1) Wealth only makes life more enjoyable upto around $70k
You are stating this bro science stat as though its a fact, what is your basis for this and what criteria are you using for "happiness"
Notice I said more enjoyable, and by that I mean physically enjoyable
More leisure, actually being able to have sex (pay for it), eat the best tasting food, enjoy the best of entertainment, being able to sleep properly and force yourself up every morning with an alarm to go wagecuck, etc
"Happiness" is just vague subjective bullshit, anybody can be "happy" under virtually any circumstance
Happiness is a combination of:
Personal Standards + Ignorance Of Standards
How low your standards are for your quality of life and how ignorant you are of how much better it can be
For example there are still remote tribes on the planet, people that don't know what a fridge is, I'm sure a lot of them are happy, and that's because their standards are low and they don't know it could be much better
THAT'S WHAT HAPPINESS IS, HAPPINESS SHOULD NEVER BE A CRITERION FOR DECIDING LIFE CHOICES, ITS TOO SUBJECTIVE
Physical satisfaction is much more dependable as criteria
2) Being able to control where you go physically is control your life
No that's control of your location, its irrelevant, its like saying that being able to decide if you can pee standing up is control over your life, you are focusing very strongly on something very insignificant, being able to have sex is much more related to control over your life, so again, your priorities are off, you are really just coping
I know my life would still suck, but in those moments away from it all, it will be a great cope.
I rest my case, end of discussion, like I said:
you're obviously one of those guys who is just focused on coping rather than changing your life
"I can't go to every distraction from my shitty life"
Good, maybe you'll spend some time trying to change it then JFL