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SuicideFuel Dreaming about having a gf is so fucking brutal, mang.

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To some, dreaming is a good cope. Where we can use it as a form of escapism, where we can escape our mediocre to downright horrible lives and experience what our lives might have been if the odds weren't against us.

But there's a dark side to it. When you dream and have a great time with your fictional gf, suddenly you wake up and get a grim reminder of what's real and what's just mere imagination. It's basically just another fucked up way of reality tormenting us. It's showing us what our lives might have been only to strip that away from us like we are part of some cruel joke. :society:

It's basically like having a feast infront of a starving person, where all he can do is watch. It's honestly fucked up if you think about it. :cryfeels:

I also remember back in 2020 I think where I dreamed of having a blonde, blue eyed gf that looked like she came from some anime. Anyways, she was having a handbal session and I was there to support her. After it ended, we were doing what normal couples do, having a good chat, laughing, hugging, looking at each other's eyes. All was good until the brain decided I was dreaming too much and pulled me back to my shitty truecel life.

And holy fuck was that brutal! I could vividly remember searching for blonde stacies on the internet to remember her face, to not let the brain hide her in my subconscious mind. And for the rest of my day, I was thinking of her, thinking what my life would have been like if she were real and me and her were a real thing. Even to this day I sometimes get reminded of her. You know your brain is a motherfucker when pulls bs like this. :feelsree:
 
I hope the world burns I fucking hate everything. All I wanted was love.
 
I’d still like to experience a dream like that at least once so I know what it’s like. But no, I just get retarded bizarre dreams instead
 
smash rhodri meilir GIF by Acorn TV
 
Ruins my week.
 
I’ve stopped doing that thankfully
 
I only dream of real life girls when it happens. At most in the dream we kiss on the lips. When I wake up I'm oddly emotional and madly in love with the girl that I dreamed, much more than normally, and sad because I can't do anything about it. This lasts only for the morning, and it happened two or three times in my life.
 
Daydreaming hurt as fuck
I relate i daydream constantly of having a gf
 
When i was younger i daydreamed a lot, about girlfriend, having children, etc.
Right now i can't. I'm so devastated and derailed that everytime i try to imagine something like that i experience physical pain in head, not migraine but something like burning synapses with acid.
 
ive dreamt about having a girlfriend a few times. i dont rememeber what the dreams were like, but i remember the sense of rage and despair when i woke up from them
 
I remember a dream about seeing a girl who I hadn't seen since I was a little kid. We started talking and hanging out and she happily agreed to go on a date with me. Then my stupid ass woke up
 
I remember a dream about seeing a girl who I hadn't seen since I was a little kid. We started talking and hanging out and she happily agreed to go on a date with me. Then my stupid ass woke up
she was really fucking pretty too. I hate my useless life
 
I’d still like to experience a dream like that at least once so I know what it’s like. But no, I just get retarded bizarre dreams instead
Same. I think my brain is incapable of cogitating such scenarios, hence a dream wherein a girl loves me is incomprehensible; it would be equivalent to asking my brain to dream about square circles.
 
I wanna try lucid dreaming but I don’t know how to do it. But I do day dream a lot and frequently dissociate
 
So far I’ve only had one dream where a girl was nice me :fuk:
 
Hoping and Dreaming only ever ends in misery.
 
I always forget about my dreams
 
To some, dreaming is a good cope. Where we can use it as a form of escapism, where we can escape our mediocre to downright horrible lives and experience what our lives might have been if the odds weren't against us.

But there's a dark side to it. When you dream and have a great time with your fictional gf, suddenly you wake up and get a grim reminder of what's real and what's just mere imagination. It's basically just another fucked up way of reality tormenting us. It's showing us what our lives might have been only to strip that away from us like we are part of some cruel joke. :society:

It's basically like having a feast infront of a starving person, where all he can do is watch. It's honestly fucked up if you think about it. :cryfeels:

I also remember back in 2020 I think where I dreamed of having a blonde, blue eyed gf that looked like she came from some anime. Anyways, she was having a handbal session and I was there to support her. After it ended, we were doing what normal couples do, having a good chat, laughing, hugging, looking at each other's eyes. All was good until the brain decided I was dreaming too much and pulled me back to my shitty truecel life.

