LifeFuel Doing things alone is still worth just to experience it

[Keulut]

That goes to those without friends or company that would follow you to those activites.
A couple of years ago i had much more activity with fake friends, and while those were fake it was still nice to do some shit.

I read here that many dont do things like going to the cinema because they have nobody to go with them and honestly its makes sense but is kind of stupid.

Things that can be done alone:

• Going to the cinema
• Eating at a restaurant
• Going to a club
• Going to some place for a hobby
• Paid activities like mydays, lasertag etc
• A small picknick

I done many things alone and while some might be a bit awkward if you do them alone you shouldnt give a fuck what others think and its still nice to experience those things.

Else AMA how it went or if you need any tips.

 

[LornaDerek]

God's lonely man

 

[Roastie Crusher]

it's better to be by yourself if you're voyeuristic

 

[Keulut]

God's lonely man

Lone wolf theory. But honestly, the users here that limit themselves to not trying things because they have no company with them should try it out.

 

[TheCatMan]

I'm going to start traveling soon alone.

 

[manletcel1488]

Going out in public alone as a sub5 is just asking to get fucked with though.

 

[Keulut]

Going out in public alone as a sub5 is just asking to get fucked with though.

I don't give a fuck what others think and for some activities alcohol works wonders.

 

[manletcel1488]

I don't give a fuck what others think and for some activities alcohol works wonders.

I care if it makes a scene I have to deal with.

 

[Keulut]

I'm going to start traveling soon alone.

I only traveled once alone within my country. Its absolutely doable. Good luck and have fun with it

 

[Keulut]

I care if it makes a scene I have to deal with.

I never got to the point that there was a scene with it. Like who would give a fuck about some stranger.

 

[TheCatMan]

I only traveled once alone within my country. Its absolutely doable. Good luck and have fun with it

I'm in the U.S. I want to check out Mt Rushmore, Yellowstone, Vegas, and the Grand Canyon.

 

[manletcel1488]

I never got to the point that there was a scene with it. Like who would give a fuck about some stranger.

We are easy to press, some people think they are superheroes.

 

[Keulut]

I'm in the U.S. I want to check out Mt Rushmore, Yellowstone, Vegas, and the Grand Canyon.

Sounds nice. No Americancel here so i dont know how those places except the last three, but sightseeing and traveling around places is easy

 

[ItsOverMan]

That goes to those without friends or company that would follow you to those activites.
A couple of years ago i had much more activity with fake friends, and while those were fake it was still nice to do some shit.

I read here that many dont do things like going to the cinema because they have nobody to go with them and honestly its makes sense but is kind of stupid.

Things that can be done alone:

• Going to the cinema
• Eating at a restaurant
• Going to a club
• Going to some place for a hobby
• Paid activities like mydays, lasertag etc
• A small picknick

I done many things alone and while some might be a bit awkward if you do them alone you shouldnt give a fuck what others think and its still nice to experience those things.

Else AMA how it went or if you need any tips.

Eating at a restaurant alone is the most pitiful, pathetic thing ever, or that's how I feel when I did it. Especially as a man alone. Waiters looking at you pathetic, everyone else looking at you. Unless it's entirely self-serve with no waiters, or maybe you're sitting at a bar and getting served by bartender.

 

[Keulut]

Eating at a restaurant alone is the most pitiful, pathetic thing ever, or that's how I feel when I did it. Especially as a man alone. Waiters looking at you pathetic, everyone else looking at you. Unless it's entirely self-serve with no waiters, or maybe you're sitting at a bar and getting served by bartender.

To which restaurant did you go and at what time? Next time go at the afternoon and not evening.
You can be someone that has a break from work, didn't cook at home, is traveling or just fucking hungry.
I have been to many restaurants and nobody ever looked at me the wrong way. And in the afternoon there are often other people eating alone.

Dont go to a known dating and couples restaurant place and you will be fine.

 

[Friezacel]

I disagree. Deep down when you do these things alone, you know that something is missing. You will never be able to get rid of that feeling, never

 

[Keulut]

I disagree. Deep down when you do these things alone, you know that something is missing. You will never be able to get rid of that feeling, never

You do most of the time but its still better than not have experienced it.
So you can claim from yourself as a teen i went to clubs, cinema...

 

[Friezacel]

You do most of the time but its still better than not have experienced it.
So you can claim from yourself as a teen i went to clubs, cinema...

Deep down you still know its just cope and not even close to the real thing.

I did some of things listed with friends and i admit it was fun, but it will never come close than doing it with a partner

 

[m3nt4Lbl0ck3d]

I can't be fucked to do anything most of the time, doesn't mean I won't if I actually want to. Ain't no cunt stopping me from living.

 

[Keulut]

Deep down you still know its just cope and not even close to the real thing.

I did some of things listed with friends and i admit it was fun, but it will never come close than doing it with a partner

If you make everything dependent on doing it with a girlfriend, the programming from society already worked on you.
You can do things alone. You should be able to do things alone. I dont even think many of those things should be done with a partner.
Like driving a go cart. I would rather do it with a good (male) friend. No friend? Alone.

Ain't no cunt stopping me from living.

This is the point im trying to get across.

