Everyone always says I sound aggressive or mad at times when I’m not, to me it just sounds like I’m playfully messing around like if I make a sarcastic joke, but others think I’m getting mad so they react with aggression too. I don’t understand why it’s like this, I literally don’t even be angry I just be playing. Is there a way to fix this? I’ve also been told I have a monotone, flat voice as well does that have something to do with it?
This happens a lot and often causes arguments, even if I say something that was meant to be neutral it still sounds aggressive, and I don’t even get loud either, I stay really calm when in conflict, if someone is yelling at me I’ll still be talking calmly. I’m still told I sound aggressive though. Is there a fix to this shit? I end up hurting people’s feelings when I didn’t intend to.
This happens a lot and often causes arguments, even if I say something that was meant to be neutral it still sounds aggressive, and I don’t even get loud either, I stay really calm when in conflict, if someone is yelling at me I’ll still be talking calmly. I’m still told I sound aggressive though. Is there a fix to this shit? I end up hurting people’s feelings when I didn’t intend to.
