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Discussion Dropping IRL Friends

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Greycel
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Before, I get responses that I'm not an incel for having "irl friends", I'm going to explain that these 5 guys are the only people I know outside of my relatives. Literally.
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I'm on the verge of dropping my friends IRL. They are literally my only IRL friends (we're a group of 5). We are classmates back in high school. Part of it is that they are just a bunch bluepilled normies who will probably try so fucking hard to destroy me once they know that I hate women so fucking much. Life went pretty good for like the two of them, but not so much for the others. Mine on the other hand is going pretty good until I decided that I don't want to participate in the rat race anymore. Last time was brutal because they were talking about sex with their girlfriends and having all these shit going on their lives. Anyways, did anyone of you ever dropped your NPC "friends" before? Like, these bastards would probably betray me once they find out that I swallowed the blackpill. I need urgent answers boyos because we're supposed to meet up on Sunday and I'm currently planning to cut any trace of contact to the world.

Note: Sorry for the wall of text and the grammar mistakes.
 
Well if you guys have a common interest and have fun then why drop them just because le sex talk
 
I mean, it doesn't sound like you actually hate them. Just keep them around for now imo.
 
Don't waste your time on normgroids.
 
Don't know how to help you boyo, the only friends I had in HS were low SMV outcasts

Even then they didn't stick around for very long
 
Just hide your power level cause if you try to blackpill them no matter how subtle you are, they will spew out bluepill trash advice and Gaslight you for your inceldom.
 
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Don't drop your friends retard. life of isolation is hell.
 
Yeah, i dropped mine aswell eons ago.
Sacrifices must be made to protect my NEET Kingdom.
 
Don't drop your friends retard. life of isolation is hell.
Yeah total isolation is bad. It is impossible to recover your life when you have literally no friends. Being alone all the time will make you weird over time. You wont be able to interact with people like normal people do. Nobody will want to be around you, not even your family. Society is very good at flushing the weirdos down the drain and having friends, even one friend, even sorta-friends, will at least keep your sanity for a while longer.
 
Before, I get responses that I'm not an incel for having "irl friends", I'm going to explain that these 5 guys are the only people I know outside of my relatives. Literally.
- - - - - - -
I'm on the verge of dropping my friends IRL. They are literally my only IRL friends (we're a group of 5). We are classmates back in high school. Part of it is that they are just a bunch bluepilled normies who will probably try so fucking hard to destroy me once they know that I hate women so fucking much. Life went pretty good for like the two of them, but not so much for the others. Mine on the other hand is going pretty good until I decided that I don't want to participate in the rat race anymore. Last time was brutal because they were talking about sex with their girlfriends and having all these shit going on their lives. Anyways, did anyone of you ever dropped your NPC "friends" before? Like, these bastards would probably betray me once they find out that I swallowed the blackpill. I need urgent answers boyos because we're supposed to meet up on Sunday and I'm currently planning to cut any trace of contact to the world.

Note: Sorry for the wall of text and the grammar mistakes.
No need. My IRL "friends" dropped me once school ended.
 
5 friends is probably more than most people even have to begin with
 
LITERALLY JUST TELL THEM THAT YOU’RE UNIRONICALLY AN INCEL AND YOU HATE WOMEN. IF THEY REACT POSITIVELY OR COULDN’T CARE LESS, DON’T CUT THEM OFF. IF THEY REACT NEGATIVELY THEN CUT THEM OFF. IT’S NOT HARD
 
Honestly, if you get along with them in most aspects other than inceldom, then just keep being friends with them.

But if they're toxic, just go all in.

I've only told my inceldom to friends who I have who I know for a FACT sympathize with the blackpill in at least some ways, and pretty much all of them are fine with it. And one normie. Who ended up trying to use it to disparage me to others. I have learned my lesson.
 
Sounds brutal, but I've never had any real or close friends ever in my life. Being alone in solitude is all I know, I hate it to be sure, but at the same time I wouldn't know what to do with close friends because it seems so alien to me.

I hate being lonely, yet being alone my entire life is all I know. I find myself in an odd and conflicting position in my life, it's a constant never-ending dilemma of mine.
 
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If you do just be prepared to never have friends again.
 
Im too in a similar situation.
I have like 6 or 5 real life friends, they are all bluepilled, have gfs and extremely condescending.
thinking about not talking to them anymore
 
I’ll give my 2 cents on this topic.

I can only say that I have had “friends” that are in worse situations then me, in regards to various normie metrics, (school, work etc).

I have one friend that has my back whenever I need him to help me with stuff and I pay him back in kind. I think this is because we have seriously fucked up childhoods. There is a mutual level of understanding.

The vast majority of people you hangout with during school or work are not your friends, most would never actually talk to real life and if they did, it’s because they wanted something from you.

These acquaintances will drift in and out of your life and it’s really up to you to determine if you need to seperate from them for good.

I ghost these sorts of people. Not worth fighting or trying to get them to understand, it’s easier to cut them off and never interact from then again. If by some odds, I meet them in real life, I’ll just ignore them or if I’m confronted, I’ll say what I think and be done with it.

I have people from different parts of my life that I rotates through, some from school, some from previous gigs. The idea of a brotherhood of support is really dead. Unfortunately, friendship and utility are mixed together in the modern era, so since I do things pretty much solo, I don’t really need people.

There is a saying, “Your friends are your future.” But no one is really your friend and most people will just steal from you; steal your time, your energy, your money, your resources and your humanity.

Although, it is interesting to see reality manifest itself.

I know two people specifically;
One is a 6.1ft Australian junkie, lives in section 8 housing, parents were crackheads, never finished high school, never had a job. He met his first and current girlfriend in a mental clinic, they were both patients. Has no idea about dating dynamics or anything outside of drugs, food and movies.

The other is a 5.10ft Iranian immigrant, has a Ms in Finance, works in a bank, rents his apartment, has had one casual relationship but is the most blue pilled retarded I have ever met. He drags me to clubs, where I watch him fail to pick up women, and his latest “strategy” is friendzoning himself so he can hide his intention of trying to hook up with women. Of course, I tried to explain that not only is that retarded because they know what your doing but paying to do that in a club is pointless when they have social media. Of course, I’m just giving up or whatever copium he has that week (you know the type of people I mean).

Only by dealing with people can you see that absolute joke that life really is.
 

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