TheBlue
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- Dec 7, 2022
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Hey guys,
I did spend a big part of my free time over pretty much the last 10 years going to the gym and get "good looking" for woman.
It all started around the age of 18 when I really tried to get a woman in club/bars but often got called ugly and the mainstream media always trys to tell you that lie that you only need to work out hard enough in the gym to get attractive for the woman. Alle the ads for gym are a good looking guy with a even better looking woman to trick you into the belive that its because of the gym but they were born pretty and they would be pretty if they never did sports.
Now I did put all the effort into years of getting muscles but nothing changes. I was born ugly and that wont change because of gym/muscles.
Its much better to just accept the fact that you dont need a woman in your life and you dont need validation from them. Now I feel much more happy and I finally can but my time into some new hobbys that are only for my own enjoyment and not just to fill the void of a woman-free life (Currently looking into woodworking/craftmanship and playing chess at a high level)
Did you guys fall for the gym trap and when did you realize that its all a fake industry?
I did spend a big part of my free time over pretty much the last 10 years going to the gym and get "good looking" for woman.
It all started around the age of 18 when I really tried to get a woman in club/bars but often got called ugly and the mainstream media always trys to tell you that lie that you only need to work out hard enough in the gym to get attractive for the woman. Alle the ads for gym are a good looking guy with a even better looking woman to trick you into the belive that its because of the gym but they were born pretty and they would be pretty if they never did sports.
Now I did put all the effort into years of getting muscles but nothing changes. I was born ugly and that wont change because of gym/muscles.
Its much better to just accept the fact that you dont need a woman in your life and you dont need validation from them. Now I feel much more happy and I finally can but my time into some new hobbys that are only for my own enjoyment and not just to fill the void of a woman-free life (Currently looking into woodworking/craftmanship and playing chess at a high level)
Did you guys fall for the gym trap and when did you realize that its all a fake industry?