Don't watch porn. I'm quitting it for real this time srs

[Saigon Depression]

If anything porn is what made me want to pay for sex even more, if you spend enough time just watching something that you want to do, thinking about it over and over, at some point you're going to want to do it yourself

Porn "gets old" as they years go by

I'm not going to badmouth porn, because I think it influenced my sexual taste and attitude in a positive way.
A couple of days ago I was with a 20 yo escort and I wanted to try the lotus position. She didn't even know what I was talking about. We had missionary instead.
I guess I watched much more porn than she did.

 

[Deleted member 34031]

I did a 10 day nofap without breaking any sweat and didn't even think about jerking off or women these 10 days. My sex drive went down the drain but at least I didn't thought abou girls or sex at all. It was easy and I was happier. But today I saw a porn gif in a discord server and it revived my sex drive and I jerked off 2 times today already. Now I'm really depressed because watching porn made me realize what I'm missing, these girls are so hot and I will probably never get that level of intimacy.
I'm quitting porn this time for real. Fuck that degenerate shit tbh.

Im in a point in life where I have no sexual desire and Im not feeling sexually aroused by porn,I got days without even thinking about sex

 

[Deleted member 33827]

Im in a point in life where I have no sexual desire and Im not feeling sexually aroused by porn,I got days without even thinking about sex

How old are you?

 

[BlkPillPres]

Im in a point in life where I have no sexual desire and Im not feeling sexually aroused by porn,I got days without even thinking about sex

1. How old are you (age range, now specific age, 20's, 30's, etc)?

2. Have you considered that its just that you are "used to" the kind of porn you are watching

I've noticed that if I've watched a lot of porn featuring white women over time it isn't as arousing, and if I start up a video with an asian or a black woman its super arousing even if there's nothing special about her

You probably don't have much "variety" in your porn collection (I'm assuming)

I guarantee you if you watched something different every once in a while this would change (assuming your libido is still normal)

 

[Deleted member 34031]

1. How old are you (age range, now specific age, 20's, 30's, etc)?

2. Have you considered that its just that you are "used to" the kind of porn you are watching

I've noticed that if I've watched a lot of porn featuring white women over time it isn't as arousing, and if I start up a video with an asian or a black woman its super arousing even if there's nothing special about her

You probably don't have much "variety" in your porn collection (I'm assuming)

I guarantee you if you watched something different every once in a while this would change (assuming your libido is still normal)

Im extremlly depresed/sad/drowningInThis state,I have no sexual desire.In my early 20s

How old are you?

early 20s

 

[Deleted member 33826]

You got this brocel

 

[BlkPillPres]

Im extremlly depresed/sad/drowningInThis state,I have no sexual desire.In my early 20s

early 20s

You need better porn dude lol, unless you have some kind of condition, there's no way your libido would be dead like this

Also "depression" killing your libido is a meme, it doesn't work like that, you still feel like eating and drinking (at some point) whether you are sad or not, the cravings your body has function separately from whatever mental strain you are feeling

Heck some change in your diet or medication you are taking could be causing this

 

[AutisticMonstrosity]

I'm not going to badmouth porn, because I think it influenced my sexual taste and attitude in a positive way.
A couple of days ago I was with a 20 yo escort and I wanted to try the lotus position. She didn't even know what I was talking about. We had missionary instead.
I guess I watched much more porn than she did.

Probably lied: it is intimate position, "there is a lot of face-to-face interaction while in this position", "position is optimal for clitoral stimulation"...

I Googled it and right at the top came an African man fucking European woman and Middle Eastern looking fucking European woman...

This is gigasuifuel reading about sex positions with pictures!!!! Those that can practice these things with a loving GF live on a completely different planet compared to me as an ugly truecel, 31 KHHV. Nothing can compensate for the lack of that.

Nobody naturally feels like jerking off 4 to 5 times a day, you are literally going out of your way to do this

Speak for yourself.

 

[BlkPillPres]

Speak for yourself.

Biology literally doesn't work like that, these guys are doing this because they are bored and have nothing to do

I usually jerk off everyday, and some days I don't even end up doing that because I'm so caught up in a project, so I know without a doubt a guy who jerks off 5 times a day is doing nothing with his life, he has nothing distracting him from the silence of "waiting for the day to end", so all there is for him to do is jerk off

If you've fapped at least twice for the day you aren't going to start feeling horny randomly a few hours later, you have to literally go out of your way and say to yourself - "well I have nothing to do, might as well jerk off"

Not to mention the increased sensitivity to the glans of your penis makes it much less enjoyable, it literally hurts after a certain point

The sad part is, the orgasms you get are weaker and weaker, the first one is great (as always), the 2nd one is great but not as good as the first, the 3rd one and onwards is like "meh", you don't even ejaculate as much semen as you did in the first one (another reason why it doesn't feel as good), its a waste of time

I've jerked off 3 times a day once, its rare, and its a waste, because the orgasm doesn't feel as good

You might as well "save up" for the next day to actually enjoy it lol

 

[Deleted member 20064]

Actually i'm become addicted at this point', i jerk off 2 times a day even when i'm working.