 

[Friezacel]

If you make everything dependent on doing it with a girlfriend, the programming from society already worked on you.
You can do things alone. You should be able to do things alone. I dont even think many of those things should be done with a partner.
Like driving a go cart. I would rather do it with a good (male) friend. No friend? Alone.

Oh please, spare me this "programming from society" bs. Its not natural or healthy for humans to be alone for an extended period of time and im tired of people trying to normalize it

 

[Keulut]

Oh please, spare me this "programming from society" bs. Its not natural or healthy for humans to be alone for an extended period of time and im tired of people trying to normalize it

Im not saying that its healthy, but you are making any activity dependent on a partner.
All im saying is, do the shit and try to have fun even if you are alone.

PS: its programming from society. Society tells you to do shit with people. Why do you think some think its WEIRD or like someone here said pathetic if you do things alone. This is burned into the head of some. Oh fuck if i go out to do shit, people think im a loser, weird and pathetic.

 

[Friezacel]

Im not saying that its healthy, but you are making any activity dependent on a partner.
All im saying is, do the shit and try to have fun even if you are alone.

I cant have fun alone, i tried it and the mog was unbearable. Im meeting up with my only friend twice or thrize a month and thats good enough for me. i accepted im not made for this world

 

[Keulut]

Im meeting up with my only friend twice or thrize a month and thats good enough for me

Good for you but keep in mind that many here dont have a single real life friend to do things together. And meeting a friend nearly every week is close to normie level.

 

[Friezacel]

Good for you but keep in mind that many here dont have a single real life friend to do things together. And meeting a friend nearly every week is close to normie level.

Im aware and im happy to have at least one friend, but its still a bad joke compared to what the average normie has

 

[m3nt4Lbl0ck3d]

If you make everything dependent on doing it with a girlfriend, the programming from society already worked on you.
You can do things alone. You should be able to do things alone. I dont even think many of those things should be done with a partner.
Like driving a go cart. I would rather do it with a good (male) friend. No friend? Alone.


This is the point im trying to get across.

Yeah that's it! I get what you're throwing down. 100%

 

[RegularManlet]

Eating at a restaurant alone is the most pitiful, pathetic thing ever, or that's how I feel when I did it. Especially as a man alone. Waiters looking at you pathetic, everyone else looking at you.

Is it? I kind of want to try it one time maybe? Would be kind of boring, the food would need to be really good to cover the lull of being alone.
I think it depends on the place you go and at what time, going to mcdonalds alone? No one cares/normal

Going to some super duper high end restaurant alone at night? Maybe someone would usually have someone with them.

But I think for a lot of restaurants the occasional loner could be normal, ik but if you feel pathetic that part is probably in your head and just abused dog mentality of being an incel

If you make everything dependent on doing it with a girlfriend, the programming from society already worked on you.
You can do things alone. You should be able to do things alone. I dont even think many of those things should be done with a partner.

I disagree, we are social animals and animals that want to reproduce, I have done things alone and with people, it's always more fun to be out with people than by yourself

Why do you think some think its WEIRD or like someone here said pathetic if you do things alone.

It is pathetic, people with healthy social life and good genes don't do things alone

Sexhaver intentionally sits next to me when I am alone in cinema

I was more annoyed at the time than outright mad about this but in retrospect this really pissed me off, attached is an image to make story easier to follow Green is the cinema screen Red is the area I was seated in, the other black areas are seating areas too As the cinema filled up for my...

incels.is

Also this lmao, cinema is ok alone but this experience sucked

 

[DeathSigil]

What's brutal is all of these things and places you'll see a fucking couple.

These are couple activities.

You going alone will just remind you this.

 

[Incelist]

you look like a total freak doing things alone. everyone knows you don't have friends if you go to the fucking movies alone. maybe people are polite, but secretly they know you are an outcast.

 

[DutchCel01]

Going out to the club alone seems like a recipe to get bullied

 

[curryboy420]

Doing things alone sucks dick

 

[Choler]

Going to the cinema

jewish propaganda

Eating at a restaurant

pointless

Going to a club

Paid activities like mydays, lasertag etc

jewish and gay

A small picknick

gay as fuck, and it would be pathetic to do it alone

 

[UnchargedSamsung]

I’ve done the first two

Goin gto le cinema late at night is pretty empty so I just buy my tickets online I scan them and then I sneak in my zogslop snacks from dollar general and just eat it at the movies

And then to eat by myself was at a Waffle House at 3am while drunk well more or so I was buzzed and I didn’t really give a fuck my inhibition was pretty low and I was craving breakfast so I got me breakfast at 3am

I’ve been to parks by myself late at night just babbling to myself like I’m homeless

And well now I gymcope at planet fitness

 

[Choler]

And then to eat by myself was at a Waffle House at 3am while drunk well more or so I was buzzed and I didn’t really give a fuck my inhibition was pretty low and I was craving breakfast so I got me breakfast at 3am

sounds like a nice thing to do, how often do u drink alcohol?

 

[UnchargedSamsung]

sounds like a nice thing to do, how often do u drink alcohol?

Been sober since January m8 before then was nearly everyday and I’d mixed it with weed and tobacco as well

 

[lifeisfucked215]