Venting Does anyone else hate people who desperately try to start conversation ?

[8CbZA-kHFu6pFgE*]

These types of people are so fucking cancerous. They just cant get a hint that you want to be left alone, you can just giving them dry and short answers and they will still annoy you and try to talk to you. My grandma is a prime example of that, she always desperately wants to have conversation about random bullshit that i dont even care about and communicating with her is also pointless because she will either forget what i said an hour later or she just doesnt care when i tell her i dont like something about her mannerisms. At least my grandpa is chill and leaves me alone usually

 

[ToBurble&Pine]

I just walk away

 

[ToBurble&Pine]

These types of people are so fucking cancerous

 

[8CbZA-kHFu6pFgE*]

I just walk away

hard to do that when it happens in your own house

 

[Pancakecel]

Do your family ever ask how you're doing etc. or is it just random shit they try to talk about?

 

[8CbZA-kHFu6pFgE*]

Do your family ever ask how you're doing etc. or is it just random shit they try to talk about?

both, i just tell them im okay because no point in talking to them about BP. But thry also sometimes randomly try to talk about shit

 

[AutistSupremacist]

Fr just leave me the fuck alone bruh. I'm more than ok with a " Hi, how are you" "good" dialogue

 

[sk.feelsdevil]

Idk, it is pretty normal to do so. I think they call this being socially approachable, I learned about this shit when I was like 14.
Is it annoying? Yes. Does it signal to others that you are emotionally well and that they should not get institutionalized? Also yes. Treat it like brushing your teeth, but in a social setting. Normieniggers feel a drive to tell you about shit and for you to tell them about your own shit. Just talk about the weather or how much politics sucks.

 

[BricABrac]

Maybe le redditors are right. You're just socially abrasive and that's why girls don't want to talk to you.

 

[8CbZA-kHFu6pFgE*]

Idk, it is pretty normal to do so.

its also normal in society to treat sub Chad men like absolute garbage, doesnt mean its good

 

[8CbZA-kHFu6pFgE*]

Maybe le redditors are right. You're just socially abrasive and that's why girls don't want to talk to you.

A few more inches of height and a more chiseled face and my behaviour would be seen as mysterious and cool

 

[sk.feelsdevil]

its also normal in society to treat sub Chad men like absolute garbage, doesnt mean its good

Never claimed that it was good. It is just something you must do if you want to live amongst people, just like brushing your teeth.

 

[Dead End]

Yes, I fucking despise this. My cunt coworkers and boss occasionally do this. My parents will say things to me constantly at home and become annoyed if I act overtly dismissive. I can predict what they are about to say before I walk through the door. I wish I could tell everyone in my life to just be completely silent unless it's absolutely necessary.

They never say anything interesting or of value, it's always retarded things like "you had a long day at work" from my parents or "how was your weekend?" from my coworkers. Nothing interesting is discussed. Neither party cares about the other's weekend, for instance.

 

[8CbZA-kHFu6pFgE*]

. It is just something you must do if you want to live amongst people

There is a difference between having a normal, smooth conversation and some nigga desperatly trying to talk to you despite making clear i dont want to. Also i dont wanna live amongst people, at least not around people who annoy me

 

[sk.feelsdevil]

Also i dont wanna live amongst people, at least not around people who annoy me

Then consider moving to a more isolated place. I am assuming that you mean your grandmother is trying to strike up conversations. Idk what to tell you, that is just how normies behave. Comes in the package.

 

[Sex-Starved Beast]

What if it was your busty waify constantly trying to talk to you and get your attention?

I don't mind them, it's good to have more social opportunities. I'm more used to people avoiding me, so it's not bad when someone tries to talk.

 

[Todd Thundercock]

Remember that if you attempted the same with women, that's harassment.

 

[8CbZA-kHFu6pFgE*]

Yes, I fucking despise this. My cunt coworkers and boss occasionally do this. My parents will say things to me constantly at home and become annoyed if I act overtly dismissive. I can predict what they are about to say before I walk through the door. I wish I could tell everyone in my life to just be completely silent unless it's absolutely necessary.

They never say anything interesting or of value, it's always retarded things like "you had a long day at work" from my parents or "how was your weekend?" from my coworkers. Nothing interesting is discussed. Neither party cares about the other's weekend, for instance.

I admire my uncle for being apatahetic to everyone and not speak more than absolutely neccessary

 

[8CbZA-kHFu6pFgE*]

What if it was your busty waify constantly trying to talk to you and get your attention?

I don't mind them, it's good to have more social opportunities. I'm more used to people avoiding me, so it's not bad when someone tries to talk.

Would be different rules then

Id love it at first, but after some time i would grow tired. I have a very low bullshit tolerance nowadays

 

[Reapercel]

Nobody cares to speak to me

 

[Dead End]

I admire my uncle for being apatahetic to everyone and not speak more than absolutely neccessary

Everyone should only talk when necessary, or if they legitimately have something interesting or funny to discuss. So many people just attempt to force pointless, uninteresting conversations just for the sake of it.

 

[Dead End]

Nobody cares to speak to me

Not even your parents? If so, I'd consider you lucky in that regard.

