Discussion Does hiring a prostitute remove incel status?

[Pacel]

If you were to hire a prostitute and fucked her, would that mean that you're no longer an incel? I guess that would mean that you're no longer a virgin since you'd have experienced sex already but you're still the same person as before. You'll be just as attractive for women as before this (maybe even less if they find out you payed for sex) so you would still be unsuccessful when trying to get laid, which means you're still an incel. I personally think that having sex with prostitutes shouldn't count because if that were the case then incels wouldn't exist, everyone would be a volcel since they'd be just some bucks away from getting pussy.

 

[AutistSupremacist]

You become a honorary incel if you bang one

 

[SupremeSaint]

Depends on who you’re asking

 

[Pacel]

You become a honorary incel if you bang one

How so? You're just as unfuckable as before

 

[Bulbasaur]

no, you're still an incel

 

[Pacel]

Depends on who you’re asking

Well what would be the answer if I asked SupremeSaint then?

 

[Pacel]

no, you're still an incel

Yeah I think the same, kinda weird because you'd be a non-virgin incel

 

[SupremeSaint]

Well what would be the answer if I asked SupremeSaint then?

You would still be an incel at heart

 

[xxectrapieces]

Yeah, since you have to pay for sex. Meaning, the foids aren't giving it to you because they wanted to, they're doing it because they were paid to do so.

I guess it does mean you're no longer a virgin, but still, you had to pay for it.

 

[The Wolf]

No. I will do it, sooner or later. Is it legal where you are from?

 

[Pacel]

No. I will do it, sooner or later. Is it legal where you are from?

Yes, its legal so its safer and I can get a girl I like easier. Also considering doing it.

 

[Moth]

No. I will do it, sooner or later. Is it legal where you are from?

Do you really want to fund that lifestyle? Would she fuck you if you weren't shoving $1000 in her face? It's your choice at the end of the day but you should definitely ask yourself those questions before you go through with it.

 

[The Wolf]

Yes, its legal so its safer and I can get a girl I like easier. Also considering doing it.

In Germany it's also legal, in Sweden it wouldn't be which I think is strange. Also creates a black market which is worse for everyone.

 

[Pacel]

Do you really want to fund that lifestyle? Would she fuck you if you weren't shoving $1000 in her face? It's your choice at the end of the day but you should definitely ask yourself those questions before you go through with it.

Its not even that expensive lol. Its worth around 4 McDonalds meals per hour

 

[Pacel]

In Germany it's also legal, in Sweden it wouldn't be which I think is strange. Also creates a black market which is worse for everyone.

I agree, no point on making it illegal. Makes it worse for the customers since they're risking getting and in trouble and end up settling for lower and worse for the whores (not like I care about them though lol) since it gives them worse job conditions

 

[The Wolf]

Do you really want to fund that lifestyle? Would she fuck you if you weren't shoving $1000 in her face? It's your choice at the end of the day but you should definitely ask yourself those questions before you go through with it.

I'm on the fence. I would not do it in 2026. On the one hand she'd need to be good looking and it's likely it'll end in me thinking that was a "fucking" waste of money. I'd also probably not get hard, given my looks, I'm very self conscious and shy. Only reason I'd want to do it is to experience sex -- I'll never experience it for free. But I have always said "sex-escorts are not what I want, I want free sex, from a loving gf."

 

[Moth]

In Germany it's also legal, in Sweden it wouldn't be which I think is strange. Also creates a black market which is worse for everyone.

I've seen a lot of people talk about how an argument for banning prostitution is that most prostitutes are victims of human trafficking, but I feel like it's the opposite: Legalisation creates regulation which means that conditions are better for both client and the prostitute, it's similar to what Portugal has done with drugs.

 

[The Wolf]

I've seen a lot of people talk about how an argument for banning prostitution is that most prostitutes are victims of human trafficking, but I feel like it's the opposite: Legalisation creates regulation which means that conditions are better for both client and the prostitute, it's similar to what Portugal has done with drugs.

 

[Todd’s Pay Pig]

If you were to hire a prostitute and fucked her, would that mean that you're no longer an incel? I guess that would mean that you're no longer a virgin since you'd have experienced sex already but you're still the same person as before. You'll be just as attractive for women as before this (maybe even less if they find out you payed for sex) so you would still be unsuccessful when trying to get laid, which means you're still an incel. I personally think that having sex with prostitutes shouldn't count because if that were the case then incels wouldn't exist, everyone would be a volcel since they'd be just some bucks away from getting pussy.

You’re still an incel by our unique site definition or agreement which means you’re an incel from our perspective unless or until a woman voluntarily spreads her legs for you.

It doesn’t matter how many prostitutes you fuck as it pertains to removing your incel status to us because there was no genuine female validation of your worth as a man being had and received there.

Just a pay to play soulless transaction.

