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Blackpill Domestic Violence

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Systematic reviews and meta-analyses on domestic violence suggest that women are just as likely (if not more) to perpetrate Intimate Partner Violence (IPV) as men are and the literature is also solid on the fact that domestic violence is not part of a patriarchal system that subordinates women. Despite this, there remain very few domestic violence shelters for men

  • Archer 2000
  • Meta-analysis done by the journal Psychological Bulletin found that women are more likely to commit an act of physical aggression against an intimate partner
  • Women were slightly more likely (d = -.05) than men to use one or more act of physical aggression and to use such acts more frequently. Men were more likely (d = . 15) to inflict an injury, and overall, 62% of those injured by a partner were women
  • Hamel 2012
  • Study collecting meta-analyses of 1,700 studies by The Partner Abuse State of Knowledge Project (PASK) confirmed that women are more likely to perpetrate domestic violence than men and that victimization between the sexes is similar
  • “Among large population samples, 57.9% of IPV reported was bi-directional, 42% unidirectional; 13.8% of the unidirectional violence was male to female (MFPV), 28.3% was female to male (FMPV)...Among school and college samples, percentage of bidirectional violence was 51.9%; 16.2% was MFPV and 31.9% was FMPV”
  • More than one in four women (28.3%) and one in five men (21.6%) reported perpetrating physical violence in an intimate relationship
  • “Male and female IPV perpetrated from similar motives – primarily to get back at a partner for emotionally hurting them, because of stress or jealousy, to express anger and other feelings that they could not put into words or communicate, and to get their partner’s attention.”
  • Fiebert 2014
  • A huge collection of 343 scholarly investigations (270 empirical studies and 73 literature reviews) shows that women are as physically aggressive as men (or more) in their relationships with their spouses or opposite-sex partners
  • Aggregate sample size exceeded 440,850 people
  • Davis 2010
  • When you aggregate domestic-violence related suicides and homicides caused by intimate partners, men die of domestic violence related deaths more than women
  • “When domestic violence related suicides are combined with domestic violence homicides, the total numbers of domestic violence related deaths are higher for males than females.”
  • Williams et al. 2005
  • “Studies of undergraduate college students found that men sustained higher levels of moderate violence than women with severe violence being rare for both women and men (Katz, Kuffel, & Coblentz, 2002) and 29% of males and 35% of females reported perpetrating physical aggression; 12.5% of the males and 4.5% of the females reported receiving severe physical aggression; 14% of females reported that they were the sole perpetrators of aggression — injuries were sustained by 8.4% of males and 5% of females (Hines & Saudino, 2002). These rates, which suggest gender symmetry in the perpetration of relationship violence, are not unique and Fiebert (2004) has amassed a bibliography of 159 peer-reviewed publications finding equal or greater aggression by females than males. The total collected sample is greater than 109,000. An earlier version was published in 1997 (Fiebert, 1997).”
  • Carney et al. 2007
  • “As our discussion demonstrates, female perpetrated abuse in intimate relationships is at least as common as male abuse, often extends to the same degree of severity, can result in serious negative outcomes for male and female victims, and seems to reflect a common set of background causes. Contrary to early socio-political explanations, which proposed that women's use of aggression reflected primarily, or solely, self-defense strategies in response to male initiated abuse, women are known to commit unilateral abuse.”
  • Hamel et al. 2007
  • A review of the literature on sex differences in controlling behavior found: “When comparing men's and women's use of controlling behaviors, research using nonselected samples has found that there are no differences in their overall use...The research reviewed suggests that there are no consistent sex differences in the use of controlling behavior and that even in samples selected for high rates of male aggression, women sometimes also report using comparative frequencies of controlling behavior.”
  • Straus et al. 2006
  • “With these limitations in mind, the results of this study suggest important conclusions about two widely held beliefs: that partner violence is an almost uniquely male crime, and that when men hit their partners it is primarily to dominate women, whereas partner violence by women is an act of self defense or an act of desperation in response to male dominance and brutality. These beliefs were not supported by the results of this study. Instead, we found, as have many other studies, about equal rates of assaulting a dating partner by male and female students. Our investigation of risk factors also produced results that contradict the male dominance/female self-defense belief. The relationship to minor assaults of all 21 of the risk factors, including score on the Dominance scale, was parallel for men and women. For severe assaults, of the 12 risk factors found to be associated, we found no significant difference between men and women in nine of them, again including Dominance. Or putting it the other way around, 75% of the risk factors that were found to be associated with severely assaulting a dating partner were parallel for men and women. It may be more than a coincidence that our review of previous research also found that about 75% of the variables related to partner violence were related for both men and women...In short, partner violence is more a gender-inclusive family system problem than a problem of a patriarchal social system that enforces male dominance by violence.”
  • Domestic violence between men and women therefore tends to happen for the same reasons as opposed to fundamentally different reasons as is oftentimes claimed by feminists
  • Brown 2004
  • Researcher in 2004 finds that going by several key criteria known to establish the “battered woman” defense, abused men fit the profile better than abused women which is important to consider since many people who murder their spouses are often trapped in abusive relationships themselves and their murder is thus seen as either being retaliatory or in self-defense
  • “All of the evidence indicates that abused men fit the theory of the "battered woman" better than abused women do.”
  • Straus 2011
  • Meta-analytic review of 91 empirical studies finds that women commit higher levels of severe or ‘clinical level’[3] domestic assaults: “The median percentage of men who severely assaulted a partner was 5.1%, compared to a median of 7.1% for severe assaults by the women in these studies. The median percentage that the rate of severe assaults by women was of the rate of severe assaults by men is 145%, which indicates that almost half again more women than men severely attacked a partner.”
  • Straus et al. 1989
  • Analysis of two surveys consisting of 5,768 couples finds that large numbers of non-abusive men are severely assaulted by their female partners, namely that women are over 2.7 times as likely to perpetrate severe aggression against non-violent men than men are to perpetrate severe aggression against non-violent women
  • In terms of dating violence, the disparity is even larger with women being 125 times as likely to perpetrate severe aggression against a non-violent male partner than men are to perpetrate severe aggression against non-violent female partners
 
