Women dislike men with "mental illness, depression, can't cope, suicidal". Even if you are Chad, at best you can get some short dates and casual sex, but you won't be able to keep relationships for long and most women won't put up with your shit. If you show weakness to women on a regular basis, you can be sure any relationship you have with them won't last long, just look up nasty breakups some now redpilled or mgtow chads/chadlites had. Women eventually will always demand something from you, and most won't be "givers" in ways you would expect.
Also, imagine a woman magically appears in your life, who is 10/10 everything from personality to looks, and won't leave you no matter what. Ok, she can give you sex, hugs, cuddles, emotional support, pat your head all all the shit you would expect from them. But will this really make you less of a loser? Will this woman improve your overall independence, life stability, social skills etc? Will people respect you more for your individuality / merits just because this woman came to your life, or will people still believe you are a loser, and men will try to cuck you because they feel "superior" to you and entitled to your partner?