 

[poorenglishcel]

Nobody cares to speak to me

This lmao

 

[poorenglishcel]

Talk havers

 

[Hoodpreet]

My dad NEVER shuts the fuck up. Though he’s not necessarily a “conversation starter” always. Frequently he’ll just shout nonsense or gibberish at me when I enter his field of vision

 

[Dead End]

Talk havers
View attachment 1641338

Conversations with strangers and family aren't enjoyable, you aren't missing out. I would rather live in silence at work and at home than have people try and converse with me.

 

[Trident]

Depends what they're talking about. If they try to get information about your life then yeah i don't like it.

 

[8CbZA-kHFu6pFgE*]

My dad NEVER shuts the fuck up. Though he’s not necessarily a “conversation starter” always. Frequently he’ll just shout nonsense or gibberish at me when I enter his field of vision

My boss also loves to talk all day about stuff he experienced. I like my boss and he is kind and generous, but once he starts talking, there is no end in sight

 

[Glassness]

Iv never had anyone true to talk to me in my life Iv always started first

 

[BricABrac]

A few more inches of height and a more chiseled face and my behaviour would be seen as mysterious and cool

Truke

 

[BricABrac]

Iv never had anyone true to talk to me in my life Iv always started first

I've had lonely old people strike up conversations in lines sometimes.

I think that's gonna be me someday so I humor them and get some practice in.

If I was better looking or taller I wouldn't get that opportunity because I'd be talking with my girlfriend or something.

 

[Alvin31]

These types of people are so fucking cancerous. They just cant get a hint that you want to be left alone, you can just giving them dry and short answers and they will still annoy you and try to talk to you. My grandma is a prime example of that, she always desperately wants to have conversation about random bullshit that i dont even care about and communicating with her is also pointless because she will either forget what i said an hour later or she just doesnt care when i tell her i dont like something about her mannerisms. At least my grandpa is chill and leaves me alone usually

Women always annoying when they are old while men have more chill attitude

 

[VersoffenerAssi]

That's foid nature. They love pointless small talk

 

[Skelly]

Depends on if they genuinely want to talk with me or if they're a narcy motherfucker who justs wants the attention for the ego boost

 

[Dead End]

My boss also loves to talk all day about stuff he experienced. I like my boss and he is kind and generous, but once he starts talking, there is no end in sight

My boss today asked me if I knew who the Spartans were and if I have ever met any of them. I told him that they existed over a thousand years ago and he asked if I knew any "survivors" He's obsessed with asking random questions to me. He is an ESL, so all conversation with him is highly confusing and frustrating by default.

 

[Monikak]

You are talking about me

 

[FuckYou]

No tries to talk to me lol.

 

[Sir Silentium]

Nobody cares to speak to me

 

[Pikacel]

These types of people are so fucking cancerous. They just cant get a hint that you want to be left alone, you can just giving them dry and short answers and they will still annoy you and try to talk to you. My grandma is a prime example of that, she always desperately wants to have conversation about random bullshit that i dont even care about and communicating with her is also pointless because she will either forget what i said an hour later or she just doesnt care when i tell her i dont like something about her mannerisms. At least my grandpa is chill and leaves me alone usually

Non NT and overcel trait: You’re the guy who kept desperately trying to start conversation

 

[AdamWarlock12]

Este tipo de personas son un cáncer. No entienden que quieres que te dejen en paz. Puedes darles respuestas secas y cortas y aun así te molestarán e intentarán hablar contigo. Mi abuela es un buen ejemplo de eso: siempre quiere conversar desesperadamente sobre tonterías que ni siquiera me importan, y comunicarse con ella tampoco tiene sentido porque o se olvida de lo que dije una hora después o simplemente no le importa cuando le digo que no me gusta algo de sus gestos. Al menos mi abuelo es tranquilo y normalmente me deja en paz.

Nah, They help me socialize, I'm terrible at it

 

[Nithingr]

Non NT and overcel trait: You’re the guy who kept desperately trying to start conversation

I be desperately starting conversations out of loneliness then immediately regretting it and am unable to escape, I feel impolite to not maintain the conversation. Retard

 

[romanstock]

They're narcissists. They just use people as verbal battering poles to reflect their narcissism. They don't perceive that you're not interested because they don't even perceive you as a fellow human. They're the centre of the universe, you're just some vague background character that can be used. People who talk a lot are always bad people. They can come across as friendly but deeper down they're always bad and selfish. That rule has never failed in all my knowings of peoples.

 

[Dead End]

They're narcissists. They just use people as verbal battering poles to reflect their narcissism. They don't perceive that you're not interested because they don't even perceive you as a fellow human. They're the centre of the universe, you're just some vague background character that can be used. People who talk a lot are always bad people. They can come across as friendly but deeper down they're always bad and selfish. That rule has never failed in all my knowings of peoples.

Interesting. Would you say your rule still holds true on here? As in do you find people who post frequently to be bad people?

 

[Misogynist Vegeta]

No, I wish somebody would want to have a conversation with me.

 

[Dead End]

No, I wish somebody would want to have a conversation with me.

But the majority of conversations held by the average person are just pointless wastes of time, wouldn't you agree?

"How was your weekend?", "How do you like the weather?", "How is your family?", etc.

Nothing interesting is discussed. It's just an exercise in talking for the sake of talking.

 

[romanstock]

Interesting. Would you say your rule still holds true on here? As in do you find people who post frequently to be bad people?

My rule only applies to real life.

 

[Hermes]

Its annoying as hell

 

[8CbZA-kHFu6pFgE*]

No, I wish somebody would want to have a conversation with me.

You wish until you dont