I would date her if she's as described, and I wouldn't send her weird messages or dick pics.
But maybe I haven't ever met her. Still, I've met many other women and if you include the internet, I have come across many 10s of thousands of women who have all rejected this chill dude who doesn't send dick pics or weird messages. With that large of a pool, I think it's safe to say she would reject this guy who fits her criteria perfectly as well. I fit every woman's criteria perfectly, so I don't know what is going on.