Dualism

[decafincel]

I've reached the point where I am getting increasingly frustrated over how my mind wants one thing but my body wants the other.

Like most of you, physically I want sex. This is obviously a natural feeling.

At the same times mentality I hate the idea of actually being in a relationship and the baggage that comes with it. This leads to coping, jerking off and wasting time that goes with it. Being a student I don't have the luxury of NEET lifestyle so I cannot afford to waste time I told myself before the begining of the year I could accomplish a lot in life and school and that my desire for sex and a girlfriend were the only thing that could stop me.

Now I'm struggling because my mind and body aren't on the same page and life sucks even more than it used to. Does anybody feel like this?

I just wish I could quench the thirst, man...

(Just in case: no Mods I'm not saying I hate being male. I'm just saying I hate being incel AND having my mind and body want two different things. I think the psychological term for this is Dualism).

 

[Lawrence]

Yeah, "duality" usually...- you're not the only one my brocel, and the good news is that you've got a good chance of having some money to throw around in a few years, so if you don't want "the baggage that comes with a relationship" then you can treat yourself to some high-quality copes such as escorts to quench the thirst.

In the meantime I think you're handling the desires & hunger as best as a man can, and yep there are many others around you dealing with the same thing...
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[Kaichee]

I want sex.

 

[Truecelcel]

Castration or sterilisation I guess?