And holy fuck was that brutal! I could vividly remember searching for blonde stacies on the internet to remember her face, to not let the brain hide her in my subconscious mind. And for the rest of my day, I was thinking of her, thinking what my life would have been like if she were real and me and her were a real thing. Even to this day I sometimes get reminded of her. You know your brain is a motherfucker when pulls bs like this. :feelsree:
In my role as an online therapist, I hear girls complain about dressing up elaborately just to impress their boyfriends, only to not receive the patience, attention, and appreciation they desired. For those who have never been marked by the pain of absence, romantic relationships seem trivial. We only recognize their importance—not because we are morally superior, but because the contrast of our empty existence highlights that need. We see what others don't. While some are visited by their girlfriends and have access to the feminine, others are ignored and left wanting. By the way, what you are describing is called excessive rumination (or maladaptive daydreaming)."
 
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In my role as an online therapist, I hear girls complain about dressing up elaborately just to impress their boyfriends, only to not receive the patience, attention, and appreciation they desired. For those who have never been marked by the pain of absence, romantic relationships seem trivial. We only recognize their importance—not because we are morally superior, but because the contrast of our empty existence highlights that need. We see what others don't. While some are visited by their girlfriends and have access to the feminine, others are ignored and left wanting. By the way, what you are describing is called excessive rumination (or maladaptive daydreaming)."
I wasn't daydreaming. I was literally sleeping and dreaming. That chick that appeared before me wasn't even consciously being made up, rather my subconscious created her.
 
I hope the world burns I fucking hate everything. All I wanted was love.
I hope the AIs take over and nuke the entire place, the human race deserves it, for giving women right they have forfeited the right to exist, let's hope the machines will do better.
 
I hope the AIs take over and nuke the entire place, the human race deserves it, for giving women right they have forfeited the right to exist, let's hope the machines will do better.
That would be fucking based
 
Lucid dreams are amazing though. You can do anything but then wake up and its ova
 
I used to dream about finding this girl randomly in public and making conversation and going to places. I haven't had a dream for a very long time now.
 
I hope the world burns I fucking hate everything. All I wanted was love.
Women hold the monopoly and power over sex, romance, procreation and relationships, the leverage they have is surreal, dating apps, simping, women having it all has exaggerated the issue alot. The avg woman is so hateful and disgusted towards the avg ugly man, and is ridiculed constantly, and they think it’s absolutely fine to do that.
 
Women hold the monopoly and power over sex, romance, procreation and relationships, the leverage they have is surreal, dating apps, simping, women having it all has exaggerated the issue alot. The avg woman is so hateful and disgusted towards the avg ugly man, and is ridiculed constantly, and they think it’s absolutely fine to do that.
I hope all foids rights are taken away some day
 
no dreaming about having a gf with my height and face
 
it's hard to escape, there's reminders of it literally fucking everywhere.
 
Although those dreams can be incredible in the moment, the problem is that at some point you inevitably have to wake up to your cold reality. They aren't worth having to go through that brutal moment of realisation.
 
truecel trait: Having a GF is such an abstract thought that your brain cant even dream it
 
When i was younger i daydreamed a lot, about girlfriend, having children, etc.
Right now i can't. I'm so devastated and derailed that everytime i try to imagine something like that i experience physical pain in head, not migraine but something like burning synapses with acid.

children?

your mean sons?

having daughters is cucked
 
I never have dreams like that
 
I’d still like to experience a dream like that at least once so I know what it’s like. But no, I just get retarded bizarre dreams instead

cucked by our own subconcsious
 
Not really. You can realistically fantasise about women until you die and it’s a healthy expression of sexuality/desire. Is also good masturbation material
 
I'm honestly shocked this thread made it here and it's not even one of the threads where I've actually put an effort in.
 

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