Plz help me

I watched porn in job many times, please send help

I HOLDED 3 weeks without fap, and the first day after relapsing, a client in my work's phone said he didn't recognize me, because my voice "used to be thicker ".

 

[BlkPillPres]

I watched porn in job many times, please send help
I HOLDED 3 weeks without fap, and the first day after relapsing, a client in my work said he didn't recognize me, because my voice "used to be thicker ".

I'm just going to add you to my block list for saying this retardation lol

 

[Deleted member 20064]

I'm just going to add you to my block list for saying this retardation lol

It was in a metaphoric way to imply my voice was deeper. It isn't valid in english, ops.

 

[Deleted member 22237]

Do you have an actual reason to stop fapping?

I plan on getting rid of all my porn one day and never fapping again.......... but that's AFTER I'm wealthmaxxed and can consistently pay for sex (hookercelling)

What you are thinking of doing is illogical, it doesn't make any sense, you are just going to deprive yourself of a physical need, with no alternative outlet and no plans to do anything to improve your life

I don't see how any of you guys speak of this like it makes any sense at all, its ridiculous

You are literally just cucking yourself, your life is shit, the only pleasure and release you have is masturbation, and you want to deny yourself that to, when society has already denied you so much, talk about masochism

Naah stfu Man,onanism Is bad it fucks your health... And you want to wealthmaxx being a Coomer LOL now thats ilogical

Masturbation makes other people want to physically hurt you, if you go outside in a certain time frame after masturbation your chances to get assaulted increases, other males detect you as a threat/someone who they can bully depending on the smell you give off.

It has been already confirmed that woman smell testosterone and is another factor in the sexual chosing, yes human are another average animal that works on shit like pheromones.

If you do nofap your place in the social male hierarchy increases, people pay more attention to what you say, still woman picks the best of the best so even if you are social hierarchymaxxed you will still be reject by height, face or whatever other shit.

This Is the truth boyos ,dont listen the j*** here ,give up these cheap pleasures,abandon the bad habits and u Will have better health specially youngcels.Its not that ure gonna have sex anyway,and ull have better health,if u do crave sex go escortmax but by all means dont touch yourself like a monkey

 

[Deleted member 20064]

Naah stfu Man,onanism Is bad it fucks your health... And you want to wealthmaxx being a Coomer LOL now thats ilogical

This Is the truth boyos ,dont listen the j*** here ,give up these cheap pleasures,abandon the bad habits and u Will have better health specially youngcels.Its not that ure gonna have sex anyway,and ull have better health,if u do crave sex go escortmax but by all means dont touch yourself like a monkey

This sounds good except for the scort part, i don't like prostitutes.

1 whorestie a week is just about right for me.
Don't feel frustrated and don't need to fap in between.

No cooming is bad for your prostate.

 

[RollD20]

I don’t even watch anyways, yet still coom accidently fuk

 

[Honeypot]

I don’t even watch anyways, yet still coom accidently fuk

talk to woman and coom on her sweaty

 

[based_meme]

I watched porn in job many times, please send help

Hang in there bro, sending help.

 

[_realist_]

Porn is a cope but also leads nowhere but a hollow feeling. Life is a vicious cycle.

 

[Saigon Depression]

Probably lied: it is intimate position, "there is a lot of face-to-face interaction while in this position", "position is optimal for clitoral stimulation"...

Maybe she did, but she seemed to be very dumb anyway, so maybe her sexual culture was not as sophisticated as mine (sorry, quit bragging)
And missionary is not that different from what you described, face-to-face and such.

 

[AutisticMonstrosity]

If you've fapped at least twice for the day you aren't going to start feeling horny randomly a few hours later

When I take SSRI pills for PE, exactly that happens (part of it is testing also the effect of the pill on how long I last, but I get genuinely hyper-sexual also from the pills, partly maybe because it's so new to me to be able to last several minutes without edging). Also happens sometimes naturally, for example if I found super-arousing content. I get horny again in 30 mins to 4 hours. Also, if I somehow could get ONS, I've heard people are so excited that they have sex more or less the whole night. Or imagine one has just married both being virgins and going to honeymoon.

Maybe being high libido relates to my premature ejaculation problem. If I was good-looking enough and tall, I could make pregnant more women because of my "premature" ejaculation, which evolutionally would only help to spread my genes, if I was able to just have sex without committing to relationships (premature ejaculation is bad for relationships, but good for spreading genes if you are a gigachad). Big reason I am still not "escortcel" is my premature ejaculation, because I feel the money would be wasted cumming in 10 seconds.

