Does anyone have a problem with sounding aggressive when they don’t mean to?

[Clavicus Vile]

Everyone always says I sound aggressive or mad at times when I’m not, to me it just sounds like I’m playfully messing around like if I make a sarcastic joke, but others think I’m getting mad so they react with aggression too. I don’t understand why it’s like this, I literally don’t even be angry I just be playing. Is there a way to fix this? I’ve also been told I have a monotone, flat voice as well does that have something to do with it?

This happens a lot and often causes arguments, even if I say something that was meant to be neutral it still sounds aggressive, and I don’t even get loud either, I stay really calm when in conflict, if someone is yelling at me I’ll still be talking calmly. I’m still told I sound aggressive though. Is there a fix to this shit? I end up hurting people’s feelings when I didn’t intend to.

 

[InceldianWarrior]

can you say it again but calmly this time please

 

[Friezacel]

I sometimes sound piss oft but rarely angry. I would sound like a clown when im angry because of my subhuman voice

 

[Emba]

Wtf do you mean by that?

 

[blackpillednigga]

same. ive been told by my parents and some acquaintances a few times that I sound angry and I figured thats the reason they dont laugh at my jokes or interact with me as much, along with my ugly face

 

[Nemesis]

I have a problem with my voice. When I want to say things normaly I scream, but when I want to scream something I talk

 

[InternalJizzz]

I have a problem where I sound too mellow when my intention is to be aggressive

 

[based_meme]

No, I have a problem with stupid people, and with people interpreting things based on what triggers them. Many people only listen to what they want to hear. That's why I rarely engage people (IRL) with discussing serious subjects, unless I know them personally.

 

[Left4DeadKoala]

can you say it again but calmly this time please

 

[Left4DeadKoala]

No I just sound super monotone all the time