@unionistcel @WorthlessSlavicShit
 
Domestic violence suicides? :feelsseriously:
The biggest factor in suicides is alcohol, involved in half of all self-inflicted deaths. This study seems to be describing sad sack drunks who are "abused" by a nagging hole.
 
Despite this, there remain very few domestic violence shelters for men
Men are to blame for this, men never cared about each other and try to put each other down all the time. I made a thread about Earl Silverman, a dude who dedicated his life to speak about men who were abused and ended up killing himself, and no one gave a shit.

If you have no self-respect, no one will respect you. It's in the human nature to bully the most vulnerable.
 
Men are to blame for this, men never cared about each other and try to put each other down all the time. I made a thread about Earl Silverman, a dude who dedicated his life to speak about men who were abused and ended up killing himself, and no one gave a shit.

If you have no self-respect, no one will respect you. It's in the human nature to bully the most vulnerable.
Brutal. That's why I don't give a fuck about anymore or myself really. My gut always told me "Be careful It's a PVP world, don't be to close to people and don't open yourself to others" Of course my gut didn't told me that but the feeling of not saying or staying around people, not because anxiety but because of the facts.
 
Men are to blame for this, men never cared about each other and try to put each other down all the time. I made a thread about Earl Silverman, a dude who dedicated his life to speak about men who were abused and ended up killing himself, and no one gave a shit.

If you have no self-respect, no one will respect you. It's in the human nature to bully the most vulnerable.
Drunk

called it like a motherfucker :dab:
 
Brutal. That's why I don't give a fuck about anymore or myself really. My gut always told me "Be careful It's a PVP world, don't be to close to people and don't open yourself to others" Of course my gut didn't told me that but the feeling of not saying or staying around people, not because anxiety but because of the facts.
yeah, it's sad af. Though not everyone is tough enough to bare it.
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called it like a motherfucker :dab:
No one who is 'happy' starts abusing substances. Are you implying they kill themselves because of alcohol, and not because of the helplessness they feel?
 
No one who is 'happy' starts abusing substances. Are you implying they kill themselves because of alcohol, and not because of the helplessness they feel?
The drug they are taking makes them more likely to engage in specific behaviors, like self-inflicted death. It's analogous to being skinny while on meth, obviously taking an appetite suppressant drug is a factor. Suicides are so correlated to alcohol use that an alcoholic committing suicide really only serves as another example of that correlation rather than being sympathetic.
 
