I actually think they are right and that's why you have to double down on your hatred. If you were incel or redpill at any point in your life, you fundamentally understand male disposability in a way a feminist never could, in the same way I could never understand the pain of a female delivering her child.
I think any 'former' redpill or incel type are ultimately just products of fortunate outcomes that came to simply grow out of the present mind state of misogyny. It doesn't mean they actually changed. It just means that being in that mind state no longer is a benefit to them. But that's doesn't mean that part of them is completely buried, it's just in the freezer for now.