I usually jerk off everyday, and some days I don't even end up doing that because I'm so caught up in a project, so I know without a doubt a guy who jerks off 5 times a day is doing nothing with his life, he has nothing distracting him from the silence of "waiting for the day to end", so all there is for him to do is jerk off

If you've fapped at least twice for the day you aren't going to start feeling horny randomly a few hours later, you have to literally go out of your way and say to yourself - "well I have nothing to do, might as well jerk off"

Many times and days I don't masturbate at all, because I don't want to use time on that even though I am horny. Because I have something else I have to do.

 

[BlkPillPres]

When I take SSRI pills for PE, exactly that happen

JFL dude if its drugs causing this then its not something that's natural to any man, which is my point

 

[I want to believe]

Fuck that degenerate shit tbh.

It's not so easy to just stop watching porn as an incel, to be honest. You will do it anyway. Or maybe you'll masturbate without watching it. But there's no big difference.

 

[Deleted member 33827]

You will do it anyway

Yup, I did it. I think nofap thing was just a phase tbh.

 

[Valiant Virgin]

I don't watch porn. It doesn't turn me on. To me, an attractive girl's boobs and ass look much more sexually appealing when covered in tight clothing as opposed to fully exposed.

 

[Deleted member 16608]

I would probably kill myself if I had to go 3 years without porn, or I'd end up going out in the night and raping some night time jogger chick or something

minus the rape part, without porn forces you out of the house and compels you to interact with women. it pushes your biological impulse which is more in line with nature and being human. society and women's standards are fucked up and most likely prevent you from mating but even an increase in .001 percent chance you can pass on your genes is a net benefit to prolonging the species.

 

[LOLI BREEDING]

mogs me I can't quit every night I dream of my past oneitises

 

[Deleted member 33827]

mogs me I can't quit every night I dream of my past oneitises

Loli oneitis?

 

[shavvka]

Cope

 

[LOLI BREEDING]

Loli oneitis?

mostly some are old now

 

[BlkPillPres]

but even an increase in .001 percent chance you can pass on your genes is a net benefit to prolonging the species.

No it isn't, because the men who need that .001% increasing by removing porn are subhuman and women don't want to fuck them anyways, you pretty much left out the most obvious part in your thinking here

If you need the removal of porn to go out and try to date, that means women already don't want to date/fuck you, and you are tired of being rejected

 

[Deleted member 33827]

minus the rape part, without porn forces you out of the house and compels you to interact with women. it pushes your biological impulse which is more in line with nature and being human. society and women's standards are fucked up and most likely prevent you from mating but even an increase in .001 percent chance you can pass on your genes is a net benefit to prolonging the species.

No it isn't, because the men who need that .001% increasing by removing porn are subhuman and women don't want to fuck them anyways, you pretty much left out the most obvious part in your thinking here

If you need the removal of porn to go out and try to date, that means women already don't want to date/fuck you, and you are tired of being rejected

View: https://youtu.be/Rul7fLdzNn8

 

[Kaisercel]

Tried to quit porn at the beginning of the year but fell back into it after 3 months and ended up fapping to porn for like 4-5 days in a row. Now I'm three weeks with no porn.
Don't watch porn guys: it kills your concentration, it's a cuck thing (you fap to videos of other guys fucking girls you'll never have), and it is used as a mean to keep the incel masses sedated.
Fapping without porn is fine (maybe after an initial period of no fap to help get rid of porn from your head).

 

[AlexanderTheGreat11]

I watched porn in job many times, please send help

I HOLDED 3 weeks without fap, and the first day after relapsing, a client in my work's phone said he didn't recognize me, because my voice "used to be thicker ".

Lmao

 

[Deleted member 16608]

No it isn't, because the men who need that .001% increasing by removing porn are subhuman and women don't want to fuck them anyways, you pretty much left out the most obvious part in your thinking here

If you need the removal of porn to go out and try to date, that means women already don't want to date/fuck you, and you are tired of being rejected

Fair enough. You are correct that with the sexual liberation of women, they will flock to the top 5-10% and leave a majority of incels. Patriarchal society incentivized betas and low genetic stock males to work as the implication was if one worked hard enough they would receive a monogomous relationship with a woman and 1.5 children.

More in line with nature is what you described but the inevitable consequence is betas and low genetic stock males eventually stop producing and in the end lash out in violence against their alpha overlords. Low value males have mated during this historical cycle but only when women had less rights. To say the cycle is "natural" may be a leap in logic.

