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Moth

Moth

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I feel like all I've done here is wasted my time, most posts here aren't insightful. Everything meaningful about the blackpill or society there is to say has already been said here years ago. Most of the posts here are simply reposts from social media sites lite Twitter or Soyddit and the content is supposed to provoke a reaction in order to farm replies, reading that shit doesn't make me feel any happier, if anything, it's designed to make you annoyed or perhaps sad, it's ragebait, everything on the internet is ragebait nowadays, I'm so fucking exhausted.

And I might be able to tolerate that if it wasn't for the fucking constant glowposting and ITbaiting, it's obvious that shit like this is only posted in the hopes that the OP gets featured on an IT thread, they seem to feed off of the Soydditor's shocked reactions who don't seem to realise that's exactly what the poster wants, most users that say this shit wouldn't even dream of doing even an eighth of the shit they say over here, they'd be bloody incarcerated if they tried.

Y'know IT and .is have a very fucking strange mutually parasitic relationship, one can't seem to live without the other, a lot of us here call out IT for their strange, autist-level of obsession with this place however many are equally fucking obsessed with IT and never seem to shut up about it, they get a kick of validation whenever they're featured there, they seem to take everything that subreddit says personally and will make multiple threads sperging and seething over whatever bullshit IT has decided to say. Both of you are idiots.

I've always been an advocate for the idea that we leave IT the fuck alone, don't attack them, don't bait them (however tempting), don't respond to whatever they say. You can read what they have to say, fair enough, but when talking on the public part of the forum, act like they don't exist, if you leave them alone and don't ITbait or glowpost, they'll leave you alone. They've left me alone. Getting yourself embroiled in this circus of drama won't bring you any benefit, nobody likes an ITbaiter, even if they don't say it to your face, that's how most sensible users feel.

Though one aspect of the forum (perhaps the sole one) that I'll always be grateful for and that made all those wasted hours stuck here worth it in the end were the people I've met here and the genuine friendships I've forged with users here. I feel like the one thing that should be the focus of this forum is human connection, people using this place as a virtual diary to share their thoughts and experiences in an organic and human manner, this should be a place for discussion and debate but prevailing that, human connection. Essays should be full of life, not cold, failed imitations of scientific journals, produced in a vain and unsuccessful attempt to appear intelligent like what's found so often over here. This place should be a living blackpill, yes, it should be scientific, but we don't need to pretend to be people we're not. I'd like to see posts like the one I'm typing currently, the slightly messy and unfiltered yet nuanced thoughts of it's author, I want to taste your personality and intentions in the sentences you type, convey your character, have fun with it.

What are your thoughts? How could this place improve? Why do you use this place? Does this place benefit you? Or does it hold you back?

Moth out. *mic drop*
 
Joined Jun 11, 2025
 
Honestly its nice seeing that im not alone in the things im going through. Also it fun to see what the community says. Iv also learned quite a bit through reading some posts. You just have to swift through the trash
 
I stay away from IT creeps. I use this place because becky wouldn't date me and it's a place to talk about this stupid world filled with nasty bitches. Benefit me? No, don't think so. Hold me back? A little.
 
its nice to see other trucels but most people here are assholes to be clear. do not come here for support, come here for edginess
 
I like this forum as it is my only source of news. I only find out about events going on through this forum. I like seeing all of the funny clips from Instagram and TikTok other users post. The Reddit posts are fun also. The only reason I knew about the Charlie Kirk assassination was because of this forum. If I’m not on this forum, I’m rarely on the internet. I spend most of time reading and playing video games or traveling.
 
I stay away from IT creeps. I use this place because becky wouldn't date me and it's a place to talk about this stupid world filled with nasty bitches. Benefit me? No, don't think so. Hold me back? A little.
 
its nice to see other trucels but most people here are assholes to be clear. do not come here for support, come here for edginess
Nobody's ever called this place a support group :lul: for some reason people on IT love to say that we claim it's a support group, nah, most users here can't even support themselves. :feelskek:
 
I like this forum as it is my only source of news. I only find out about events going on through this forum. I like seeing all of the funny clips from Instagram and TikTok other users post. The Reddit posts are fun also. The only reason I knew about the Charlie Kirk assassination was because of this forum. If I’m not on this forum, I’m rarely on the internet. I spend most of time reading and playing video games or traveling.
Sounds like a nice life, I'll need to learn to do the same.
 
Fascinating observation bro
I don't have the energy for observations, and I can't imagine you do either, Emba.
 
I don't have the energy for observations, and I can't imagine you do either, Emba.
I can push a few button
 
It benefits me in that I have fun talking to people and shitposting. That's the reason I migrated to the sewers because that subforum is way better suited to that. ID is mostly full of shit I've already heard a gorillion times before or IT baiters.
 
I don't really care I just use the forum
 
This place is valuable to me. One of my favourite pastimes. There isn’t really anywhere else to talk about what we talk about here with other based people.
 
This place is valuable to me. One of my favourite pastimes. There isn’t really anywhere else to talk about what we talk about here with other based people.
I use bunker chat for that, mostly.
 
