Serious does anyone else say the dumbest shit or act weird during social interactions?

[Fuckmyexistence]

i fully am not built for a social life at all, whenever i talk to people i either just stay in my own bubble and not engage in conversation, making me look weird af, or ill start getting too comfortable and say the dumbest shit that sounds funny or witty when i say it in my head, but when i say it out loud i just confuse everyone around me and embarrass myself.

sometimes i wander if its just me, and i keep saying "i wont embarrass myself next time" only to do it again, and again, and again.

ive recently noticed that it is me, i am not made for social interactions, whatever i tell myself otherwise is just cope to help me sleep at night, fuck my life.

Is anyone else like this? or am i really that fucked up

 

[Henry de Montherlant]

I used to be like that, but tbh, it's all "in your head".

Most of the time, people don't even care about the thing you regret for hours after the social interaction. They are too busy regreting their own failures. Once you realize that, you start to not give a shit about anything.

Not giving a shit during social interactions is the key to stop looking like an awkward weirdo. Up a certain level, when you're not awkward anymore, you can even play to be awkward and make people laugh on a meta level.

 

[GIGALUL]

I used to be like that, but tbh, it's all "in your head".

Most of the time, people don't even care about the thing you regret for hours after the social interaction. They are too busy regreting their own failures. Once you realize that, you start to not give a shit about anything.

Not giving a shit during social interactions is the key to stop looking like an awkward weirdo. Up a certain level, when you're not awkward anymore, you can even play to be awkward and make people laugh on a meta level.

as a mentalcel who can relate op this guy is right, there is being legitimately awkward, but a lot of the times, you're just a mentalcel who thinks he's awkward and then due to that belief it makes it true. you have to learn to stop multiplying negative thoughts in your head

 

[TheIncelStaresBack]

Give us an example OP, to make sure you’re not making mountains out of mole hills.

 

[ihavenoclue]

As long as you believe in it, it will be true

 

[ColdLightOfDay]

i fully am not built for a social life at all, whenever i talk to people i either just stay in my own bubble and not engage in conversation, making me look weird af, or ill start getting too comfortable and say the dumbest shit that sounds funny or witty when i say it in my head, but when i say it out loud i just confuse everyone around me and embarrass myself.

sometimes i wander if its just me, and i keep saying "i wont embarrass myself next time" only to do it again, and again, and again.

ive recently noticed that it is me, i am not made for social interactions, whatever i tell myself otherwise is just cope to help me sleep at night, fuck my life.

Is anyone else like this? or am i really that fucked up

Give some examples of times you fucked up and maybe we can help point out where you were going wrong.

 

[Fuckmyexistence]

Give some examples of times you fucked up and maybe we can help point out where you were going wrong.

Give us an example OP, to make sure you’re not making mountains out of mole hills.

shit where do i start, i cant think of any specific situations or moments, its just a culmination of me acting dopey and saying weird shit, i cant think of any specifics and even if i did you may not understand it because the slang and culture we have in suburban london is very different than in other parts of the country or the world, its just an odd situation.

 

[ColdLightOfDay]

shit where do i start, i cant think of any specific situations or moments, its just a culmination of me acting dopey and saying weird shit, i cant think of any specifics and even if i did you may not understand it because the slang and culture we have in suburban london is very different than in other parts of the country or the world, its just an odd situation.

I live in London so I doubt it will confuse me. If you can’t remember anything specific yourself then there can’t be anything too horrific and I wouldn’t worry about it, the people you were speaking to will have likely forgot about it as well.