I do think the introverted high IQ but low physical value males need to mate to vary the gene pool and increase generational intelligence. My argument for that .001% of males mating is that It's a net benefit for societal and technological advancement. It goes against women's natural instincts and requires an artifical social construct like patriarchy. median IQ is dropping and there are studies women's natural preference is towards males with low intelligence. I guess nature is more in-line with Idiocracy.

 

[your personality]

Fair enough. You are correct that with the sexual liberation of women, they will flock to the top 5-10% and leave a majority of incels. Patriarchal society incentivized betas and low genetic stock males to work as the implication was if one worked hard enough they would receive a monogomous relationship with a woman and 1.5 children.

More in line with nature is what you described but the inevitable consequence is betas and low genetic stock males eventually stop producing and in the end lash out in violence against their alpha overlords.

Not going to happen successfully with the police state and technology in place to anticipate such things nowadays.

I do think the introverted high IQ but low physical value males need to mate to vary the gene pool and increase generational intelligence. My argument for that .001% of males mating is that It's a net benefit for societal and technological advancement. It goes against women's natural instincts and requires an artifical social construct like patriarchy. median IQ is dropping and there are studies women's natural preference is towards males with low intelligence. I guess nature is more in-line with Idiocracy.

Nah fuck that blackpilled "low physical value" males should minimize their contribution to society in any way they can if there's obviously no incentive and only the vague promise of some reward down the line.

Porn isn't ruining society, porn is an expression of reality in society

If porn stops being made, society will still be sexualized, but now instead you'll have a ton of horny as fuck men with no outlet

 

[warashitlife]

so OP, how its going with the journey?

i'm quitting it too, last night was my last porn for real and probably my last fap
my head is already fucked by that shit anyways, i practically can't cum without porn
so as long as i don't watch, i'm pretty safe

 

[Kaisercel]

Fapped to porn for the last time on April 5 (I still fap almost daily without porn).

 

[NorthernWind]

I watched porn in job many times, please send help

I HOLDED 3 weeks without fap, and the first day after relapsing, a client in my work's phone said he didn't recognize me, because my voice "used to be thicker ".

Based.

Tried to quit porn at the beginning of the year but fell back into it after 3 months and ended up fapping to porn for like 4-5 days in a row. Now I'm three weeks with no porn.
Don't watch porn guys: it kills your concentration, it's a cuck thing (you fap to videos of other guys fucking girls you'll never have), and it is used as a mean to keep the incel masses sedated.
Fapping without porn is fine (maybe after an initial period of no fap to help get rid of porn from your head).

I wonder who is behind porn industry?

 

[igniz]

Porn is a tool to prevent incels from going ER.
let the incels jerk off to porn while chads fuck real women

 

[Deleted member 33833]

Good luck with that boyo, I've been trying to at least masturbate less frequently for half a decade and I haven't had the slighest bit of sucess.

 

[Gymcel]

Masturbation makes other people want to physically hurt you, if you go outside in a certain time frame after masturbation your chances to get assaulted increases, other males detect you as a threat/someone who they can bully depending on the smell you give off.

It has been already confirmed that woman smell testosterone and is another factor in the sexual chosing, yes human are another average animal that works on shit like pheromones.

If you do nofap your place in the social male hierarchy increases, people pay more attention to what you say, still woman picks the best of the best so even if you are social hierarchymaxxed you will still be reject by height, face or whatever other shit.

Bumping this because I find this post very interesting and very relatable to my IRL experiences. Can you post more about this or provide some sources about how you learned about this. I find this very intriguing and I feel that it is very true to some extent.

 

[Honeypot]

Bumping this because I find this post very interesting and very relatable to my IRL experiences. Can you post more about this or provide some sources about how you learned about this. I find this very intriguing and I feel that it is very true to some extent.

This info comes from chimpanzee studies where dopamine receptor density is linked with place in the hierarchy, chimpanzee automatically knows what male is the leader and who to follow and who to bully which is is the chimpanzee with the lower dopamine receptor density.

Nofap increase dopamine receptor count and thus its density. How do chimpanzee and humans detect this density in the others around them? mostly through behavior and visual stimuli same as uglyness is detected, pheromone is also another theory on how it is detected but as far as smell goes it is only proven that woman can smell testosterone density and will like the male with more testosterone.

All of this is info from 2016 or any year around that, I'm trying to recover the sources but it will take time.

My personal speculation in this is that the body adapts the same it adapts to everything, if you lack strenght to lift something your muscle will increase until you can lift that weight that you couldn't before, same for cognitive problems and memory, same even for eye as I recovered from myopia completely and abandoned my glasses, if you avoid any sexual stimuli your body will get better at attracting woman and your chances of getting laid even if minimal will increase doing nofap.

 

[Deleted member 15292]

Porn is my primary cope, cant live without. Would last longer without water than porn and fapping