Serious Does being incel add a level of comfort to your life?

[Nemo9065]

Think about it. Your life is already determined. No sex or friends. You can focus entirely on a career or a hobby. No one can stop you. Most normies and even Chad's I see become miserable in their 30s. No spare time for hobbies, tons of debt, tons of obligations to their snot nosed kids or their growing ugly wife. A incel could be in his 30s and really do what he likes with minimal debt. Debt really is a thing that only normies have.

 

[FrothySolutions]

What I like is sex with girls. I'd like to have some, someday.

 

[Dark-Hatred]

For me, I like it because it pisses of soyshits on twitter.

 

[Pinpoint]

please everyone say no

 

[Deleted member 20811]

please everyone say no

 

[Deleted member 17606]

No one here takes comfort in the fact that we are behind in life. That doesnt make me comfortable. Id rather be uncomfortable and achieve success in life then sit here and watch as others go through life around me. The thought that I missed teen love and the embrace of innocense causes me more discomfort and pain than anything ive thought of before.

 

[itsovERbrothER]

No sex or friends.

then no.

 

[TheSecondComing]

no

 

[PHp]

No, I wish I was handsome. There's no way anyone likes this miserable life

 

[Deleted member 16455]

What I like is sex with girls. I'd like to have some, someday.

 

[Deleted member 5712]

Comfort? No
Convenience? Yes

It is not comfortable for me to be alone on my birthday and not even get so much as a text because nobody knows I exist. It is, however, convenient for me to be at home all day because then I don't need to drive anywhere, don't need to fight traffic, don't need to get borderline drunk to have "fun", don't need to fake being glad when I get shitty presents, fake being polite to family members I haven't seen in decades.

There is nothing fun or happy about being an incel.
At most there are times in your life when you don't have to worry about taking other people's shit because you have nobody in your life.

 

[Billowel]

If only those hobbies could justify themselves...

 

[thebuddhacel]

We still can see some positive aspects in this shit life. But to be honest having sex regularly, or having a beautiful gf is the happiest experience in a man's life.

 

[Glokta]

I careermax as a I way of coping with life but frankly, I have no use for money aside from paying bills and buying the bare necessities to survive. I saved a decent amount (for someone living in Eastern Europe that is) but money is just ones and zeroes stored somewhere in a database. I feel no joy from being alive.

 

[Nothingness]

Yeas!

Im not slave of illusions and sins !

Im free.
No one has power over me. And im against evil - society seeing clearly that the west is evil

 

[Gymcelled]

I'll never get an STD. I'll never get divorce raped. It's also much less likely that I'll get falsely accused of rape.

Still I'd rather be taking all those risks a thousand times over just to be in a relationship and feel happy.

 

[EyesAreSoCold]

Think about it. Your life is already determined. No sex or friends. You can focus entirely on a career or a hobby. No one can stop you. Most normies and even Chad's I see become miserable in their 30s. No spare time for hobbies, tons of debt, tons of obligations to their snot nosed kids or their growing ugly wife. A incel could be in his 30s and really do what he likes with minimal debt. Debt really is a thing that only normies have.

Career and hobby depends on a successful sex life, I cant really focus on anything and just feel miserable all the time. The only comfort I get is that whenever I feel guilt or regret I can always think "Im an incel, I dont owe the world anything" and it goes away.

 

[Emba]

Being a bluepill Incel? No.
Being a blackpill Incel? Yes.

For me it's a matter of conservation of energy! No longer do i have to beg and grovel for something i cannot have. It's a relief.

Sure life still suxx. But at least i no longer have to pretend it can get better.

 

[Mik_TFL]

In a way you are correct, I've come to realize that doing stuff like traveling around the world for a year is much more accessible to us incels if we can acquire some money fist.

There is some kind of freedom that is granted when society rejects you, if anything, just not having to care about society or the future can be a weight off your shoulders... climate change, STD's, poverty, wealth inequality an unsustainable debt-based economy... all long term trends that are irrelevant to us.

There's this movie "Children of men" about how suddenly the fertility rate drops to 0 everywhere and humanity is on the brink of extinction because of it and most of the normies in the movie are depressed about it. I imagine us incels would remain psychologically unscathed, because human extinction just doesn't change out situation.

 

[TheReaper]

the knowledge that some things are already determined(no social life no gf in our cases) allows us to focus on what can be changed or improved, and I would say that this is one of the "incel perks" that will make our lifes more comfortable.

 

[WheelsofConfusion]

To some degree, but for the most part no. You absolutely cannot have a happy life at all if you have never experienced love. Idiots say “Love and sex don’t matter teehee” but literally everything is based around these things. People don’t just work and have a career just to do it. It’s why you don’t see many people older than 30 trying new things or picking up new interests. They are already satisfied by that age. When you’re young the tension of not having a romantic life is what drives you to achieve anything. Once you are satiated that goes away. If you remain in this state you will be a kid forever

 

[Rippa]

Think about it. Your life is already determined. No sex or friends. You can focus entirely on a career or a hobby. No one can stop you. Most normies and even Chad's I see become miserable in their 30s. No spare time for hobbies, tons of debt, tons of obligations to their snot nosed kids or their growing ugly wife. A incel could be in his 30s and really do what he likes with minimal debt. Debt really is a thing that only normies have.

Yes, it means I dont have to conform to society and dont feel the obligation to be nice to normies or women, I can just outright ignore them becaise they just wanna use me

 

[Shigechi]

No, knowing i will have to rope eventually does not bring me comfort.

 

[Neverbeentouchedcel]

I was looking at the facebooks of some former classmates and while I did feel a feeling of superority to them and their current situations, I am worried that maybe I am just a narcissist. I haven't career maxed or anything, it's just I'm free and relatively well off compared to them. I also thought a lot of them had bad taste.

 

[Evildоer]

No one can stop you.

True tbh, normies don't take me serious, and that's good for me, appear weak when you are strong, these fools don't realise i have become the way

 

[needsolution]

What I like is sex with girls. I'd like to have some, someday.