white population but I feel the East Asian male population has suffered just as much. We are for the most part well-educated and contribute to society but we watch our women going for white guys while we remain single and lonely.
Maybe this is the price we have to pay for our adoptive country but I feel it's sometimes too high. I feel like sometimes my parents should have just stuck it out in our native countries.
He's borderline blackpilled but then says this
It was interesting reading this thread and its replies, reminded me a lot of @ItsACrazyWorld 's posts on cuckit.