It benefits me in that I have fun talking to people and shitposting. That's the reason I migrated to the sewers because that subforum is way better suited to that. ID is mostly full of shit I've already heard a gorillion times before or IT baiters.
This forum works best as an LDAR hotspot just for talking to people on rather than for actually posting about the blackpill. This place isn't great to invest a lot of time into if you actually wanna learn and discuss things and take it super seriously. I can think of a certain user who left recently that the second sentence very much applied to :feelshehe:
 
I can think of a certain user who left recently that the second sentence very much applied to :feelshehe:
Our dear friend @DarkStar, of course.
 
most users that say this shit wouldn't even dream of doing even an eighth of the shit they say over here, they'd be bloody incarcerated if they tried
True, but it’s just a cope at the end of the day. Society has failed me and I at least want to vent about it. I don’t care for being featured on soyddit, I just need to let someone know about my suffering and know that I’m not alone.
 
Society has failed me and I at least want to vent about it.
I wan't talking about that, I was talking about the glowposting @coping_manlet used to do before he was banned and other users still do.
 
I wan't talking about that, I was talking about the glowposting @coping_manlet used to do before he was banned and other users still do.
I never did even on my previous accounts. Edginess maybe but not full blown glowposting
 
I mean it's not like I'm doing anything productive with my time outside of the forum anyways
 
interesting to scroll from time to time
 
Allows me to talk to other people normally.
 
It lets me feel less lonely but adds zero value to my life
 
For a bit of context: I initially wrote this thread when I was very strongly considering leaving this place for at least a month because I was rotting here for hours while neglecting my personal responsibilities, I felt like my life was imploding around me at the time but in retrospect, it wasn't all that serious.
 
At this point, the only thing that seems to get attention on this forum is gossip, who’s a fakecel, who’s an infiltrator, Discord drama, and nonstop arguments about rules and what’s allowed.


The funny part is that rules and gatekeeping are meant to serve some larger purpose. If the goal is inceldom discussion, then as OP said, everything meaningful has already been said. With no real topic left, people just fixate on policing each other instead. Arguing over boundaries in a space that no longer has anything to protect, which is honestly kind of ridiculous.
 
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its timepass and cope. sharing misery. trying to not feel alone in your plight.
 
Not sure, If i stop initiating contact first i dont hear from most people, I guess its just temporary friends.
 
A little I guess? I mean you have to understand I've just learned to suck it up for years before I came here but if the site disappeared guess what I would do? Suck it up. This place is like having a cup of coffee in the morning. I love having coffee when I wake up but if I can't I just suck it up.
 
I feel like all I've done here is wasted my time, most posts here aren't insightful. Everything meaningful about the blackpill or society there is to say has already been said here years ago. Most of the posts here are simply reposts from social media sites lite Twitter or Soyddit and the content is supposed to provoke a reaction in order to farm replies, reading that shit doesn't make me feel any happier, if anything, it's designed to make you annoyed or perhaps sad, it's ragebait, everything on the internet is ragebait nowadays, I'm so fucking exhausted.

And I might be able to tolerate that if it wasn't for the fucking constant glowposting and ITbaiting, it's obvious that shit like this is only posted in the hopes that the OP gets featured on an IT thread, they seem to feed off of the Soydditor's shocked reactions who don't seem to realise that's exactly what the poster wants, most users that say this shit wouldn't even dream of doing even an eighth of the shit they say over here, they'd be bloody incarcerated if they tried.

Y'know IT and .is have a very fucking strange mutually parasitic relationship, one can't seem to live without the other, a lot of us here call out IT for their strange, autist-level of obsession with this place however many are equally fucking obsessed with IT and never seem to shut up about it, they get a kick of validation whenever they're featured there, they seem to take everything that subreddit says personally and will make multiple threads sperging and seething over whatever bullshit IT has decided to say. Both of you are idiots.

I've always been an advocate for the idea that we leave IT the fuck alone, don't attack them, don't bait them (however tempting), don't respond to whatever they say. You can read what they have to say, fair enough, but when talking on the public part of the forum, act like they don't exist, if you leave them alone and don't ITbait or glowpost, they'll leave you alone. They've left me alone. Getting yourself embroiled in this circus of drama won't bring you any benefit, nobody likes an ITbaiter, even if they don't say it to your face, that's how most sensible users feel.

Though one aspect of the forum (perhaps the sole one) that I'll always be grateful for and that made all those wasted hours stuck here worth it in the end were the people I've met here and the genuine friendships I've forged with users here. I feel like the one thing that should be the focus of this forum is human connection, people using this place as a virtual diary to share their thoughts and experiences in an organic and human manner, this should be a place for discussion and debate but prevailing that, human connection. Essays should be full of life, not cold, failed imitations of scientific journals, produced in a vain and unsuccessful attempt to appear intelligent like what's found so often over here. This place should be a living blackpill, yes, it should be scientific, but we don't need to pretend to be people we're not. I'd like to see posts like the one I'm typing currently, the slightly messy and unfiltered yet nuanced thoughts of it's author, I want to taste your personality and intentions in the sentences you type, convey your character, have fun with it.

What are your thoughts? How could this place improve? Why do you use this place? Does this place benefit you? Or does it hold you back?

Moth out. *mic drop*
I spend most of my freetime here
 
I find a lot of the posts here funny, and it gives me something to read in my off time.
 
I can relate to the life experiences of a lot of people here.
 

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