The drug they are taking makes them more likely to engage in specific behaviors, like self-inflicted death. It's analogous to being skinny while on meth, obviously taking an appetite suppressant drug is a factor. Suicides are so correlated to alcohol use that an alcoholic committing suicide really only serves as another example of that correlation rather than being sympathetic.
That's true, though not really the point. It's obvious alcohol lowers your inhibitions and makes you take riskier actions. They don't kill themselves because of the alcohol, but because of the helplessness.

If you have a 'full life', you wouldn't go around doing drugs. It's only when you feel worthless or useless, and there is underlying motive because you feel that way, and it ain't drugs.

Society's advice for whatever is troubling you as a man is just 'man up' which usually leads to substance abuse, because most men aren't as strong as they pretend to be, and no one cares about it, not even other men.
 
@unionistcel @WorthlessSlavicShit
Damn, somehow I didn't get an alert when this is one of my pet issues here:rolleyes:. Great collection of sources on this:feelsokman:.

Yeah, honestly, I don't even know what to say about this stuff. It's not like, for example, sexual coercion by women the research into which is still relatively new and "niche" so to speak. We have research about domestic/partner violence going back to the 60s if not further back, showing gender symmetry in perpetration, which over the decades has just about always been found whenever a study, survey, or whatever was actually done fairly and in a non-biased manner, where it asked both genders the same questions. Countless pieces of evidence, as shown by the sizes of studies some of those metastudies have looked at, as you've shared:feelshaha:, and yet, it's completely ignored outside of academia to probably an even bigger degree than other politically incorrect stuff, such race and IQ for example, simply because people refuse to see gender relations in any other way than Men = "Big, strong, scary" and Women = "Small, delicate, weak".
 
Males are on average victims of abuse and beatings but no shelters.

Cucked world.
 
The amount of Straus studies in the OP got me to take a quick look through a bit of his bibliography, and turns out he actually does have at least one study on
sexual coercion by women
to his name:feelsahh:.

Verbally coerced sex was reported by 26.7% of the male students and 19.6% of the female students. Significant gender differences were found in most of verbal sexual coercion items: insisting on sex without a condom [males 14.9%; females 12.9%;]; insisting on sex when the partner did not want to [males 15.9%, females 8.2%;]; insisting on oral or anal sex [males 11%, females 3.8%]; threatening the partner to have oral or anal sex [males 1.2%, females 1.1%]; and threatening the partner to have sex [males 1.4%, females 0.8%;].
Physically forcing sex was reported by 2.4% of the male students and 1.8% of the female students. Rates for the specific items were: 1.3% of males and 1.0% of females reported using force on the partner to have sex, and 1.6% of the males and 1.0% of the females reported using force to have oral or anal sex. Thus, as in other studies that compared sexual coercion by men and women in the same study, both men and women engaged in sexually coercive behavior, but men predominate.

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The dude must've been a living legend in this particular field in his final years, damn:feelsahh:.
 
don't act like male are monolith and everyone's a victim, the men who set up this retarded system are responsible for our suffering. Tinder founders are all men, facebook, instagram, snapchat, etc all men. Women are retarded and they're not intelligent enough to set up system, it was other men who used people's misery for their profits
 
don't act like male are monolith and everyone's a victim, the men who set up this retarded system are responsible for our suffering. Tinder founders are all men, facebook, instagram, snapchat, etc all men. Women are retarded and they're not intelligent enough to set up system, it was other men who used people's misery for their profits
women perpetuate it and it wasnt men only it was the government, women and the jews.
 
women perpetuate it and it wasnt men only it was the government, women and the jews.
jews yes, women were retarded, obedient and actually nurturing before liberalism. Jews ruined it all
 
If you have a 'full life', you wouldn't go around doing drugs. It's only when you feel worthless or useless, and there is underlying motive because you feel that way, and it ain't drugs.
Chad and stacy would disagree, though it definately contributes to not falling into addiction. Chad can do hard drugs and keep a healthy life balance, incels would end up addicted to books if they were the only escapism we had.
 
Chad and stacy would disagree, though it definately contributes to not falling into addiction. Chad can do hard drugs and keep a healthy life balance, incels would end up addicted to books if they were the only escapism we had.
Some people can have everything handed to on a silver platter and still be unhappy and abuse drugs. No one who does hard drugs has a 'healthy lifestyle', in fact the only thing that gives them dopamine are drugs, they're by far the highest dopamine rush you can have, that's why it's no surprise dealers get tons of prime pussy.
 
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