 

[The Wolf]

I agree, no point on making it illegal. Makes it worse for the customers since they're risking getting and in trouble and end up settling for lower and worse for the whores (not like I care about them though lol) since it gives them worse job conditions

yes

 

[Pacel]

I've seen a lot of people talk about how an argument for banning prostitution is that most prostitutes are victims of human trafficking, but I feel like it's the opposite: Legalisation creates regulation which means that conditions are better for both client and the prostitute, it's similar to what Portugal has done with drugs.

I agree, pimping should be illegal, prostitution should be legal.

 

[Pacel]

I'm on the fence. I would not do it in 2026. On the one hand she'd need to be good looking and it's likely it'll end in me thinking that was a "fucking" waste of money. I'd also probably not get hard, given my looks, I'm very self conscious and shy. Only reason I'd want to do it is to experience sex -- I'll never experience it for free. But I have always said "sex-escorts are not what I want, I want free sex, from a loving gf."

Same, fucking a prostitute wouldn't make me feel proud of myself at all. However I do find the ideal of having a hook up appealing. I also want a gf but just having casual sex sounds amazing to me too, sometimes even better than being committed to a relationship. I'm also shy so I also fear being too nervous and tense to actually enjoy paying for it lol

 

[Moth]

I'm on the fence. I would not do it in 2026. On the one hand she'd need to be good looking and it's likely it'll end in me thinking that was a "fucking" waste of money. I'd also probably not get hard, given my looks, I'm very self conscious and shy. Only reason I'd want to do it is to experience sex -- I'll never experience it for free. But I have always said "sex-escorts are not what I want, I want free sex, from a loving gf."

I've never escortmaxxed so I can't speak to the experience but I'd imagine it to be a hollow experience, a wan imitation of genuine loving sex which obviously can't be bought and can't be replicated, the emotional connection will never be there, the prostitute doesn't care about you, she's doing it for the money, isn't she?

But on the other hand, it's more than understandable that you'd want to experience sex at least one time in your life and this may be your only opportunity.

Ultimately, I'd recommend asking yourself this: How would you feel once the ordeal is over and the post-nut clarity hits? Would you feel regret? Do you think you wasted your time and money on a woman that doesn't care about you and doesn't contribute to society? But could you live with the knowledge knowing that you'll die without ever having sex with a woman?

 

[Moth]

Just a pay to play soulless transaction.

Escort'maxxing' in a nutshell.

 

[Moth]

I agree, pimping should be illegal, prostitution should be legal.

 

[cuddy]

no, you're still an incel

 

[Moth]

@Todd Thundercock You escortmaxxed, didn't ya? Was the sex worth it in the end? Was it what you hoped it was? Were you disappointed?

 

[Pacel]

the prostitute doesn't care about you, she's doing it for the money, isn't she?

Yeah I imagine this as something really mechanic, empty and probably not much better than jerking off. However, its the best/closest to real sex that some of us can get.

 

[cuddy]

I am 51 years old and I have only had sex twice in my life, both times with prostitutes, and both times were very negative experiences. I was probably unlucky in my choice of prostitutes, but the fact is that I never did it again. So, based on my experience, even though I am in favor of prostitution, it is not something I would recommend. But if someone decides to use the services of a prostitute, I would advise them to be sure to choose carefully who they hire.

 

[Pacel]

I am 51 years old and I have only had sex twice in my life, both times with prostitutes, and both times were very negative experiences. I was probably unlucky in my choice of prostitutes, but the fact is that I never did it again. So, based on my experience, even though I am in favor of prostitution, it is not something I would recommend. But if someone decides to use the services of a prostitute, I would advise them to be sure to choose carefully who they hire.

May I ask why were they negative experiences?

 

[TooSomething]

You’re still an incel by our unique site definition or agreement which means you’re an incel from our perspective unless or until a woman voluntarily spreads her legs for you.

It doesn’t matter how many prostitutes you fuck as it pertains to removing your incel status to us because there was no genuine female validation of your worth as a man being had and received there.

Just a pay to play soulless transaction.

What is a betabuxx situation then? I mean, in that case the foid also spreads her legs for thr man, because he is providing for her.

If she truely wanted you, she'd pick you up of the street, clothe you, feed you and spread her legs for you.
She would then either look for a job for you or simply provide for YOU.

One of my female cousins has done something very similar. Seriousely. She has found a dude who is apparently a Chsd in her eyes and he has already knocked her up three times.

She basically provides for the family and has gotten HIM a job. Some basic bitch stuff, so he can buy himself some nice stuff.

 

[Pacel]

What is a betabuxx situation then? I mean, in that case the foid also spreads her legs for thr man, because he is providing for her.

I guess its different because you're not paying directly for sex? You're paying for a relationship, for her time. Yes, you get to have sex with her but you aren't directly paying for it. Honestly though everyone always ends up paying for pussy, whether its a dinner, a gift or some other form of "tribute to appease the foid", so I guess that unless its done under a contract (not rlly a written contract but more like a business transaction / hiring of a service) you could count that as real sex.

