Where being bullied, or excluded, or unwanted forces the mind to be extra-selfish so they can feel they are repelling the forces that puts oneself at risk?
I think it does, but I think women are hyper sensitive to it because they're only safe so much as they are protected by men.
That's why women are in such need of validation because their biology tells them without the approval of men, or of the best men, then they are nothing.
And women try ot double down on being approved by being with the best of hte best guy because the lowest value guy may not stand a chance against high tier chad.
Life is kind of a cycle where we find problems just so that we can keep the gravy train of life in perfect sync/ solidity, and we estimate (with our primal mentality) the prominence of our graces not by how they are, but how they are accelerating/ spreading.
And in that we all expect perfection around us. When we don't have people who give it to us we get angry, and find ways to be of value.
Looksmaxxing/ NTmaxxing/ status, money maxxing etc. come from this.
I think it does, but I think women are hyper sensitive to it because they're only safe so much as they are protected by men.
That's why women are in such need of validation because their biology tells them without the approval of men, or of the best men, then they are nothing.
And women try ot double down on being approved by being with the best of hte best guy because the lowest value guy may not stand a chance against high tier chad.
Life is kind of a cycle where we find problems just so that we can keep the gravy train of life in perfect sync/ solidity, and we estimate (with our primal mentality) the prominence of our graces not by how they are, but how they are accelerating/ spreading.
And in that we all expect perfection around us. When we don't have people who give it to us we get angry, and find ways to be of value.
Looksmaxxing/ NTmaxxing/ status, money maxxing etc. come from this.
