Discussion Does anyone else get debate or conflict fatigue

[Pikacel]

Where instead of constantly arguing or trying to assert yourself you just check out and become a passive bitch or avoid said person/subject altogether. Even if it’s better for you to keep trying?

This happens to me a lot, defeat is better than struggle

Maybe it’s a low T trait

 

[Pancakecel]

There's no point arguing with normfags, ultimately no matter what you say, they will stick to their delusion.

 

[PersonalityChad]

Me. I'm too low energy for this shit

 

[AutistSupremacist]

Me. I'm too low energy for this shit

 

[AutistSupremacist]

Especially when the argument is about dumbshit

 

[Pikacel]

There's no point arguing with normfags, ultimately no matter what you say, they will stick to their delusion.

In general I don’t have the resilience to try hard for months and months. I always burn out. Whether it’s dealing with people, trying to learn something etc

Me. I'm too low energy for this shit

I think access to pussy is needed to have enough energy

 

[Taboo Buster]

It happens. Sometimes you just get tuckered out, or you see that your opponent is just taking you for a ride on the merry-go-round.
I don't enjoy arguing for argument's sake. If you can make me see your point, congrats. You've done something most have failed at. I learned something from the exchange, so it was worthwhile.
But then there are times where your opponent is wrong, everybody knows it, yet the bozo keeps fighting, and it dawns on you that you are trying to use logic to convince a duck to stop quacking. I just say, whatever, and move on.

Hey, this is my 100th post! Do I win anything?

 

[Chaos;BrutaLr2]

Where instead of constantly arguing or trying to assert yourself you just check out and become a passive bitch or avoid said person/subject altogether. Even if it’s better for you to keep trying?

This happens to me a lot, defeat is better than struggle

Maybe it’s a low T trait

Honestly, I'm the opposite. All I want to do is debate with normiefags (not retarded things like politics lol.) You probably lack motivation from brainfog or something. A irregular sleep schedule, excessive porn use, and depression all can affect motivation and mood. It could also just be personality differences, (more agreeable, less exterverted, etc.)

 

[SupremeSaint]

I realized arguing is pointless and futile

 

[SupremeSaint]

it brings you nothinh. most people are too stupid to grasp a different and true perspective when it isn't mainstream

Unfortunate reality

 

[Pikacel]

Honestly, I'm the opposite. All I want to do is debate with normiefags (not retarded things like politics lol.) You probably lack motivation from brainfog or something. A irregular sleep schedule, excessive porn use, and depression all can affect motivation and mood. It could also just be personality differences, (more agreeable, less exterverted, etc.)

Welcome fresh GrAY

It isn’t just debates tbh. Seems like I have to struggle hard in order to get basic shit done

 

[soft]

Yeah I just ignore people.

Maybe it’s a low T trait

I think it's a matter of experience. Trying to convince some people is pointless, some things must be experienced first hand to accept the truth.

 

[Chaos;BrutaLr2]

Welcome fresh GrAY

It isn’t just debates tbh. Seems like I have to struggle hard in order to get basic shit done

Thank you,

Yeah that's a hallmark side effect of depression (not surprising considering you're on incels.is lol). At one point I had little energy to do basic stuff and still do but quitting porn and having a consistent sleep schedule have helped.

 

[FrenchcelNeverbegan]

Especially when the argument is about dumbshit

they always argue dude like they can t speak normally they always have to contradict you when you say something just to sound smart , i m lucky to have one friend that just likes to talk without debating like a retard every time bro...... My mom is like that kind of always trying to argue..

 

[Emba]

There's no point arguing with normfags, ultimately no matter what you say, they will stick to their delusion.

 

[Wretched Thing]

let chaos reign on the INTERNET

 

[LeFrenchCel]

Pretty much happens when you grow up in a family where everyone is stubborn af and will never admit they're wrong even if they're proven wrong and will belittle you for even dare think they're in the wrong

Having a mentally abusive family makes you tired of debate and arguing

 

[Todd Thundercock]

Pretty much happens when you grow up in a family where everyone is stubborn af and will never admit they're wrong even if they're proven wrong and will belittle you for even dare think they're in the wrong

Having a mentally abusive family makes you tired of debate and arguing

Indeed.

I've never seen the purpose of debate beyond egotistical nonsense. You're not going to convince people to agree with you. I've never considered it listening to these blowhards that go on about what great debaters they are.

 

[Dead End]

When I had some friends in school I would constantly argue with them. I argue with my parents sometimes now. I don't like arguing for its own sake, but feel the need to assert my opinion when I disagree with the other person on a topic which happens frequently. I have always generally been a very critical and negative person.