 

[The Scarlet Prince]

No.

 

[Grodd]

no, you're still an incel

 

[Todd Thundercock]

@Todd Thundercock You escortmaxxed, didn't ya? Was the sex worth it in the end? Was it what you hoped it was? Were you disappointed?

The first few times were definitely worth it.

 

[Moth]

The first few times were definitely worth it.

I'm sure you've been asked to death. But on a fundamental level, what is the physical and emotional sensation of sex actually like? I know it'd be like explaining colour to a blind man but I'm fucking dying to know.

 

[rcnfive]

i want a prostitute so bad but im too much of a pussy.

on tryst they want pictures of my ID and work and shit, why the fuck do they want so much blackmail material?

 

[Todd’s Pay Pig]

What is a betabuxx situation then? I mean, in that case the foid also spreads her legs for thr man, because he is providing for her.

If she truely wanted you, she'd pick you up of the street, clothe you, feed you and spread her legs for you.
She would then either look for a job for you or simply provide for YOU.

One of my female cousins has done something very similar. Seriousely. She has found a dude who is apparently a Chsd in her eyes and he has already knocked her up three times.

She basically provides for the family and has gotten HIM a job. Some basic bitch stuff, so he can buy himself some nice stuff.

I think we generally consider that at least slightly more authentic and a type of ascension as even though the girl isn’t really into the buxxer on any truly deep level she will have his kids in most cases if either of them actually want any as happened with @Todd Thundercock cousin Scott I believe his name is.

Also such a woman is actually willing to live with the dude and will fuck him at least once every couple of months or if the bull allows it.

Prostitutes won’t have your kids or live with you so there’s that.

 

[StoryOfMyLaugh]

It certainly gives you permanent CUCKED status

 

[Pacel]

It certainly gives you permanent CUCKED status

Its 2025, you have to choose being being a cuck or an incel if you're not Chad lol

 

[cuddy]

May I ask why were they negative experiences?

The first prostitute, for starters, was at least 20 years older than she said in the newspaper ad. She was a woman in her fifties who, moreover, knew all the tricks of the trade. I was 19, a virgin, and also quite naive. In that woman's eyes, I must have looked like a considerable fool. I paid for 30 minutes, and she spent more than half the time washing my penis in the bidet. In other words, giving me a handjob! And, of course, as soon as I started to penetrate her, I came immediately.

The second prostitute was in her early twenties and even pretty, but she was quite haughty and unfriendly. I'm not sure, but I'd bet something that she was a college student. The whole time, she acted as if she were doing me a favor. As soon as I walked in, she said, “Did you bring the money?” I gave it to her, and then she said, “Go take a shower and wash your penis thoroughly.” As soon as I came out of the bathroom, she grabbed my penis and started rubbing it roughly. Then, with my penis erect, she put the condom on. I have a small penis, and it turned out that the condom didn't fit me. And then she complained. She said, “If you know you have a small one, why don't you bring your own condoms?” Damn, I think she's the one who should have condoms of different sizes. At least the first prostitute had smaller condoms. Since that condom was too loose and she was afraid it would slip off and I would cum inside her, she spent the whole time we were fucking (in the missionary position) holding the condom on my penis with two fingers, which was absolutely uncomfortable.​

 

[sellsword]

Wouldn't say so

 

[Martyros33]

You can only ascend by having sex with a hot, virgin, blonde teen girl. Only that counts as ascension.

So, no, you would still be incel.

 

[Manlet]

No,but it does make you a sexhaver so still fuck escortcels

 

[Uvertz]

I am 51 years old and I have only had sex twice in my life, both times with prostitutes, and both times were very negative experiences. I was probably unlucky in my choice of prostitutes, but the fact is that I never did it again. So, based on my experience, even though I am in favor of prostitution, it is not something I would recommend. But if someone decides to use the services of a prostitute, I would advise them to be sure to choose carefully who they hire.

I’m 34 years old, only had sex twice and only with escorts aswell.

 

[Pacel]

she spent the whole time we were fucking (in the missionary position) holding the condom on my penis with two fingers, which was absolutely uncomfortable.​

Damn that does sound like some awful experiences man Im sorry you had to go through that

 

[Pacel]

I’m 34 years old, only had sex twice and only with escorts aswell.

What was it like? Would you recommend it or nah

 

[OmegaRicecel]

By this logic you can also say that technically nobody is a incel because you can just rape foids

 

[markkram]

incels wouldn't exist, everyone would be a volcel since they'd be just some bucks away from getting pussy.

By that logic, everyone is a volcel, since theyre just one rape away from getting some pussy

 

[markkram]

By this logic you can also say that technically nobody is a incel because you can just rape foids

didnt see this post i just said the same thing my bad